No sex is no fun!

[ma_guy]

Aqua - There are a lot of possibilities. Maybe he's just immature and after "conquering" he's decided he doesn't need any more (i.e. the "thrill of the chase" and all.). He may just have a very slow libido. There are thousands of possibilities.

It seems as though you two just are sexually compatible. As others have said - end it. How much longer are you willing to go on like this? Your frustrated now. In another year you'll hate him entirely. Life is to short to build up that kind of resentment so early.

Good luck!

 

[AquaGrlTO]

Thanks for the advise Wiggles...(PC and all)...yeah I think it's time to leave. However, as for living together...we don't...and even if I did I couldn't keep on living with him...seeing him with other people would be too painful...

 

[Puddles The Wonder Poodle]

Its just not my time of the year.

 

[PumpkinSmasher]

I think we are in the process of breaking up. I did however tell him my problems, and he didn't care. He said that he wasn't about to change for anyone...he said our relationship is dead because we've been dating for so long and so on...

It sounds as if you know what you need to do. The worst part about dating is breaking up and thinking " I wasted ____ months/years on this creep".

 

[AquaGrlTO]

What are you talking about POODLE?

 

[PumpkinSmasher]

p.s congrats on your 30th post. you non-virgin you.

 

[AquaGrlTO]

Oh, so that's how that works! I was wondering why I was categorized as a virgin...I even checked out how to change my settings.

I think the hardest part will be missing the routine I had with this person...any spare time I had he'd be there. We could just bum around and not care...until he got a little too comfortable with bumming around...and I mean TOO comfortable.

 

[PumpkinSmasher]

Its time to turn the page and start the next chapter.

 

[AquaGrlTO]

I guess that's a good way of putting it...it's just a difficult process.
I was even tempted to call today but I was strong and I DIDN'T!!!!
I'm so proud of myself.