No real time joy for me yet

[Brandii]

So, for interested parties... this is where I'm currently at in my BDSM experience. Nowhere! Still experiencing no real time action.
I am back in contact with B my first mentor (American) and I still get great delight from meeting his demands, which are getting somewhat risque I might add. I am writing a BDSM story with another Dom (Australian) I met on Collarme. He is getting me to write the sub's part while he is.. of course.. the Dom. And then of course there is J, my local (chosen) Dom who is driving me mad because I want to scene with him and think I can really be sexual with him and the man is just never there for me. I've told him I like him and that I can envision meeting his needs but he is making no effort to connect with me apart from the occasional text asking when will I be online again. He doesn't want me to ring him, preferring instead that he ring me... which just makes me wonder WHY.
I'm beginning to think I'm never going to be a real time sub to a Dom I will grow to adore. Should move to America.

 

[JupitersGirl]

No, but you do need to move on, IMHO.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

No, but you do need to move on, IMHO.

Second the motion.

 

[Yang4yin]

Are you in the ACT? I know someone who runs a BDSM group in Canberra who might be able to help you find someone. PM me if you're interested.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Ah, give the non-responsive one a miss....classic sign of being married, though it may not be for him....regardless, it seems he is just using you for his online amusement/ego stroking and has no intention of going any further. Hang in there, and yes, broaden your horizons as you are with the one in US...maybe even try Europe or anywhere someone shows interest and you seem to click with. If it is meant to be, the problem of distance can and will be worked out.

Catalina

 

[sexycaz22]

Hang in there, dear.

For a while now, like you, I have had no real time joy......until three weeks ago....

It will happen, just take your time, talk to several Doms, and somewhere on the horizon, it will happen without you realising it.

Good luck.

Caz