No Pre-cum?

[Rrrosyn]

It's not quite a How To, but more of a How Come.

My fiance has no pre-cum. He's the only guy I have ever been with who is bone dry right up to the point of ejaculation. Nothing from an hour of teasing, not a dribble from prostrate stimulation, nothing! I cannot in any way shape or form cause him to drip.

He has nice healthy looking cum. It varies a bit in thickness depending on how long it has been since his last orgasm and his diet. But the pre-ejaculatory fluid is just non-existant.

I know he's healthy. Just wondering if there is a reason, or a way to cause it, etc.

 

[Eilan]

My husband tends to produce quite a bit of pre-cum. My ex, however, never seemed to produce any.

I'm not really sure. I'm going to call it one of those "your mileage may vary" situations. I'd say that's it's probably just the way he is.

 

[Rrrosyn]

My husband tends to produce quite a bit of pre-cum. My ex, however, never seemed to produce any.

I'm not really sure. I'm going to call it one of those "your mileage may vary" situations. I'd say that's it's probably just the way he is.

Oh I know he's healthy and ok. Just gotta wonder why. Or how common. can it become a problem later? Ya know... questions in the head swirling.

 

[Vivid]

I rarely, if ever, produce precum. I don't think it's an odd thing. Just different.

 

[yoshimitsu]

I recently started doing man kegles (if that's the right word for it) Basically flexing those muscles down there. I noticed I start pumping out precum even if I'm not turned on. I am curious if he would do the same.
Wouldn't worry about it though. Maybe split the lube bill with him 60/40 or something

 

[Rrrosyn]

Vivid: Thanks. And kewl sig-line.

I recently started doing man kegles (if that's the right word for it) Basically flexing those muscles down there. I noticed I start pumping out precum even if I'm not turned on. I am curious if he would do the same.
Wouldn't worry about it though. Maybe split the lube bill with him 60/40 or something

I all ready have him doing penis kung fu. Actually a series of exercises that flex the muscles in that area. I think there are three different excerises and one has two steps. He can actually orgasm and clench his pubic muscle enough not to ejaculate at all. But he says he has never had precum. Didn't even know what I was talking about when I asked.

There's no need for lube. I can make enough all by myself if he does things right. (So why do we have over 12 varieties of lube and lotions? )

 

[M's girl]

..... There's no need for lube. I can make enough all by myself if he does things right. (So why do we have over 12 varieties of lube and lotions? )

12 Varieties? Wow! Well, not every man produces pre-cum all the time and some never do (as by your example). I found that it sometimes also depends on their 'state of arousal'. Plus.... I think that there is pe-cum sometimes you don't notice, for instance when you are (already) fucking or giving him a BJ. You won't notice the pre-cum although it could be there. That's why they warn about pregnancy with the pull-out-before-ejaculation method as a way of birth control.

M does produce pre-cum, but not all of the time, or maybe I just don't notice because I'm giving him a BJ or so. But I know, for him, some teasing, a little light spanking and some dirty talk will do the job with the pre-cum..

I don't think it is or going to be a problem if your man does not produce pre-cum. I guess it's the same difference with some women producing lots of natural lube and others stay almost dry...

 

[Pyro Paul]

its pefectly normal, he is just a person whos prostate does not produce a high level of pre ejaculate. in truth, the pre-cum is not supposed to really seep that much out of the penis, it is supposed to be a lube for the urethra so that the semanal fluid and semen will have a better chance of being more successful. even so, all it is, is basic sugars and an alkilien chemical form. (to counter act the acidity of the vagina.)

This is just a situation that people vary. another example of this is of women 'squirting' and others just driping. both are perfectly healthy but one is more rare than the other.

 

[Steel_Cock]

I only produce a little pre-cum myself, I wouldn't worry about it, all men differ in these things.

 

[kinky shy girl]

my boyfriend never produces pre-cum even when he's really aroused. i don't mind at all.

i had an ex-bf who produced A LOT of precum. i think i prefer no pre-cum.

 

[dcraz]

Precum???

I produce precum some of the time, but not all of the time. It has more to do with my state of arousal as others have mentioned before me. Having said this, for me, it is truly a state of arousal, which is not the same thing as how horny or hard I am. I can be really horny, hard as a rock and ready to explode with no precum at all.

I have been known to produce a great deal of precum even when not fully hard. There are lots of things that cause this state of excitement. A really sexy voice and some nasty talk, special strokes or touches in all the right places, getting to stroke or touch her in all the right places, etc. Even sexy chat or reading a really hot story can do it to me. And when I am really aroused, I can produce lots of it. Enough to drip or lube myself completely if you know what I mean.

My wife goes nuts when I get really wet like that. She sees it as a reward because she knows I cannot control it. I cannot produce it even if I wanted to if I am not in the right state of arousal. So she looks at it as a job well done on her part. A validation of sorts for how hot she is making me. The hard part for me then (pardon the bad pun), is controlling her enough to make it last for awhile and enjoy the moment since she gets REALLY aggressive with me once I start leaking

 

[Rrrosyn]

Thank you!

I just want to thank everyone who replied.

I think Pyro explained it best. I had been wondering about the lack of base since I am very acidic. But it might just be inside where it is supposed to be.

And... a special thank you to dcraz for helping me figure out why I was wondering about this to begin with. I miss that reward of knowing he can't help himself or prevent it. Especially since he can prevent ejaculation upon orgasm. I've been missing that "sign" of his lack of control.

Damn! I am going to have to actually look into his eyes instead of his cock now!

 

[dcraz]

And... a special thank you to dcraz for helping me figure out why I was wondering about this to begin with. I miss that reward of knowing he can't help himself or prevent it. Especially since he can prevent ejaculation upon orgasm. I've been missing that "sign" of his lack of control.

Damn! I am going to have to actually look into his eyes instead of his cock now!

Rrrosyn,

Thank you for the kind words. Your man is a lucky man indeed to have someone so passionate and tuned to the joys of giving pleasure. There is nothing like being so turned on, reaching such an intense state of arousal as to not be able to control something so primal. It is a sure sign we are both enjoying ourselves immensely.

Good luck on your quest for the primal ooze... With your desire, I have no doubt you will be able to help him reach your mutual goal!

 

[Rrrosyn]

Rrrosyn,

Thank you for the kind words. Your man is a lucky man indeed to have someone so passionate and tuned to the joys of giving pleasure. There is nothing like being so turned on, reaching such an intense state of arousal as to not be able to control something so primal. It is a sure sign we are both enjoying ourselves immensely.

Good luck on your quest for the primal ooze... With your desire, I have no doubt you will be able to help him reach your mutual goal!

You're welcome. It was the answer to the part of the question I didn't know I needed to ask.

 

[5532maw]

another issue

just jump in late on this topic, i do not and never have produced pre-cum in any volume. on the other end of the equation i began experiencing a condition called "retrograde ejaculation" about five years ago. it is when a male has an orgasm and ejaculate doesn't it flows into the bladder instead. on the lighter side my wife discovered this in exactly the way you would expect, i.e. i came and she didn't get a mouthful. my doctor at the time said this is a fairly common issue with middle aged men who have had a vasectomy and is more common in diabetic men, WOW i hit the jackpot by being all three of those.

 

[Rrrosyn]

just jump in late on this topic, i do not and never have produced pre-cum in any volume. on the other end of the equation i began experiencing a condition called "retrograde ejaculation" about five years ago. it is when a male has an orgasm and ejaculate doesn't it flows into the bladder instead. on the lighter side my wife discovered this in exactly the way you would expect, i.e. i came and she didn't get a mouthful. my doctor at the time said this is a fairly common issue with middle aged men who have had a vasectomy and is more common in diabetic men, WOW i hit the jackpot by being all three of those.

Thank you for that information. He's not older nor "fixed" (I am) but he does have diabetes in his family. I will definately keep a watch on this and bring it up next time he has a physical. I also know one of our "plays" can cause this condition, though it isn't supposed to unless I smack him around.

Will keep an eye open for diabetes though. I have pre-diabetes, meaning I diet to keep my sugars normal. It may be late but the info could save a lot of medical problems down the road.

 

[eunuch]

I leaked like a garden hose...

I used to leak pre-cum like an elephant with a cold. At times I worried that I had a leaking bladder contributing to it. Talked to Dr. He tested. Nope just lots of juice before the big gush. I've soaked through handkerchefs tucked in my shorts when at strip clubs. I look like I'm kin to a slug or something.

When I got around to cuming I usually did so in buckets. When wife and I were having trouble getting pregnent I had to deliver a sample to the MakeABabyDoctor. He made the comment that he needed only one ejaculate sample... I told him it was just one. He asked if I felt dehydrated afterwards...