No more pareclubs for me.

[Saiyaman]

It was eight years ago that I first discovered a particular local Erotic nightclub, which is where couples and single ladies frequent to have a "pants off" night out. Not like brothel where one has to pay for the hour, you get an entrance fee which includes drinks, snacks and condoms and you can stay as long as you want.

I found it a revelation, you'd find women there who could have been your neighbor or cashier girl in the local supermarket. Normal everyday women, no stuffed silicone breasts or pumped up collagen lips. And most important of all: NO TIME LIMIT. (I'm pretty sure that those who have been at a red light district or have used an escort service know what I'm talking about.)

It was at that club that I experienced real sex, not the kind where it's "Shoot your spunk and get out." Believe me, having gone through a reverse gangbang with five women who ravished me completely is one memory I'll always cherish.

I then went through a disastrous relationship where I pretty much from the get-go found out that she wasn't the one for me and my work times were changed which meant that I almost had no opportunity to go to that club.

And when I did find the opportunity to go, I became increasingly aware that things were changing, the single women became scarce and from what I was told that was because of internet dating making it easier for them to find guys to have a casual fuck with. So I figured I'd give that a go but it only cost me a dumpload of money and no dates whatsoever. ( Ladies please explain this to me: If a woman puts up an ad which says that she's hot to trot and would love to get it right away, then why do they act all insulted when I'm all enthusiastic about wanting to come over and fuck them? It simply doesn't make sense.)

The last few times I went to that club, I left with blue balls because of all the women being off-limits, they brought their husbands along and if that wasn't the case then the muscle bound dudes got all the attention, going there became increasingly humiliating and disappointing.

Luckily there was always a local lady there who would always make time for me, throughout the years I must have fucked her the most. But even her attitude changed, I suddenly wasn't allowed to kiss her anymore and she more and more began to behave in that degrading "Shoot your spunk and get out" way that I found so off putting.

So tonight, I went again, the flesh is weak after all. That local lady let me in being glad to see me after all the time. I got a good kiss which put me in high spirits, this was going to be a good night. As I entered the bar area, I saw two couples there which were already fooling around and I figured with me and the local lady that would give me a solid chance.

But as soon as I laid my hand on her leg she pushed me away, she wasn't in the mood and the hostile looks I got from the husbands of the other women there made them off limits too. I stayed there for an hour hoping that something could change for the better. But finally I said to the barlady that I wanted my locker key.

She went: "Leaving already, we haven't seen you for the longest time, stay a little longer so we can catch up." I told her that I spend the entrance money on having blue balls, all the women are off-limits and I felt extremely humiliated by the whole thing.

The bar lady then started talking about why everything had changed so much, internet dating, stricter rules about running such a club. But I replied that it still didn't help me out with my blue balls and explained why whores and brothels don't do it for me either.

I got dressed, handed her the key of my locker and told her that it was my final visit, it simply wasn't worth my money to keep going to a club where all the women are off-limits and the ones that aren't won't even grant me a one night stand.

Farewell Club Cupido, it was fun while it lasted but my blue balls and my brain finally agree to close this chapter.

 

[dr_mabeuse]

So good to know you found true sexual and emotional fulfillment with a bunch of housewife-whores in a strip club. You've certainly earned my respect.

Are you daft?

 

[Saiyaman]

So good to know you found true sexual and emotional fulfillment with a bunch of housewife-whores in a strip club. You've certainly earned my respect.

Are you daft?

It wasn't a strip club and the women there weren't whores, what we in my country call a "Paren club" is the kind of club where couples go to have casual sex.

Where in my post did I state that I found emotional fulfillment at that place? I have been single for 6 years and went there pure for the sex and since going there won't provide me with a good fuck anymore I found no more reason to go there anymore.

If anybody's daft here it's you for not properly reading my post.

 

[Handley_Page]

Saiyaman:

The concept of the 'club' you describe is very, very unusual outside the Netherlands. )Perhaps you ,might have explained the idea in more details ?.

PS. You have my sympathy.

 

[Etaski]

Yeah...it's only that I've been a pen-pal to a few people in the Netherlands that I didn't have dr_mabeuse's reaction.

I read your post and understand what you're describing, but while I tried to imagine what factors may be causing the ambiance to change....I realized I didn't have enough to relate to on my side of the pond to really even know anything about it. Therefore my mind was kind of blank at the time.

There are "swingers' clubs" here which actually sound somewhat similar to what you describe....but I think there's the "no sex on the premises" rule in most cases, you have to go somewhere else. You go to the club to try to find interested couples, but party elsewhere. This does mean the cover-charge or drink minimum is not too expensive, no more so than a dance club. Though many (most....all?) also actively discourage or disallow single males; it's for couples only.

It's just different enough to nix any theories I had on why the feel of your former place was changing.

Hostile husbands...that's the one I find most interesting. Hostile toward a single male, specifically? Or hostile in general? (It would seem strange for it to be hostile in general....unless they expect only to be watched, not propositioned.)

Are there other paren clubs you could try? It sounded like you were talking about just this one. Are they all changing?

 

[dr_mabeuse]

It wasn't a strip club and the women there weren't whores, what we in my country call a "Paren club" is the kind of club where couples go to have casual sex.

Where in my post did I state that I found emotional fulfillment at that place? I have been single for 6 years and went there pure for the sex and since going there won't provide me with a good fuck anymore I found no more reason to go there anymore.

If anybody's daft here it's you for not properly reading my post.

Then I apologize. I've never heard of anything like what you and the other posters are describing, and I didn't even know you were writing about the Netherlands.

I assumed you were talking about a certain kind of club we have in the States, which advertise themselves as strip clubs for amateurs and housewives, but which also function on the sly as plain old whore houses. And from the way you rhapsodized about your experiences there, it sounded to me like you were boasting of finding sexual apotheosis with a bunch of commercial pussy.

I do apologize.