No foreplay Just Fucking

[Smallchange4]

Strange but true. I had a very short relationship with a woman who had no interest in foreplay, oral sex or masturbation. She only wanted to fuck. The very first time we had sex I expected to engage in some foreplay but she made it abundantly clear that she just wanted to fuck nothing else. My sex skills are very dependent on digital or oral stimulation as I have a very small penis and unimpressive stamina. I attempted to satisfy her 3 times over a 2 to 3 week period but totally disappointed her. Each time I tried to engage some level of foreplay and after play but she would not countenance it. Unsurprisingly she broke it off with me. I suspected that perhaps for some reason she just didn't want to do any of it with me. I asked a former boyfriend about her bizarre behaviour and he totally concurred - fucking only nothing else. Not even kissing. Anyone else ever experienced or even heard tell of such a strange abstention?

 

[ElliottEden]

She was using you to masturbate, you were just a human sized living sentient dildo.

 

[newhere2learn]

You've almost described my wife for the second half of our marriage. Gyno issues made penetration painful, and foreplay just caused increased wetness and loss of feeling.

30seconds of foreplay and she wanted cock. Slow, deep and in a dictated position.

She'd then cum quite quickly and was done. Meanwhile I'd barely even warmed up. Her standard answer was;

"Go in the bathroom and finish if you want"


As above, I was basically a dildo for her.

 

[twister947]

Never to that extreme, but yeah, close enough that I can identify. Three different women who were ultimately boring and uninteresting lovers.

 

[newhere2learn]

Never to that extreme, but yeah, close enough that I can identify. Three different women who were ultimately boring and uninteresting lovers.

That's how I view it. I want variety.

 

[BongoGal]

I enjoy foreplay quite a bit, but I rarely ever need it. Over the years this has led to some enjoyable quickies.

 

[Suburbia]

op.

you are not alone. over the years I have come to recognize this lack of intimacy as a symptom of her being a victim of sexual abuse.

as relationships continue they would confrim my suspicions.

its not bad. it just needs the male partner to be openly communicative.

 

[liqueur]

op.

you are not alone. over the years I have come to recognize this lack of intimacy as a symptom of her being a victim of sexual abuse.

Yes. This. Having studied sexual abuse, and known and worked with quite few women over the years who had been sexually abused, this was the first thought that came to my mind.

In my own relationships, I've been with women who were occasionally so eager for cock they didn't want to wait. But none who were consistently this way, and only one (also a survivor of sexual abuse) who was uncomfortable with oral sex— and she, when she could relax enough to receive oral, certainly did enjoy it.

 

[windwater]

Strange but true. I had a very short relationship with a woman who had no interest in foreplay, oral sex or masturbation. She only wanted to fuck. The very first time we had sex I expected to engage in some foreplay but she made it abundantly clear that she just wanted to fuck nothing else. My sex skills are very dependent on digital or oral stimulation as I have a very small penis and unimpressive stamina. I attempted to satisfy her 3 times over a 2 to 3 week period but totally disappointed her. Each time I tried to engage some level of foreplay and after play but she would not countenance it. Unsurprisingly she broke it off with me. I suspected that perhaps for some reason she just didn't want to do any of it with me. I asked a former boyfriend about her bizarre behaviour and he totally concurred - fucking only nothing else. Not even kissing. Anyone else ever experienced or even heard tell of such a strange abstention?

In my early 20's and away for 1st time (early 80's) pretty much free-for-all.
One of my regular FB's was all and only about the fuck - no talk, no play, no touch, just mount and go. One night we met accidentally at a happy hour bar. She literally dragged me outside, sat me in her passenger seat, crawled on and used me. It was unique, and I actually was always left wanting more, but looking back 35 years, what a blast. Perhaps she had some of the scars mentioned above, but then and now I think she just loved getting fucked by cock, and who can blame a gal for that?

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Strange but true. I had a very short relationship with a woman who had no interest in foreplay, oral sex or masturbation. She only wanted to fuck. The very first time we had sex I expected to engage in some foreplay but she made it abundantly clear that she just wanted to fuck nothing else. My sex skills are very dependent on digital or oral stimulation as I have a very small penis and unimpressive stamina. I attempted to satisfy her 3 times over a 2 to 3 week period but totally disappointed her. Each time I tried to engage some level of foreplay and after play but she would not countenance it. Unsurprisingly she broke it off with me. I suspected that perhaps for some reason she just didn't want to do any of it with me. I asked a former boyfriend about her bizarre behaviour and he totally concurred - fucking only nothing else. Not even kissing. Anyone else ever experienced or even heard tell of such a strange abstention?

She sounds like she is related to my wife--,
get up-, get on-, get off!!!
NOW!!!

 

[phil_o]

I enjoy foreplay quite a bit, but I rarely ever need it. Over the years this has led to some enjoyable quickies.

I remember the quickies I had with my girlfriend now wife, having nowhere to go and do it we would grab almost any opportunity to fuck, knickers pulled to one side, cock poking through open zip and go for it!

When we did get the chance to 'play nice' we would have lots of foreplay.

 

[jakelc]

My best friend used to date a beautiful, intelligent woman. She was really friendly and fun, no one had a bad word to say about her, except my best friend. As far as sex went she wouldn’t let him go down on her, touch her, no foreplay whatsoever and sex was a quick fuck missionary style. The only other positions he got was spooning or on a few rare occasions doggy style. She would cum once or twice and then tell him to cum. Needless to say he couldn’t cum on command and she would tell him to finish himself on her. She was absolutely the perfect woman apart from sexually and he tried his hardest to get her past her hang up but aside from her giving him rare but great blow jobs, she never changed. You could always tell when he’d gotten a blow job as he’d be in the pub grinning like the joker and full of energy. If it hadn’t been for her sexual hang ups I have no doubt my best friend would’ve married her. Like the OP he even asked her ex boyfriend and was warned that she would never change and the ex had had the same experience and tried all sorts to spice things up.

 

[Tinkerbell29]

Occasionally if I’m not necessarily in the mood (it’s a very rare occasion but it happens!) but he is then, we sometimes have very little foreplay, and it’s a ‘what bam thank you mam’ kind of quickie. On the whole though I’m not a fan of no foreplay, sometimes the anticipation of what’s to come is as good as the cumming itself ;-)