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[Magnolia]

ok here goes......when I am with my husband I get very wet.. in fact I think to wet.. I can not feel him in me.. I have a toy that I use some times... not much... and yes I can feel it.. This has been going on for a long time and I don't know what to do..and yes when he uses his fingers on me I feel that.... I don't even know what I am asking here...Would Viagria help??? any ideas I need answers and FAST....... thanks

 

[sheath]

Sometimes, if I get too wet, the same thing happens to me and my man. It's usually after I have had a few orgasms, and by them I'm just so slippery that it's really hard to feel anything beyond his initial penetration.

So...we take a short break, clean up, and start again. That almost always takes care of the problem. Maybe try this?

S.

 

[James G 5]

try having him wear an unlubed condom
more "drag" for you, and possibly longer staying time for him

 

[SkyyAngel]

That happens to me too!! And I knew it wasn't the guy's fault cause he was pretty wide. I can feel my fingers and toys just not the actual thing...it just feels too wet. Usually we would try mopping up with a towel a bit and that helped for about 20 seconds before I got wet again....I just kinda put up with it and kinda gave up on it.

 

[Arwen23]

Just a small suggestion,

I cant speak for other guys but Id want to know that my girl wasnt getting much pleasure out of what we were doing. Id want to try different positions and such to see if it made a difference to her. You might want to get your man to go down on you first if he will. Then when you change positions to go at it have him perform oral on your nipples while you help him by rubbing downstairs during sex. Probrably not the answer you were looking for but just may make it more enjoyable for you. I personally like to know that my girl is getting the most pleasure I can give her. Id hate to think she was just doing it to please me, that I wasnt pleasing her

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I don't know about you guys - but when I get too wet to feel much I just figure its time for anal! Try *not* feeling that! lol We both go away satisfied.

 

[sheath]

I don't know about you guys - but when I get too wet to feel much I just figure its time for anal! Try *not* feeling that! lol We both go away satisfied.

AMEN!

And when I'm THAT wet, I have more than enough natural lubricant to go for the back door.

S.

 

[psyche]

You don't really say anything about the position that you are having sex in. That would make a big difference. I also get very wet when I'm with my lover. I can always feel him, but it makes a difference which position that we are in. There are times when he is fucking me so deep that it actually hurts! I'm a squirter, so I couldn't be more wet. I would try different positions when you're having sex and see if that makes a difference.

 

[crazybbwgirl]

AMEN!
And when I'm THAT wet, I have more than enough natural lubricant to go for the back door.
S.

Precisely!

 

[Quint]

It happens to me too, sometimes. I'm not at all trying to imply anything about you, but this almost always happens to me when I've been having lots of sex and am not as tight as I normally am. So when I stop feeling him quite as well as I'd like, I take some time off and do lots of Kegels. If you aren't familiar with the process, you just squeeze internally like you're cutting off the flow of urine. Repeat lots. Tightens me right up and makes the next time quite memorable.

Or have less foreplay. That one works for me too. o)

 

[James G 5]

AMEN!

And when I'm THAT wet, I have more than enough natural lubricant to go for the back door.

S.

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DAMMIT
Another key fell off...

 

[BlueSugar]

un lubed condoms, (is he wearing one, bc that could be it too...) or textured condoms, have him play with your clit during, or a toy for some help. It happens but not too often bc he has a niice length and girth for my petitness and I do kegals all the time and own a set of benwa. (haven't had any children yet either) Lots of things factor into it

Try some kegals and a textured condom

 

[Magnolia]

some good Ideas....

lets see where to start... married 25 yrs 3 kids but c section... so that should not be the problem.. and yea.. I would like to be able to say HEY... THIS IS NOT WORKINGGGG but we have had so many problems I am scared to say ANYTHING... he is already trying to make a contest of it... it really seems like the more foreplay I have the less things work... he over thinks.. like he is trying soooo hard to please....and back door... NOOO that is not even a good idea.. not his idea of good time.. but yes I have heard how good it is suppose to be.. but thanks for the ideas. smile

 

[James G 5]

Re: some good Ideas....

lets see where to start... married 25 yrs 3 kids but c section... so that should not be the problem.. and yea.. I would like to be able to say HEY... THIS IS NOT WORKINGGGG but we have had so many problems I am scared to say ANYTHING... he is already trying to make a contest of it... it really seems like the more foreplay I have the less things work... he over thinks.. like he is trying soooo hard to please....and back door... NOOO that is not even a good idea.. not his idea of good time.. but yes I have heard how good it is suppose to be.. but thanks for the ideas. smile

If you're "scared to say anything" that's a problem right there
A lot of guys have been brainwashed in to believing you ALWAYS have to do a ton of foreplay, make sure your partner comes first, you have to come together, etc etc
Those things are NICE but not needed all the time
It should NEVER be a contest
If you want to fix a problem, the first thing you have to be able to do is communicate about it openly & honestly without fear of it causing MORE problems

 

[sheath]

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DAMMIT
Another key fell off...

S.

 

[James G 5]

S.

Laugh it up. You're not THAT far north of me

 

[sheath]

Laugh it up. You're not THAT far north of me

Oooh....I'm skeered.

At least, I think that's why I'm quivering...but that could be anticipation, too. Who knows?



S.

 

[James G 5]

Oooh....I'm skeered.

At least, I think that's why I'm quivering...but that could be anticipation, too. Who knows?



S.

I'm the number one fan of the Sheath...from Tennesee

 

[sheath]

I'm the number one fan of the Sheath...from Tennesee

Ah...Dave Loggins. I like you even more now.

S.

 

[James G 5]

Ah...Dave Loggins. I like you even more now.

S.

Diversity is a good thing, in music & life

And bed partners!

 

[cum2suckme]

I don't know about you guys - but when I get too wet to feel much I just figure its time for anal! Try *not* feeling that! lol We both go away satisfied.

Keep feeling that way and let me know when you come to Vegas!!

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Keep feeling that way and let me know when you come to Vegas!!

hehehe - I've never been to Las Vegas. But I love that show CSI! lol

 

[anders^g]

hehehe - I've never been to Las Vegas. But I love that show CSI! lol

I was there last week; Stayed at the "West-ward Ho" Hotel!
Gotta love a place with a name like that <Grin>,
never saw any crime tough... Was hoping to see them
taping an episode

 

[Spinaroonie]

It's not... going to stop.
It's not... going to stop.
It's not GOOOOING to stop, 'til you wise up.

 

[mrerotica03]

A lim noodle is a limp noodle. There is nothing wrong with you, its just your hubby is not getting a full erection. Try that viagra.