My question is how many women out there have nipples so sensitive that it is a turn-off to have them touched? My s/o won't let me even touch her nipples. Of course, I have to believe her on this. I just don't understand it? She has such wonderful nipples too. When they are erect, they just beg me to want to suck them, from my point of view, atleast. Is there anything I/we can do to change this? I feel I'm missing out on this aspect of love making. HELP!!
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I wish my nipples were more sensitive maybe not to the point of not wanting them to be touched but more then mine are now.
Lickboxer maybe she is not comfortable with how she feel when you suck on them. Some woman are scared of not being in control of there reactions to your touch. I know someone who has very sensitive nipples and she can come just by them being sucked on (very jealous) It took her years before she would let her self go and enjoy it.
Just a thought,
Laine
I wish my nipples were more sensitive maybe not to the point of not wanting them to be touched but more then mine are now.
Lickboxer maybe she is not comfortable with how she feel when you suck on them. Some woman are scared of not being in control of there reactions to your touch. I know someone who has very sensitive nipples and she can come just by them being sucked on (very jealous) It took her years before she would let her self go and enjoy it.
Just a thought,
LaineAnd here I am - can't get mine licked enough!
Talk to her and explain to her it's a real turn on for you and ask her if she'd be willing to try desensitizing them a bit.
Start when she's about a week past her period. Right before and during some women are more sensitive. And when you start, just stroke them lightly through a silk nighty, the sheets or a bra. If they are extreamly sensitive, use a sports bra because they are a bit heavier. Another activity would be to shower with her. Don't do her breasts first, rather soap up her arms, back and upper chest area first.
Good luck!
PS - ask her about the sensitivity following sex. Each woman is different.... some can't handle it right after and others (ME!!!) LOVE to be stroked following sex as a slow come down.
Talk to her and explain to her it's a real turn on for you and ask her if she'd be willing to try desensitizing them a bit.
Start when she's about a week past her period. Right before and during some women are more sensitive. And when you start, just stroke them lightly through a silk nighty, the sheets or a bra. If they are extreamly sensitive, use a sports bra because they are a bit heavier. Another activity would be to shower with her. Don't do her breasts first, rather soap up her arms, back and upper chest area first.
Good luck!
PS - ask her about the sensitivity following sex. Each woman is different.... some can't handle it right after and others (ME!!!) LOVE to be stroked following sex as a slow come down.
They can't be touched at anytime. Sucked or touched. She says that that is an instant turn-off to her, even during sex. It's a bit maddening. I can play with her breast, but not the nipple itself. I'd love to be able to run my fingers or my tongue across her nipple, or suck on them but I can't. Just seems very wierd. She says it sends electrical shocks through her whole body. Not a good kind of shock tho. Anything else she is really into. The sky is the limit when it comes to anything else, "Just don't touch the nipples." I am real lucky cause she sucks cock very well and she'll let me go down on her for hours, if I want to. She gets off on that, believe me. So I am lucky in that way. Just thought I'd ask if this was a common type of problem for any other females, or what could be done to change that. It wasn't always that way, or else she never mentioned it before. It's been about the last year or so that it has become an issue to her. I am very satisfied with our sexual escapades, but miss that part of lovemaking. Thanks to those who have replied.
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