Nilla vs D/s

[Princessintrng]

A nilla friend of mine and I were talking the other night about his relationships vs mine. We came up with some funny differences that I thought might bring a smile to some:

He comes home late and has to find an all night florist and buy flowers and hope she will give him sex.

Mine comes home late, stops at Wal-Mart, buys a spatula, comes home, spanks me and I hope he gives me sex.

He has to spend big money on just the right gift for special occassions in hops that she will give him sex.

Mine goes to PetSmart, buys a leash and collar, or the dollar store for clothes pins and I beg him for sex.

I think my friend is begining to see the benifits to a D/s relationship

Any other insights are welcome...

 

[dragonlace]

A nilla friend of mine and I were talking the other night about his relationships vs mine. We came up with some funny differences that I thought might bring a smile to some:

He comes home late and has to find an all night florist and buy flowers and hope she will give him sex.

Mine comes home late, stops at Wal-Mart, buys a spatula, comes home, spanks me and I hope he gives me sex.

He has to spend big money on just the right gift for special occassions in hops that she will give him sex.

Mine goes to PetSmart, buys a leash and collar, or the dollar store for clothes pins and I beg him for sex.

I think my friend is begining to see the benifits to a D/s relationship

Any other insights are welcome...

He calls her a slut and then has to make ammends for it and doesn't get sex.........Master calls me a slut and i get all hot and beg for it

 

[Princessintrng]

That made me smile... I forgot all about the pet names

Bitch is a badge of honor for me

 

[WriterDom]

A nilla friend of mine and I were talking the other night about his relationships vs mine. We came up with some funny differences that I thought might bring a smile to some:

He comes home late and has to find an all night florist and buy flowers and hope she will give him sex.

Mine comes home late, stops at Wal-Mart, buys a spatula, comes home, spanks me and I hope he gives me sex.

He has to spend big money on just the right gift for special occassions in hops that she will give him sex.

Mine goes to PetSmart, buys a leash and collar, or the dollar store for clothes pins and I beg him for sex.

I think my friend is begining to see the benifits to a D/s relationship

Any other insights are welcome...

Yes, and so many unhappy women out there who really want to be submissive, but their husbands or partners want no part of it. I think sometimes it is more of a rejection of the relationship rather than not wanting to explore. They want to invest as little time as possible in one to one interactions.

 

[*~sekzee1~*]

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Yes, and so many unhappy women out there who really want to be submissive, but their husbands or partners want no part of it. I think sometimes it is more of a rejection of the relationship rather than not wanting to explore. They want to invest as little time as possible in one to one interactions.

I agree, to a point. I am finding with my SO that it is not a rejection of the relationship, but more of fear of the unknown. He has never experienced a relationship evenly remotely like a D/S one. For him it is something very new & a little difficult to understand as yet. In time he may understand fully the need & desire.

 

[Princessintrng]

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Yes, and so many unhappy women out there who really want to be submissive, but their husbands or partners want no part of it. I think sometimes it is more of a rejection of the relationship rather than not wanting to explore. They want to invest as little time as possible in one to one interactions.

I actually had a man tell me he wanted the biggest payoff for the least amount of effort one time....

I have to agree with you on this one. The nilla friend I was talking about had wanted to explore this with me, but he said it was too hard and required too much time, ah well his loss not mine. I tend to invest more time in friendships then most are willing to invest in a relationship, but I always believe you get out of something what you are willing to put into it...

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

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I actually had a man tell me he wanted the biggest payoff for the least amount of effort one time....

Hell, that's MY credo!!

 

[Princessintrng]

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Hell, that's MY credo!!

Disclaimer.... any resemblence to the person in my post is strictly coincidental and does not depict any posters on this board

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

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Disclaimer.... any resemblence to the person in my post is strictly coincidental and does not depict any posters on this board

LOL

We don't have to tell anyone, it can be our little secret...

 

[Princessintrng]

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LOL

We don't have to tell anyone, it can be our little secret...

You are too kind