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Mustang61
Cayenne....
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I agree... I need all the real things, tongue, touch, breath on my body, warmth... I'm old school and 61, lol...
UncutinSocal
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Depends on who I am talking to and our previously established relationship.
Sometimes I start off slow and respectful. Other times if it is a person that I have history with I will mix it up with lots of flirting, sexting, and serious talk
Sometimes I start off slow and respectful. Other times if it is a person that I have history with I will mix it up with lots of flirting, sexting, and serious talk
Persephone4U
In search of ..
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For me, it also depends on who I am talking as well -- I have been ghosted.. A couple times recently, for not jumping right into a sexy conversation--Get it together-- . If that is all you are looking for, say so. I was never allowed to say No, in my marriage. I am fully allowed to say no to you. I always try and be respectful, but damn....
If you are a new to me person, it might take a couple chats to get me to open up. But if it's someone I have known awhile it is easier to find that space...
Don't be the reason we would pick the bear . Yes this is Lit, but have some respect for the people you are talking too... They are actually human.. Well most of them.
If you are a new to me person, it might take a couple chats to get me to open up. But if it's someone I have known awhile it is easier to find that space...
Don't be the reason we would pick the bear . Yes this is Lit, but have some respect for the people you are talking too... They are actually human.. Well most of them.
UncutinSocal
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Honestly, I like buildup. You get a feel for the person and can find out if y'all click first. And even after clicking not everyone wants sexy stuff all the time. Sometimes you need to go with the flow but be respectful first and foremost
Persephone4U
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I love and appreciate the build. I like knowing who I am talking too. I want to see the picture they are painting for me, of how they would like to be seen, let them see parts of myself. And someone that is consistant- Quick and Honest way to turn me on.
UncutinSocal
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I do enjoy painting a picture. Being nice and descriptive on what I foresee happening
And I am quite consistent cuz I hate inconsistency myself
IARainman
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I'm 63 and solo, I just like to edge during a conversation then get off by myself. Although I have had on cam fun, that's a different activity
Midnightcaller26
🐻Member since 99'🎃
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This is a good question.
When talking with people from Lit you gotta take into account the adult nature of the place you met so therefore there's already a naughty thought under the surface in almost every conversation. The question is if we are restrained enough to allow things to proceed through a "normal" process of interaction like if we had met somewhere totally different or if we forsake conversational protocol and jump in head first.
I really like for the lady to lead but usually by day three I drop some flirt to get a read on the interest level. As far as strictly texting goes I can definitely maintain that level of conversation provided they are also a good conversationalist.
When talking with people from Lit you gotta take into account the adult nature of the place you met so therefore there's already a naughty thought under the surface in almost every conversation. The question is if we are restrained enough to allow things to proceed through a "normal" process of interaction like if we had met somewhere totally different or if we forsake conversational protocol and jump in head first.
I really like for the lady to lead but usually by day three I drop some flirt to get a read on the interest level. As far as strictly texting goes I can definitely maintain that level of conversation provided they are also a good conversationalist.
MaxwellSmart86
Till All Are One
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I have made many attempts to carry on conversations that are not directly sexting but I must not be a very interesting person because my chat partner often ghosts me.
MrMikelobe1952
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I don't quite understand why so many people (okay, pretty much men, I suppose) expect someone they meet (okay, woman) to be ready to get off on their schedule in their manner on their fantasies.
If that's all you want, why come to Lit? Just get off to porn.
Lit is better because, when you get off with someone, you are getting off with an actual human being. It’s one step closer to the real thing.
But, to have a real connection does take some time and effort.
It requires actually having an interest in the other person and their (her) interests and desires and personality and....
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SeleniumCore
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I hate the whole cumming and bailing thing. I never do it.
KyleR215
Stuck in a Dad Bod
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I don’t have many conversations with people here. But when I do, it depends on who I am talking to. Sometimes it is a slow burn and sometimes it isn’t.
I have talked to women here where we take it slow, enjoy the conversation, learn and make a nice intimate connection. Sometimes we both want and need a more quick get off.
Sometimes you just want to share pics and talk very little.
It all just depends on the audience.
I have talked to women here where we take it slow, enjoy the conversation, learn and make a nice intimate connection. Sometimes we both want and need a more quick get off.
Sometimes you just want to share pics and talk very little.
It all just depends on the audience.
OralAllOver
Beauty all around
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Pm or hot chat is awesome
I'm a submissive bttm
I'm a submissive bttm
That’s hot
J64stephenson
IT’S A NEW DAY
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What do you mean MOST OF THEM………
OralAllOver
Beauty all around
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If you make use of old timey communications only, and you stroll to your neighbor's house to discuss masterbation, having a mobile phone will no longer be a problem for you
Persephone4U
In search of ..
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When someone makes a Second account just to stalk someone.. Or the random bot account . Or the fun ones, pretending to be someone they are not. Maybe you haven't ran into one yet. Weird things happen, among all the Lit people of this site. I am sure they each have a story to tell.. Of some random asshole that ruined their day. Or in some cases cause real harm .
If none of the above has happened to you, count yourself lucky.
drobert44
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I have become friends with 4 Litsters; 2 men and 2 women. Still email, facebook, etc. with all of them. One in NYC, been back x 5 to see her.
Jax1973
Just enjoying life
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I’ve met some really fun people here also It’s definitely growing on me,
drobert44
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This site is theraputic.
drobert44
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Sometimes I get to hook up.
