jack_burton_me
Reflexive Trucker
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- Mar 7, 2011
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We all know the line. Nice guys finish last…
I’ve never realized the irony in this statement until today when I thought, wouldn’t someone WANT a man to finish last?
Wouldn’t that make him a “nice” guy? One that a woman (nothing against every other orientation and preference - just not my thing) would want to be with - since, by true nature of the point, he would make her finish first (at least once) before he does?
In my days, weeks, years, here on Lit, I have met some amazing people: beautiful, witty, sensual, gorgeous, sexy, amazing people. Like sometimes it is stupefying, some of the people I’ve connected with here. Sometimes these dalliances lasted hours, sometimes years.
I’ve also met some that don’t quite meet these descriptions. That’s the nature of Lit, but I always give anyone the benefit of the doubt, because you truly never know whom you’re going to meet.
I’ve always endeavored to be a good guy. In all transparency, none of us can be good 100% of the time. I am not a saint. I can also hold the most salacious of conversations, should the opportunity arise and is appropriate. But I will always listen and be willing to talk about anything.
There’s something missing, currently, and I am leaving it up to the Lit gods (community, really) to help me discover what that is and - more importantly - someone to help me find out what it is.
I have no expectations. Everyone has reality bound constraints and priorities, and I understand, appreciate, and honor that. A friend? A confidante? A partner in crime to talk about anything and everything? Perhaps all of that and SOOO much more.
I’m looking for that special woman, one who is so much more than she appears, not defined by what she does, and one who can truly appreciate a good guy who relishes finishing last - not because he loses, but because he always wants to take care of others first…
So, Lit, my surprisingly lengthy post has come to and end - for now, and I put myself out here for a connection. Feel free to post, contact, or not. I will still wish everyone the best!
J
I’ve never realized the irony in this statement until today when I thought, wouldn’t someone WANT a man to finish last?
Wouldn’t that make him a “nice” guy? One that a woman (nothing against every other orientation and preference - just not my thing) would want to be with - since, by true nature of the point, he would make her finish first (at least once) before he does?In my days, weeks, years, here on Lit, I have met some amazing people: beautiful, witty, sensual, gorgeous, sexy, amazing people. Like sometimes it is stupefying, some of the people I’ve connected with here. Sometimes these dalliances lasted hours, sometimes years.
I’ve also met some that don’t quite meet these descriptions. That’s the nature of Lit, but I always give anyone the benefit of the doubt, because you truly never know whom you’re going to meet.
I’ve always endeavored to be a good guy. In all transparency, none of us can be good 100% of the time. I am not a saint. I can also hold the most salacious of conversations, should the opportunity arise and is appropriate. But I will always listen and be willing to talk about anything.
There’s something missing, currently, and I am leaving it up to the Lit gods (community, really) to help me discover what that is and - more importantly - someone to help me find out what it is.
I have no expectations. Everyone has reality bound constraints and priorities, and I understand, appreciate, and honor that. A friend? A confidante? A partner in crime to talk about anything and everything? Perhaps all of that and SOOO much more.
I’m looking for that special woman, one who is so much more than she appears, not defined by what she does, and one who can truly appreciate a good guy who relishes finishing last - not because he loses, but because he always wants to take care of others first…
So, Lit, my surprisingly lengthy post has come to and end - for now, and I put myself out here for a connection. Feel free to post, contact, or not. I will still wish everyone the best!
J
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