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Secretsandfun

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Hello Literotica community...

I have been a long time lurker but just registered. Figure now is as good a time as any for an introduction.

My life seems similar to a lot of the men I see post on here. I am in a marriage that neither the frequency or variety meets my personal sexual needs.

As for frequency, once a week seems about the best I can hope for. This is completely unacceptable to me, as many of you can imagine! Our relationship obviously didn't start that way(13 years ago!).

As far as variety goes...she does not like oral sex not giving or receiving, she will give maybe once a month but she never allows me to cum that way, she also makes it clear she does not like doing it (which kinda ruins the mood). We don't quite get creative when it comes to sexual positions either--missionary, doggy and her on top make up 99% of the time. I also have an ass fetish, nothing extreme but I like rimming and I like fingering an ass...absolute no go there either, frustrating to say the least.

But to be clear, I do still care for my wife...just frustrated sexually and terribly horny!

I would love to chat or email with a sympathetic woman on here, it would likely be nothing more than an Internet pen pal/sounding board but I would be open to exchanging thoughts and maybe pictures.

Thanks for taking the time to read and I would love to hear from you.
 
Thanks for the sympathy...wish I knew how to get answers from her but she doesn't think her idea of a normal sex life deserves discussing.
 
once a week? try once every two to three months. and only doggie.
 
Hello Literotica community...

I have been a long time lurker but just registered. Figure now is as good a time as any for an introduction.

My life seems similar to a lot of the men I see post on here. I am in a marriage that neither the frequency or variety meets my personal sexual needs.

As for frequency, once a week seems about the best I can hope for. This is completely unacceptable to me, as many of you can imagine! Our relationship obviously didn't start that way(13 years ago!).

As far as variety goes...she does not like oral sex not giving or receiving, she will give maybe once a month but she never allows me to cum that way, she also makes it clear she does not like doing it (which kinda ruins the mood). We don't quite get creative when it comes to sexual positions either--missionary, doggy and her on top make up 99% of the time. I also have an ass fetish, nothing extreme but I like rimming and I like fingering an ass...absolute no go there either, frustrating to say the least.

But to be clear, I do still care for my wife...just frustrated sexually and terribly horny!

I would love to chat or email with a sympathetic woman on here, it would likely be nothing more than an Internet pen pal/sounding board but I would be open to exchanging thoughts and maybe pictures.

Thanks for taking the time to read and I would love to hear from you.
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You, my friend, have a lot to be thankful for! Once a week? Try 4 times in three years! Just thank heaven for small mercies. You could make ice cream on my wife's arse, even sitting next to her is guaranteed to lower the temperature. After 5 years of marriage, I'm ready to kick over the traces and go get a life, leave the fucking army and get a job lancing boils in a nudist colony!

Now I feel like a putz even complaining...there are always there out there in much worse circumstances. I guess since my idea of acceptable and hers don't match I consider it a problem.
 
Welcome aboard, I envy you getting head once a month. I have never had it from my wife, we have been married 17 years. I suppose that it is not all that important but she does know that is what I desire and the way she mentions it at times is supposed to make me feel bad about wanting it.
Suppose that is the reason I look for excitement outside, thank God I don't live in some big city, or I'd probably find myself in trouble... ;P
 
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