Newbie couple ... newbie questions

[pplwatching]

Hello World,

We're a mid 30s couple looking for a little harmless (and anonymous) fun. There are so many threads here with thousands of replies ... I don't know where this should even be.

We'd like to try some cyber sex as a couple, and we'd prefer to do it with another couple. Writing an ad is simple enough, but questions abound. The ad's page says ask questions here, so here we go!

How do we know we're talking to a real couple, and not a single guy (or worse, a minor)? We don't really care who they are in real life, just that they really are an adult couple. I suppose similar ages might make the chatting more interesting(?).

How do we know that we're really anonymous? Can someone get our IP address and work backwards to who we really are?

What do we need to install or do to participate? Do people use chat rooms or do they install one-on-one chat software?

This is going to sound like a stupid question, but what can we expect? What do people talk about when they have cyber sex? We're pretty open minded, but there are some things that we'd rather not talk about.

Curiously yours ....

 

[Sex & Diamonds]

Hello World,

We're a mid 30s couple looking for a little harmless (and anonymous) fun. There are so many threads here with thousands of replies ... I don't know where this should even be.

We'd like to try some cyber sex as a couple, and we'd prefer to do it with another couple. Writing an ad is simple enough, but questions abound. The ad's page says ask questions here, so here we go!

How do we know we're talking to a real couple, and not a single guy (or worse, a minor)? We don't really care who they are in real life, just that they really are an adult couple. I suppose similar ages might make the chatting more interesting(?).

You don't. No one here really knows if you are who you say you are. I'd advise that you get to know whomever you decide to cyber with. but remember, it's just typing and it's supposed to be fun...when done right..or so I hear

How do we know that we're really anonymous? Can someone get our IP address and work backwards to who we really are?

Yes that is possible, but highly unlikely.

What do we need to install or do to participate? Do people use chat rooms or do they install one-on-one chat software?

This is going to sound like a stupid question, but what can we expect? What do people talk about when they have cyber sex? We're pretty open minded, but there are some things that we'd rather not talk about.

Curiously yours ....

Everyone has their own method. Some use emails, some use the instant messanger services. As for what to talk about...well, usually it's sex, but to each their own.

good luck