New User!!!!! and a question.

[Wendii]

First of all, I would like to say hello to everyone here. I have been watching this board for a while now, but never actually worked up the nerve to post anything. I know, I know....how shy do you have to be to be afraid to POST on a message board?
*blush*
Okay, so I'm just a little bit sad. And a LOT shy. But here goes.

How many people on this board are in some sort of serious relationship with another person (you know...boyfriend/girlfriend, fiance, or married)?
As a side note, are you happy in your current relationship?

No real reason for this question. Just an idle bit of curiousity.

Well, that's all for me right now. But I can guarantee that I'll be back.

Toodles,
Wendii

 

[Handy-Andy]

Hi wendii
I know what you mean it took me time to get round my shyness but then i thought what the hell and i've just jumped in today.

 

[Nicole]

Well I am in an online relationship and a very happy one at that. Although some people don't fully accept that these relationships happen, I can say that for me and the man in question ours is just fine.

I must also stress that ours isn't a "normal" relationship anyway and I am VERY lucky to have this man in my life. I won't go into details, don't want to bore you. But I am in love with this man and he means more to me than any relationship I have ever been in.

I love you baby, I truly do.

Oh and Welcome to the board Wendii. Have fun and be yourself.

 

[Sammyjo]

Just broke off a 2 year online relationship today.
Yes folks, the Toronto guy is history.

 

[Angelique]

Hi Wendii! And welcome to the board!

To answer your question, I'm involved in an online relationship, as well. Fellow Literotican, Xander, who currently lives in Denmark, is my fiance. We met right here, on Literotica, and to the best of my knowledge will be the first couple from Lit to actually get married. *beaming*

Several weeks ago, my love started a thread titled "An Announcement. http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=12350

This thread set off a chain of events that led to a Literotica Reunion, which will be hosted immediately following our wedding. Now, how the hell I'm gonna explain all these people to my folks is a whole 'nother ball game. LOL

But, I'll say this...Xander is, by far, the most amazing, caring, sensitive, loving person I've ever met in my life. And I'm blessed to have him in my life. To think, I met him on a "porn" site. LOL I guess that just goes to show you that you can find love where you least expect it.

Am I happy with my current relationship? You bet I am!! The only drawback to it at this point it that Xander is in Denmark until next month. But when he returns, I'm positive that I'll be happier than I've ever been before in my life!

That's my story...

Again, welcome to the board hon...excellent post to start out with.

 

[Nicole]

*Blowing nose and wiping tears away*

I love you two. Xander being my best friend and Angel baby, whom I met through Xander ... Is now my closest Female friend on this board.

Angel you know he will be here OON (see no sssssss) and then there will be no stopping you.

*Still wiping eyes*

To think how many "COUPLES" have met off this board. A porn site ... Does that mean were all perverts??? No I don't think so, it just means that we all love sex and anything to do with sex ... A pervert right?

Anyway I know that I have been lucky from this site and I'm sure there are more.

Still love you baby

 

[Angelique]

Awwww...Nikki!! Ya' know I love ya' babe.

I think Laurel and Manu should put a box of tissue at the entrance to some of these threads. I just re-read Xanders original post on the Announcement thread, and still, weeks later, it brings tears to my eyes...and reading everyones well-wishes warms my heart.

This site is, without a doubt, one of the most unique and wonderful sites I've ever seen on the net. Such an incredible feeling of family here...I'm glad to have all of you involved in my life, no matter how big or small.

Where's Siren and that old crunchy, crusty kleenex that she and I have been sharing with you, Laurel and Lovely Latina?

 

[Nicole]

Just broke off a 2 year online relationship today.
Yes folks, the Toronto guy is history.

Sammy babe am I sorry to hear that or happy to hear that???

Well good Luck to you either way.

And yes I still love you baby

 

[Skibum]

Welcome, Wendii. I hope you enjoy your time on the Board as much as the rest of us do.

As for your question, I am married, and have been for 21 years. I think we are reasonably happy together, although things have been a little rocky lately. That is just part of the equation whenever you try to make 1+1=1!

Sammyjo, sorry to hear about your breakup.

 

[Siren]

Hi Wendi and Handyman Andy

 

[SimplySouthern]

*misty eyed*

Awwwww...you guys *sniffle* you are all so damn sweet it gags me. (Just teasing..I am thrilled for all of you.) I was having this cyber relationship...but my keyboard wasn't as loving as I thought it would be.

BTW...conventional relationships SUCK. (just my 2cents) Be glad you have some kinky shit to fall back on. LOL

 

[teresafannin]

relationship

Hello Wendiii,Welcome from another newbie. I am engaged to a great guy. We met on a blind date & have been together for nearly 4 years, engaged for 2. We were to have been married this month, but have postponed the wedding until next spring. This past year has been extremely traumatic for me, but with my sweetie's help, I will be able to get through it. Have a good night.

 

[Angelique]

Siren and Carl...

There's nothing I can say here that I haven't already said to you both, personally.

May you both find the happiness you desire...congratulations to the two of you.

-Angelique

 

[Rosebud]

HI WENDII

I am involved with someone who posts here...we are married, but i met him before Literotica. He introduced me to this sight and i made guru before him. I have also made a few good friends that i would never give up...Southern, Siren, Angel, and Nikki. These girls are the best...as well as most of the others here are. There are some assholes too but we just ignore them...Have fun and don't be scared to open up to these people, you will be amazed what they can bring out of you.

 

[Carl East]

Hi Wendii, welcome to the board, as you already know, I have fallen for someone online. Siren is everything I have looked for in a woman, unfortunately, it took me forty three years to find her, but once I did I knew it was true love. She effects me in ways that no other woman could, or have, and from the moment we started to speak on the phone, I was hooked.

Personally, I've never felt this strongly about any woman, it's a wonderful feeling. I find myself wanting to spend the rest of my life with this woman, and trust me when I say, she is all woman. There is something I say to Siren, that I would like to share with this board. It's something I wrote in an email, that sums up exactly how I feel for her. "LOVING YOU WAS EASY, FINDING YOU WAS HARD."

You will find quite a few good people on this board, and you will undoubtedly make a few friends. You might even become romantically involved with someone, so I wish you well, and hope to see more of you around the board.

Carl.

 

[FlamingoBlue]

All this lovin....

is warming my heart. What's happening here on this board? Can this lovefest
really last? Stay tuned.

blue

 

[Nicole]

You know I do have to agree with what has been said about the phone here. Once you make that connection (and that is all some have until they can save up enough to get to there respective countries) it really changes the way you feel for that person. I know that now when I talk to the one I love online, because I can't hear the way he says things I sometimes (I know I know shhhh ... he thinks all the time LOL) take it the wrong way. I actually said to him the other night "Sarcasm doesn't come across well on the computer". He then proceeded to tell me that he has been saying that for months now.

Look I know how people feel about these Relationships, but if the people involved are loved, loving and happy, then what is it anyone elses business, just as in real life.

I know that I am happy and I know that this man makes me happy.

Rosebud you know how I feel about you, and all the people that I talk to privately, but you know that I will always hold a special place in my heart for you, and you know why.

To everyone else I talk to on a regular basis, Thank-you all for being my friends and I hope that we will remain friends for many years. I hold my friends very close to my heart. You all know who you are and you all know how much you mean to me.

I had to say this I'm sorry but it's the way that I feel.

I know that you are all thinking that this is a certain member of the Board (one that has been gone for awhile) but it's NOT him and the man I talk of has been in my life for quite a few months now. He makes me happy and as far as I'm concerned that's all that matters.

Baby you know I love you xxxx.



[Edited by Nicole on 08-01-2000 at 09:02 PM]

 

[Sammyjo]

Well, it's hard to be in love with someone that is so far away. And knowing I'm not going to be around long enough to matter anyways...well, I figured it was for the best.

I'm glad you all are so happy, but please understand that I'm not. So, if I get bitchy and snotty...well, more than usual...this is the reason why.

 

[Nicole]

Sammy would a hug help???

Oh hell I'll give you one anyway.

((((((((((((((((((((SAMMY)))))))))))))))))))))))

Chin up babe, you know you can always yell at me if you want to. I'll just sit here and cry while you do that. I don't like being yelled at you know.

 

[April]

Wow! Too much for my short attention span to respond to! I will be simple. {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} To everybody! And y'all know I don't do that.

 

[Flagg]

Carl - I could have sworn you were married. I guess I was mistaken. No wonder you jumped on me when I dissed your bird (so to beak).

I guess I owe you a bit of an apology. I thought you were just indulging in the horrible middle aged flirting that goes on around here - but it looks like I was wrong. You are serious about each other and thats cute in a sickening kind of way

 

[Jeff726]

Hey Wendiii nice to meet you! If you ever want a good pal to chat with sometime, just email me and lemme know!

I myself am not in a relationship currently, nor have I been my whole life. But I suppose when it happens it happens right? All I know is that seeing all the love on this board makes me want it more and more each day.

*sniff mode: on*

To Angelique and Xander, I could never express to you how truly madly deeply happy I am for you. I hope your lives are filled with all that you need and desire. I love ya guys!

To Siren And Carl, I want to wish you the best as well. Siren you and I are very close friends and when you first told me about him I was stunned but now I am very happy for you. Carl as long as you treat her good I ain't got beef with you.

To Nicole, you and I have talked once before on AOL, and I am very glad we got to know eachother. You are a good friend and one of few who knows what I am going through right now. Thank you for all the support! And good luck with this man!
(((((Nicole)))))

To Sammyjo, I want you to know I am always here anytime you need a good friend. Thank you for giving me the chance to be one of yours. (((((Sammy)))))

To everyone else, I hope to make as many friends on here as I can. I may seem like someone who is a 'moral cop' if you will, but in reality I just have yet to experience the wonders of sex, and once I do you are sure to see a whole new and naughtier Jeff. *turns eyes to Isabella and SS*
And thank you for putting up with me, Lit's poster boy for virginity. I love you all. Most anyways.

*sniff mode: off*


So enjoy your time here Ms. Wendiii. It's a wonderful ride!



Jeff

 

[Nicole]

Well Jeff as I said to you ... I am there for you, and anytime that we are on at the same time you feel free to come talk to me.

That goes for anyone on this board ... if you need to talk and I am on either ICQ or AIM just let me know who you are and I will gladly talk.

Jeff you have no worries about this man of mine taking care of me ... He has sucessfully done that for months now, and above all else he makes me happy

April that hug you gave made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside ... good to see that you give hugs like the rest of us

Go April, Go April, Go April

 

[Xander]

Welcome on board Wendii! As you have, no doubt, noticed. There's a lot of things going on here

As for your question. Angelique is my leading light, and is the reason I get up in the morning. How I did it before I don't know.
BUT if you had asked me a year ago if I'd ever find true love on a porn site. I would have called you crazy LOL.

Carl and Siren, I profoundly hope the best for the two of you. And I know how strong online relationships is. (Well DOH!) The four of us better go out for Dinner some time soon eh.

Anyway Welcome Wendii, and may you have lots of fun and good times here. Just like the rest of us.

 

[Expertise]

Hi Wendii, welcome to the board.

Sammyjo, with all due respect sweets .... ABOUT FRIGGIN' TIME. Congratulations and i'm sure Jeff is doing handsprings.