New to Literotica, looking for ideas.

[msubobcats87]

I'm a happily married 33 year old male that is looking for interesting ideas to try with my wife. I am obviously new and this is my first post. My wife found this site and our exploration with one another has taken off to new levels of excitement. I would classify our exploration into bdsm as "beginner" level but I think we are gaining confidence to try new things. The wifey likes to be restrained and I like to perform for her. don't get me wrong though, she has reversed the roles on me as well.

If anyone has any steamy ideas or would like to chat, send me a pm. We are also open to couples chats as well.

I look forward to being a member of these forums!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Welcome!

best thing to do first is browse-- the library thread In the pinned posts at the top-- has links to older posts with some amazing info in them.

 

[subwannabe]

The best thing to do is the 3 L's - look, look, learn. Good luck. It's great that you can do this together.

 

[Ropebunny]

Here is a good site to give you some easy ideas about what you might like to try (I highly recommend the ice dildo!)

http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm_scenarios.html

Also like Stella said, the library is filled with awesome ideas, how tos and what NOT to dos. Make sure you have a peek in there.

Good luck and have fun!

 

[njlauren]

There are also some pretty good books out there, I am happen to be fond of the greenery press folks, but you can get all kinds of stuff now at Amazon and the like. Between the net and books, there is a lot more out there now then when I started.....most important thing? Your imagination, kitchen drawers, laundry rooms, back yards and the chain aisle at home depot can be very, very interesting indeed