I have just started exploring D/s in the past few months. I feel it's a part of me but just never had anyone to share this with.
It appears that it initially it starts with a few email volleys and then maybe a telephone conversation. Almost immediately, they are giving assignments with punishments if they are not followed to the letter. Is this the way the development of a D/s relationship unfolds? Am I crazy to think that I can't trust this person until I meet them? Why would I want to show commitment to someone and trust them when I don't know them? Or have I just run into a crazy bunch of Doms?
Can someone take some time to explain to me a safe way to explore this and not get in over my head? I would really appreciate it!
It appears that it initially it starts with a few email volleys and then maybe a telephone conversation. Almost immediately, they are giving assignments with punishments if they are not followed to the letter. Is this the way the development of a D/s relationship unfolds? Am I crazy to think that I can't trust this person until I meet them? Why would I want to show commitment to someone and trust them when I don't know them? Or have I just run into a crazy bunch of Doms?
Can someone take some time to explain to me a safe way to explore this and not get in over my head? I would really appreciate it!