New to all this...

[dellstar]

Hi,

Never posted on here before, but liking some of the stuff I have read...

I'm a 29 Year Old, Married father of 2 that is looking for every married man's dream - a bit on the side...

I love sex, but the wife isn't to keen on it at the moment, so I have to snatch it when I can...What kind of life is that...

Any women in the UK who want to find out more let me know!!

Cheers

Dan

 

[Cathleen]

Every man's dream, huh?

I'm going to go out on a limb here - real far - your two kids are young, your wife is exhausted caring for them, the house and you. You're working very hard, there isn't a lot of time for the both of you to be with each other - 'us time'.

So instead of communicating, understanding and respecting your wife and yourself, you want someone on the side. Maybe you could find someone to take the kids for an overnight (or weekend!) and the two of you can rekindle the feelings you both had before all the real life stuff became a factor.

It's worth a shot, unless ...

Oh and welcome to Lit.

 

[Cathleen]

Well, that was a bit bitchy - sorry. But the welcome is sincere.

 

[WantonWitch]

Every man's dream, huh?

I'm going to go out on a limb here - real far - your two kids are young, your wife is exhausted caring for them, the house and you. You're working very hard, there isn't a lot of time for the both of you to be with each other - 'us time'.

So instead of communicating, understanding and respecting your wife and yourself, you want someone on the side. Maybe you could find someone to take the kids for an overnight (or weekend!) and the two of you can rekindle the feelings you both had before all the real life stuff became a factor.

It's worth a shot, unless ...

Oh and welcome to Lit.

Well said Cate. Why risk the chance of losing everything for a moments sexual gratification.

Welcome to lit, I'm sure you'll enjoy it.

 

[WantonWitch]

Well, that was a bit bitchy - sorry. But the welcome is sincere.

So good straight advice is bitchy, nope I don't agree Cate, you may have saved a woman lots of heartache and him his marriage.

 

[dellstar]

hey...

OK, so the way i worded things was wrong.

You won't believe it but it just a 'pipedream'. Like most men when it actually came down to anything I probably wouldn't have the guts...

Thanks for the welcome...

 

[Cathleen]

So good straight advice is bitchy, nope I don't agree Cate, you may have saved a woman lots of heartache and him his marriage.

You're right Witchy, I just feel as though I'm being bitchy today. Maybe I'm just tired of holding my tongue. Thanks for calling me on that one.

 

[Cathleen]

hey...

OK, so the way i worded things was wrong.

You won't believe it but it just a 'pipedream'. Like most men when it actually came down to anything I probably wouldn't have the guts...

Thanks for the welcome...

Don't let your relationship to even get there. An ounce of prevention ---

 

[~Coquette~]

Every married man's dream....

I don't think so....

I agree with the other's....

Try actually making time for your wife....

 

[pink]

Welcome to Lit.