New Submissive male - real life domination/teasing ideas for a new domme wife.

[Fifemarriedsub48]

Hi, I am very submissive and open to all ideas on service, humiliation, physical and mental teasing. Open to all toys, restraints and sensory deprivation. I love wearing panties and open to being fully transformed sissy maid etc. anything is pretty much okay but not really into pain.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

That's nice and all but the real question is, what is she into or curious about?

 

[Fifemarriedsub48]

She is a very strong and loving woman who rules the house and finances and I mostly do what I am told. We are home alone on Friday and I plan to run through all the ideas and ask her to name everything she wants to do even if it’s just fantasy. I know she loves gays, trannys and CD etc and probably deep down would love to see me suck cock or more / mmf or more.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

She might find some of the posts in my blog helpful. If for nothing else, educational or conceptual ideas. Link is in my signature.

But orgasm control/ownership, penis humiliation, feminization, and pegging all sound like good kinks for you two that aren't too difficult to explore.

 

[Fifemarriedsub48]

Thank you. I am nearly 5 weeks into not coming and going crazy. Looking at straponme toys and maids outfits on Amazon. SPH not difficult for my cock.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

Spankings are also easy to engage in.

Being forced to stand naked and watch her masturbate without being able to touch yourself or help her is quite powerful.

My wife loves mindfucks and games of chance too. That can range from handing me a calendar and telling me to choose my orgasm days to rolling dice to determine what device she'll spank me with and how many times. For the first one, that mind sound simple but if I'm greedy, she can make it much harder on me, but then I also run the risk of choosing less days than she would've allocated to me.

Or she might say out of the blue, you can cum right now, but you must do it yourself and forfeit all kinds of play for two weeks.

Things like that.

The best kinks are those tailored to both of your individual personalities.

 

[Fifemarriedsub48]

We love mind games. Love the calendar one. Also love being naked with the restraints against my skin. Would love metal shackles too.
Taking her out for dinner on Thu to warm her up on some ideas and also
See about going to a dungeon/fetish club.

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

Well, best of luck but I would caution against topping from the bottom. It can be a delicate line between encouragement and subtly controlling the action.

 

[Fifemarriedsub48]

What is your thoughts on sharing all my inner thoughts on my phone notes. I go out and leave her to digest it all or stay while she either freaks out or gets very turned on? …

 

[TheIntrepidBoyager]

I don't know anything about either of you so it's hard to say but I would be careful not to overwhelm her all at once. You want this to be successful so give yourself every opportunity for that.

You can always expand as time goes on.