New Sub?

[ohayana]

BDSM has always kind of interested me, but I lately had an encounter with a dom and it was more exciting than anything I've ever done before. I've never really thought too much into it other than thinking it might be fun to get tied up at some point.

I feel kind of lost in all this, all I know now is that the idea of submitting and giving up my control really gets me going (I've always been kind of a control freak).

My reason for posting this.. Is what do I do now? I'm almost wondering if I'll ever quite enjoy vanilla sex quite the same again...

 

[Fauna]

Congratulations!

It sounds to me like you found yourself. My first experience was scary and wonderful all in one and I wanted more but I was afraid.... You get what I'm saying.

Take a step back and think about it. Be honest with yourself. Do what feels right for you and have fun.

Most of us have vanilla sex and BDSM scenes.

Enjoy!

 

[DragonAnn]

Congrats

First of all am glad your first experience was a good one and that it has fueled your hunger for more. Second it is very comon for true subs to be control freaks in day to day life. The misconception that women who enjoy to submit are weak minded doormats has long been proven wrong. So take your time play safe and enjoy your journey.

 

[ohayana]

Second it is very comon for true subs to be control freaks in day to day life. The misconception that women who enjoy to submit are weak minded doormats has long been proven wrong.

That actually offers me some relief. Having recently discovered this, I'm thinking a lot about what this means about who I am (and not necessarily bad things, I feel I should emphasize).

Do you know if there's any sort of resources for more about that somewhere online?

 

[Yang4yin]

Here is one place to find lots of links to lots of information. If you're looking for groups of people who may live in your area, look here.


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