New sub

[Yumsolace]

As a new sub, i have lots of questions. I'm exploring how far i want to go, 24/7,part time, online or not... How do i sort out who is playing and who is for real.

 

[naxalite0906]

Well.. for the questions side of thing... Do not be afraid to ask stuff on this forum. Everyone here is very helpful and will always offer some wonderful advice and guidance.. Oh, and be sure to check out the BDSM Library as it covers a lot of topics.

As for seeing who is playing and who isn't etc - Just take your time when chatting with someone and never rush into anything. The ones who try to rush you are usually the ones just looking to get off.. Well that is what I have experienced anyway.

Good luck to you though.. I'm sure you will have lots of fun

 

[trisquel_astur]

Welcome Yumsolace!

I agree at all with Nax in the first cuestion. The second one... is the a million buckets one. Be carefukk as Nax told, explore a lot and watch around. Think that present your submissiveness to someone is the best gift for a Dom/Domme, so be carefull. Once you takes the decission... be happy!

A kiss.

 

[TheDivineMsM]

Welcome Yumsolace!

I agree at all with Nax in the first cuestion. The second one... is the a million buckets one. Be carefukk as Nax told, explore a lot and watch around. Think that present your submissiveness to someone is the best gift for a Dom/Domme, so be carefull. Once you takes the decission... be happy!

A kiss.

Hey Trisquel...
Not to hijack...
But thanks for the spanish lesson...didnt go over as well as i hoped, but is good to know for the future!




Good Luck sweetie in your explorations!

 

[trisquel_astur]

Hey Trisquel...
Not to hijack...
But thanks for the spanish lesson...didnt go over as well as i hoped, but is good to know for the future!

Good Luck sweetie in your explorations!

Hi, Divine!

Wath a shame to hear this, you was very illusionate with it! Well you can ask me every time you want, ok?

 

[catalina_francisco]

This thread, New Sub Haven will be a fun way of getting some tips and ideas on who is yanking your chain and who is fair dinkum. Have fun exploring.

Catalina

 

[Puman]

This thread, New Sub Haven will be a fun way of getting some tips and ideas on who is yanking your chain and who is fair dinkum. Have fun exploring.
Catalina

Welcome Yumsolace. I'm also still new here and eveyone has really been helpful. The link that Catalina has posted is well worth the read! It absolutely made my day! Thanks Catalina.

 

[sexycaz22]

Hi,

And welcome to the site, and in particular to the BDSM fourms!

You will enjoy your stay, and there are a massive range of information you can go looking for and to ask questions etc, the people here are friendly and kind.

Hope to see you around the forums.

Caz

 

[Softouch911]

As an adult, you've probably developed a pretty good crap detector. As with any interaction where someone may or could take advantage of you, your enthusiasm, your inexperience, your body or your wallet, turn it on and all the way up to "10."

You wouldn't have gotten to this place if you weren't interested in taking a risk. Add a great big dose of common sense.

Then read the millions of good threads and terrible experiences people who haven't paid attention have gone through.

Rule #1: if it ain't fun, don't do it.

Good luck, welcome, and enjoy.

ST

 

[Evil_Geoff]

As a new sub, i have lots of questions. I'm exploring how far i want to go, 24/7,part time, online or not... How do i sort out who is playing and who is for real.

That's easy!

I'm for real.

Everyone else is just playing.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Everyone else is just playing.

Umm... sure..

 

[Chicklet]

I just want to add that anyone who insists that their way is the RIGHT way or the ONLY way or that they don't need to learn anything is probably full of crap. good luck.

 

[midwestyankee]

I just want to add that anyone who insists that their way is the RIGHT way or the ONLY way or that they don't need to learn anything is probably full of crap. good luck.

This is true in all walks of life, not just the world of bdsm. Wise words, Chicklet.

 

[Puman]

That's easy!

I'm for real.

Everyone else is just playing.

Um...well... yes. If you want honesty, you can always rely on Evil Geoff!