New search for His submissive begins for this Dom.

BigCk47

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What I am looking for in my next female submissive is to have an understanding of how our potential relationship is to build off each other. Whether is online or in person. I’m looking for a submissive who will understand the roles I give her. Yes I had a previous slave who had to step away. She understood her roles. I not looking for comparing. I want the next submissive to be her own person. She has her own limits her own interests for what she wants in a relationship. My expectations are strict and firm. But once you get to know me I can also be caring. I’m going through a lot and want us to be there for each other. Once you get to like me you’ll understand my position. I work around all limits extreme or not. Bonus if you are Bi or Bi-C. Doesn’t matter if you are new or experienced in BDSM. I work around all schedules my work keeps me very busy. My expectations is that being online to start if possible a connection forms. I am hopeful that something carries out into in person. But not right away. Trust has to build. Roles have to build. Cause we would have to work together to make the relationship work. I would like to share my BDSM test with my ad so you know what some aspects about me. You can share privately in DMs your test if you want.
A bit about Me. I was involved with BDSM well before my marriage 19 years ago. Currently involved in a contested divorce and custody war. My slave helped me unlock what I had with previous online slaves and in person slaves. I’ve been to BDSM parties many, many years ago. I’m a mixed race I’m 47. Enjoy sports, movies I like my coffee in the morning and yes I drink Starbucks. etc. i also learn from my mistakes here. We grow together. And make mistakes together. I do ask if we go forward that we use KikApp chatting on DMs can be challenging. As I said in the beginning, beginning a new search is hard. What I had with her was forming into something special. We were about to hit one month together



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100% Sadist
100% Degrader
90% Voyeur
87% Experimentalist
37% Non-monogamist
37% Vanilla
13% Primal (Hunter)
13% Daddy/Mommy
5% Exhibitionist
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Oof there is so much to unpack here.

You and your previous "slave" were together for just a month?

And anyone who comes next, after this perfection in human form...I quote:
"Im not looking to replace her. Whomever is willing to submit will be secondary to her. Yes she was that special and our relationship was that special."

I would be shocked if no one is clamoring to get in line.

Aww, Booboo, you ain't over her yet.
And it looks like anyone who attempts to crack the code will fall woefully short. Even if a month into it.

Good luck on your search.
 
Oof there is so much to unpack here.

You and your previous "slave" were together for just a month?

And anyone who comes next, after this perfection in human form...I quote:
"Im not looking to replace her. Whomever is willing to submit will be secondary to her. Yes she was that special and our relationship was that special."

I would be shocked if no one is clamoring to get in line.

Aww, Booboo, you ain't over her yet.
And it looks like anyone who attempts to crack the code will fall woefully short. Even if a month into it.

Good luck on your search.
That’s your point of view. You don’t need to be nasty in my ad. I’m tired of people being critical of my ad’s. You don’t like it you can keep your comments to yourself.
 
That’s your point of view. You don’t need to be nasty in my ad. I’m tired of people being critical of my ad’s. You don’t like it you can keep your comments to yourself.
That's true. I could keep my comments to myself.

But sometimes, when someone is throwing red flags, and no one says anything, well that's just bad form and entitlement ensues.

It's a choice really.
And being nasty is your perspective.
And we all see your perspective.

But best of luck big guy.


Eta...
Because I'm Badamy....
"I'm tired of people being critical of my ad's"
Ever think it's you?

When three people tell you you're dead...lie down.
 
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