New Member Advice?

I can't speak for anyone else obviously, but I kinda like if the guy does DM me and starts off saying, "sorry if this isn't a wanted message, but I enjoyed your post/poem/story.. And, yada yada".
I like when he's interested in me personally, not just a random message looking for naughty chat.
I don't understand why guys are so lazy they can't spend a couple minutes looking at a woman's profile and past posts or reactions to find something to, at least somewhat, personalize their introduction. I suspect they just figure if they cast a wide enough net, they'll catch a fish or two, and don't much care what kind of fish it is.
 
Don't go into the politics threads.
Lit is for fun and sexiness, not arguing.
I first strapped on a pair of waders and stepped into the fetid cesspool of the Politics Board a few months ago. I only drop in there occasionally when I need to vent or I feel like slapping clown shoes on some fool.
 
Lower your expectations. :)
Hey Saint Ann! You seem somewhat worldly on this sight. I have been coming here for the stories for years. I just started getting into the forums aspect of things. So do people (wonen) post pics of themselves in their profiles? I constantly see threads where people (mostly men) are saying praises about their puca. Am I missing an integral part of this thing? And none of the imajur or reblogs come up. Whats the dealio?. Thanks in advance
 
Hey Saint Ann! You seem somewhat worldly on this sight. I have been coming here for the stories for years. I just started getting into the forums aspect of things. So do people (wonen) post pics of themselves in their profiles? I constantly see threads where people (mostly men) are saying praises about their puca. Am I missing an integral part of this thing? And none of the imajur or reblogs come up. Whats the dealio?. Thanks in advance
You have to have 100 posts before you can see the puca. :)
 
Hey Saint Ann! You seem somewhat worldly on this sight. I have been coming here for the stories for years. I just started getting into the forums aspect of things. So do people (wonen) post pics of themselves in their profiles? I constantly see threads where people (mostly men) are saying praises about their puca. Am I missing an integral part of this thing? And none of the imajur or reblogs come up. Whats the dealio?. Thanks in advance
I can add to the question about pics not showing up. Some time ago imagur and maybe others got rid of a lot of content on their sites and cracked down on suggestive/explicit images. So all of those links are now broken 😭
 
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