New master

[Forshaw4sure]

Ok
Firstly I apologise for calling myself a Master, I'm not yet, I'm a Dom in training.

I'm having an affair with a girl who is becoming my submissive and we're escalating things slowly

As I've never been here before, and want to gain more control over her I was just wondering if any of you kind Master or Mistresses would give me some advice

Thank you

 

[DomPeter5]

Safe, sane and consensual.

In my opinion, these are the key principles for a successful D/s relationship. To achieve this, open and honest communication must occur between the Dom/Master and the sub. It is about what both partners want not just what the Dom wants.

I suggest that you and your partner search online for information about D/s relationships. There are many questionnaires about BDSM preferences and profiles of Dominants and submissives that can inform your discussions about how to proceed.

Best of luck to you.