new guy in bed

[frier]

I put an ad in a local gay and bi personal and this guy mailed me back. We have been writing for a few days now, it seems like we have a lot in common and I would like to know how to get him to have sex with me?

 

[Mischka]

You're not giving us a lot to work with here. What did your ad say? Are you a virgin? Are you looking for a fling or a relationship?

 

[chanaud]

Have you tried asking?

 

[petrel]

sex online sex by phone by mail or in person?

and if in person please think about this a bit i know this may sound boring but you do have to be careful and take care of your health and personal safety

are you both quite clear about what this freidnship is meant to devleop into ie did your ad say l"ooking for a sexy guy to share in hot and torrid affair" or did it say "seeking friends"?

 

[cellis]

It seems to me that you are talking sex here not a relationship... and if you put an ad in the personals... how are is it to say... you wanna f**k?? If that is not what you are after, then try taking your time and getting to know the person... meet at starbucks or somewhere for coffee.... you know what I mean...

 

[InSaNe]

sex online sex by phone by mail or in person?

and if in person please think about this a bit i know this may sound boring but you do have to be careful and take care of your health and personal safety

I think that is most important...