new guy anal toys?

[wisec715]

Hey Everyone,

I'm fairly new to anal. I'm a bi-curious male, and i want to start to really get into anal sex and anal masturbation.

Couple questions...

#1) Anyone have any great techniques that will help me?

#2) What are the best toys out there for anal? I'm a beginner and not looking for something super big.

 

[Riley_James]

A few pointers

First, start small...never try to take anything too big at first or you'll never try it again. A small slim vibe would probably be best, not much wider than two fingers. Anal beads can some times be good as well since you can get used to one size before progressing onto the next. There's an anal bead wand on the market that I've used to open up a few tight asses.

Second, be patient. Every hot story you'll ever read will tell you to just "go for it!" When it comes to anal, this is never the best course of action. Stimulate yourself with your fingers first (try the shower, always seems to be a favorite place for my guys) and use some baby oil or something very slick. You'll eventually open up, but it will take some time and practice.

Third, lube, lube, lube. I can't stress enough how important this is. No asshole, no matter how practiced wants to be entered dry. Take this from a girl who has plenty of experience with inexperienced men trying to put their fingers and cocks up my butt.

Remember, good things cum to those who wait!

Best of Luck,
Riley

p.s. nobody ever wants to talk about this, but a good warm water enema before play is a good idea if you don't want a huge mess on your hands. Gross, but still good advice!

 

[SuzieGreen717]

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[Shankara20]

In addition to the great advice just offered, I suggest you use the produce dept of your grocery store as a good place to experiment with size - start with something like carrots then move up to cucumbers then who knows what

Give them a wash first to remove any "stuff" then lube up and see what fits

I found I kept selecting things bigger then I could handle at first and then learn how to trim them to fit being careful to keep everything smooth.

You won't spent a bunch of money while finding the best size and you just toss them out when finished.

Have fun.

 

[wisec715]

Thanks everyone! Those tips will be great. Has anyone used the MGX or whatever that thing is? It looks interesting to say the least.

Also, I have been fingering my girlfriend for a while now, but I really want her to start to play with my anus. Any advice on getting her started?

 

[jnubbs]

ANal

Hi I don't know what MGX is...but as for the girl friend..i don't know I started a simlar post and guys just don't get why girls don't love anal or anal reciprocity more...As for general advice you may start off wanting something small in you, but eventually I've found a life size dildo and a nice chair and some sitting down and getting up is an adventure! You need something with a But on the end of it so it doesn't get stuck in you! Good luck, let us know how it goes!

 

[wisec715]

The toy I found online is the Aneros MGX. It's suppose to be just for guys. Looks interesting. I will let you know how I do with my girlfriend. I have been asking her to play with my balls as shes riding me, hoping that her finger will slip down a little and i can give a good moan. I should really just tell her.

 

[SuzieGreen717]

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[ttm_mtt]

shower play

to keep her from thinking "ewwe, dirty", try showering together. Suds up you cheeks and then the sphicter itself. Doing this alone is the best way to start. Once you have lots of soap, relax your sphicter and insert a finger. The soap will help, but it is the muscle control that you have to overcome.

Once you have done it a few times alone, try again with her there. Start some sex play, maybe even some regular sex. Then ask her to finish you by hand, While she is doing that place her other hands on your balls. She will get the idea. After some of that, spread your legs some, and move her hand down to the entrance. She will probably still be just rubbing it. If she doesn't penetrate, either tell her to, or just grab the hand and guide her.

Of course, make sure you have no "stuff" ready to come out first. A good crap an hour or so beforehand should do the trick.

 

[bi4ever]

My goodness. Some here, that are giving advice on cleanliness, obviously haven't had toys of any decent size in them. Let me help. Whenever you get a toy that is large enough to fill your butt, in your ass, you're going to want to poop. And, if you haven't already cleaned the INSIDE of your butt (cleaning the outside isn't going to help much), you WILL poop. The intestine stores poop all along the way, in sections (according to your meals), so in order to really play with sex toys, for long periods of time, you're going to have to do some major cleaning. Just cleaning up the colon won't do it, either. The rest of the junk will just move through your intestine and into your colon.

 

[JJspeed]

umm i cant really help you on that one

 

[Fagin]

Hey Everyone,

I'm fairly new to anal. I'm a bi-curious male, and i want to start to really get into anal sex and anal masturbation.

Couple questions...

#1) Anyone have any great techniques that will help me?

#2) What are the best toys out there for anal? I'm a beginner and not looking for something super big.

Prostates need lovin' too.

#1) Take it easy. Experiment.

#2) A slim vibrator. A small butt plug to start, maybe a vibrating one (although a slim vibrating one is somewhat hard to find but not impossible).

 

[JamesXR]

I'm extremely biased, as I work at eXtremerestraints.com, but we sell a lot of the aneros and personal accounts I've gotten are good. We also sell a lot of anal trainer kits, because there are a lot of people new to anal who really want to practice. I think starting out with the aneros would be excellent, especially since many men use it while having sex to achieve better orgasms.

We sell it here: http://www.extremerestraints.com/aneros-male-g-spot-stimulator_50.html

Yes we also sell a lot of enema equipment because that is a big deal and a lot of our customers buy huge toys as well.

 

[nimbushalo]

Go to the bathroom beforehand. The toy should be jellied if possible (flexible and somewhat soft). Harder toys make it easier to end up with a perforated colon, and that will lead to a hospital visit. It's also a good idea to choose a toy with a broader base to avoid losing it. A jellied dong with a set of balls works great, and you can usually find them in smaller sizes as well. Lube should be water based. Don't use something like hand cream or vaseline as that will trap in bacteria. Condoms can be slipped on the toy for easy clean up. Just make sure your partners know you are using them on toys. Your girlfriend or boyfriend finds a used condom in the trash and you end up having a long discussion.

As for getting your girl to use a finger on your anus during sex, the best bet is to talk to her about it. If you think she might be grossed out about it you can always feel out her reaction one night by joking about it after drinks. If she doesn't seem disgusted, then later you can always say "Hey remember at the bar when I was talking about you playing with my arse?" and take it from there. Good luck, have fun. Hope some of this helps.

 

[bi golly]

People talk about the Aneros and like it. I tried it and found that the hard plastic was a turn off. It was rather unpleasent.

I can echo two tips previously mentioned: go slow and use plenty of lube.

Try a dildo that doesn't have a tip that is rather blunt.

Also, just lay on your back and play with your anus lubed up fingers. Then gently press the dildo against your anus. Feel it into your anus.

Breathe. Be calm.

Repeatedly press it against the part of your anus that yields. Don't force anything. You will feel your anus start to yield a little more. Just continue breathing calmly and pressing the dildo against your anus. After 20 times or so, you will feel your anus start to yield more. After about 30 times, it will start to slide in. Take it easy, use plenty of lube and keep it up and it will slide in very easily.

 

[The_Erotic_Celt]

The MGX by Aneros

Thanks everyone! Those tips will be great. Has anyone used the MGX or whatever that thing is? It looks interesting to say the least.

If you want more information on the MGX you should visit the The Aneros Massager the MGX looks like this
http://www.aneros.se/images/large_anerosmgx-n.gif
there are actually 6 differnt models. My favorite is the Eupho
http://www.adamstoychest.com/images/T/large_euphonew2-01.gif
followed by the Helix
http://www.malegspot.com/images/large_helixnew.gif
You should also read some of the post by some of the users to see how they use the device. I enjoy mine at least a few times a week, I like using it while I lay on my side and read some of the stories on lit...it's a blast

 

[south_florida_bicur]

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