New faces, come say hello....

[SirSparky]

Been around here fir a coupke months, initially came for the stories then found the forums. Have made a few friends too. 54 m UK. Would love private DM's from any women

 

[SloanePlanet66]

I'm also a Lit antique and it is nice to know something about those who post here. So, I thought this should be one of the recently closed threads that should continue.

From the original thread, started by RisiaSkye...
I'm noticing a lot of new posters around these parts, and it's getting difficult to keep up. We've been a small and kinda insular little community for so long, it is both thrilling and a little overwhelming to realize that we have so many people joining us with their own questions, experiences, and ideas.

So, on behalf of antiques like me, I ask for a favor:
Please, stop in and introduce yourself. Give us a chance to see you, get to know a bit about you, and we'll likely be more readily able to answer your questions or join a conversation with you. Let us know that you aren't a troll, and you'll jump way up the priority list all in one shot. At least, for me.

Welcome, new faces!

Now, who's next?

Hello all,
If I can just say a bit about myself. I'm 60 years of age and have been married for 40 of them. My wife is vanilla, I cheated on her once,with a little sub, when I was young and stupid, so now I only have fantasies. I do love lingerie, and I have a lot of my own. My wife has a long term illness so I masterbate, a lot. In my fantasies can either be submissive or dominant, I would be dressed appropriately,and I am very contented. I love curves,and I have spent lots of time between my wife's legs enjoying the pleasures. I just wished that she would take a strap to my arse and keep me under control. Sorry about the grammar, I'm very dyslexic.

 

[Timesup]

What the husband doesn’t know won’t hurt him.
Now that could make an interesting story. Wife and husband join Literotica to explore their sexual fantasy, each unaware that the other one is a member.

If you like Pina Colada’s…

 

[Timesup]

Hi everyone! Joined in 2021, been reading Literotica for years before that. In Va. Have been writing stories over the years but haven’t submitted any yet. Keep polishing them in hopes some of you will like them when I do.

 

[KindredFlame]

Hi everyone! Joined in 2021, been reading Literotica for years before that. In Va. Have been writing stories over the years but haven’t submitted any yet. Keep polishing them in hopes some of you will like them when I do.

Welcome

 

[laura__b]

Hi all, I'm not new to the site but i am new to exploring BDSM.

 

[KindredFlame]

Hi all, I'm not new to the site but i am new to exploring BDSM.

Hahaha. Well this is where the fun is.

 

[Myspecialsub]

Hello to all. I’m not new I had a thread in the personals for 11 years which I recently closed. I want to reintroduce myself as a more gentle respectful, caring person than my original post suggested.

When I first posted I fell into the same trap that I’ve since advised others not to. That meaning, to not try and be who you think others expect you to be. Because then you assume a mask and play to others projections.

My experience is that listening is the most important skill and personal quality in any relationship rather than making assumptions. Feeling listened to, heard, respected accepted, not judged can transform dark yesterdays into bright tomorrows.

The greatest impediment to relationships are expectations which are often based on our own projections about who we want the other to be. And some feel let down when they respond differently to our projection.

Maybe because I’m older I’ve discovered that the thrill and joy is in the giving rather than trying encage and control.

Let her fly! Give her the space and freedom to just be who she is rather than try and control and confine her. The more she’s given the choice to fly, the more she’s likely to choose to stay or return.She needs to feel listened to and understood, and comfortable to express her dreams, fears, and other emotions in a safe sacred space free of judgement without unrealistic expectations. It’s not about what you can get from her. It’s about what you can do to help her become the person she’s always meant to be

I derive great joy in sharing my experiences, knowledge, writings with those who find them useful. I adore beautiful things such as nature, art poetry and the pure feminine essence. I live overlooking the sea and take photos of beautiful sunsets sunrises and spectacular skylines. I love to share them with others who can appreciate the breathtaking beauty.

Im drawn to Ancient Greek and other mythology because of the view they hold universal truths. I enjoy writing and have several short presentations I do based on myths in relation to human behaviour and relationships. I also wrote a short magical romantic fairytale based on my own experiences and learnings.

If anyone is interested I’m happy to discuss and share my experiences and writings.

Ron

 

[Dave1812]

Hi David I would really like to talk with you and explore some ideas and test a few perversions

Mmm David and I are similar. Perversions?

 

[J D Danger]

Hi all, I'm not new to the site but i am new to exploring BDSM.

I hope you have fun exploring if you ever want to chat drop me a DM

 

[Arcanyx]

Hello, I have put a personals out! Please do view it!

 

[KindredFlame]

Hello, I have put a personals out! Please do view it!

If you gave us a link you would have a chance of that

 

[MissSizzle]

Hi everybody. I'm a longtime reader, hoping to post a few stories but still a little shy about it. Literotica def helped me get through an unsatisfying marriage, and I'm so happy to see the community here now that I'm divorced. Super subby, middle-aged and full of energy. I am hoping to find a person who lives close enough to Portland to build an off-line relationship, in addition to making friends online.

 

[SirSparky]

Welcome to the family. Shame im not close. Im in the uk but welcome to chat anytime. Pm always open for messages

 

[J D Danger]

Hi everybody. I'm a longtime reader, hoping to post a few stories but still a little shy about it. Literotica def helped me get through an unsatisfying marriage, and I'm so happy to see the community here now that I'm divorced. Super subby, middle-aged and full of energy. I am hoping to find a person who lives close enough to Portland to build an off-line relationship, in addition to making friends online.

welcome to LIT I hope you have fun exploring here and if you ever want to chat drop me a DM

 

[newengland07]

I’m sort of new here. I haven’t ventured into the BDSM world much so still kinda learning a lot. 36 year old male former New Englander now in Florida. Probably lean more submissive but feel like it changes all the time…

 

[Amethyst_Dream]

I'm an old member returning here. I decided to come back. I ended up leaving because I got scared when it came to me opening up sexually to a Dom. I feel that I'm ready and I'm still learning about BDSM. I'm 42 years old and live in Florida. I'm submissive and never experienced BDSM, but I always wanted too.

 

[SirSparky]

I'm an old member returning here. I decided to come back. I ended up leaving because I got scared when it came to me opening up sexually to a Dom. I feel that I'm ready and I'm still learning about BDSM. I'm 42 years old and live in Florida. I'm submissive and never experienced BDSM, but I always wanted too.

Feel free to PM me and we can discuss your submissive tendencies. There is no reason to be scared. Communication is the key. I will always listen

 

[J D Danger]

I'm an old member returning here. I decided to come back. I ended up leaving because I got scared when it came to me opening up sexually to a Dom. I feel that I'm ready and I'm still learning about BDSM. I'm 42 years old and live in Florida. I'm submissive and never experienced BDSM, but I always wanted too.

I hope you have fun exploring...DM me anytime if you want to chat...I am 48 and still learning

 

[KindredFlame]

I hope you have fun exploring...DM me anytime if you want to chat...I am 48 and still learning

Aren’t we all.

 

[Ironfan]

Morning all (in the UK at least), I'm a 45 mwm.

Floated a round the forums for a while now and for about the last year been experimenting with an edging/denial relationship wife my wife.

As her sex drive has wanted but mine is still fairly high, she lets me chat/play online and I'm allowed to edge whenever I like but she's the only one allowed to make me cum.

We use punishment/rewards as incentives for this. If I go a certain number of days without orgasm then she'll usually wear a toy out to dinner or we'll have a naughty night away. If I don't I have to wear bothy Lovense toys to dinner and she'll control them or she'll roll a 8sided die and make me cum however many times it says.

That's probably enough early morning ramble from me, just wanted to say hi.

 

[AnonymousDragon]

Should I say something here? I suppose so, not to be rude, it's just that I don't know anyone personally here. However I have seen people who do share a common interest. I've vented about a censorship issue going on in the UK in a different post, said my piece, don't plan to repeat it the second time, I've gone on about politics too much elsewhere, too stressful.

However what I came here for, is to discuss with people, I am undecided on whether or not to make a separate thread to ask people if they had experienced kink shaming for BDSM fantasies, or even a real life consensual relationship that involved BDSM submissive or dominating partner. If so, what advice do they give? does it help to discuss it with people on this forum or if feelings of shame and anxiety for having to keep quiet about a kink necessitate discussing it with a therapist? I'm not a mental healthcare professional, just asking for some friendly advice from a community that appears to be mostly civil. Would I try to make friends here? if I find the time, I guess, but said topics like this I would only discuss it with an adult, which I assume most of you are. Thank you for your time and I wish you a happy Halloween.

 

[KindredFlame]

Should I say something here? I suppose so, not to be rude, it's just that I don't know anyone personally here. However I have seen people who do share a common interest. I've vented about a censorship issue going on in the UK in a different post, said my piece, don't plan to repeat it the second time, I've gone on about politics too much elsewhere, too stressful.

However what I came here for, is to discuss with people, I am undecided on whether or not to make a separate thread to ask people if they had experienced kink shaming for BDSM fantasies, or even a real life consensual relationship that involved BDSM submissive or dominating partner. If so, what advice do they give? does it help to discuss it with people on this forum or if feelings of shame and anxiety for having to keep quiet about a kink necessitate discussing it with a therapist? I'm not a mental healthcare professional, just asking for some friendly advice from a community that appears to be mostly civil. Would I try to make friends here? if I find the time, I guess, but said topics like this I would only discuss it with an adult, which I assume most of you are. Thank you for your time and I wish you a happy Halloween.

Well that’s ok there is a bdsm thread and if you have a story idea involving bdsm post it in story ideas. Me I will chat to anyone about anything so hit me up if you like.

 

[Zeus_10]

57 from the UK, with an over active kinky imagination. New to this site after a recommendation. Already had one publication and hoping to share lots more with you guys. Happy to chat and goes without saying a submissive female.

 

[KindredFlame]

57 from the UK, with an over active kinky imagination. New to this site after a recommendation. Already had one publication and hoping to share lots more with you guys. Happy to chat and goes without saying a submissive female.

What are you looking for?