New faces, come say hello....

[muaddib1st]

Hi All!
New and eager to learn about this site.

 

[LillyNLace]

First off Hello, I'm Lilly as if you have not guessed already. I'm not exactly new to Lit but new to this forum and to bdsm truthfully not even sure it is for me but exploring as a former gf made a strong case that it is what I'm missing in my sex life. She so brutally pointed out that despite my protestations that I'm not into bdsm nor am I a submissive. She found that rather funny as she made some points that amazed me about myself. Things such as I apologize alot, seek approval, ask for permission not just sexual but in regular life as well. She went on with other points and I still disagreed but even during this conversation I found myself apologizing for disagreeing with her. So maybe she has a point I'm not sure but there are many aspects that I do admit gets me going so to speak. So I'm exploring and gathering information to decide if it is something I want to delve into or not.

 

[Strixaluco]

First off Hello, I'm Lilly as if you have not guessed already. I'm not exactly new to Lit but new to this forum and to bdsm truthfully not even sure it is for me but exploring as a former gf made a strong case that it is what I'm missing in my sex life. She so brutally pointed out that despite my protestations that I'm not into bdsm nor am I a submissive. She found that rather funny as she made some points that amazed me about myself. Things such as I apologize alot, seek approval, ask for permission not just sexual but in regular life as well. She went on with other points and I still disagreed but even during this conversation I found myself apologizing for disagreeing with her. So maybe she has a point I'm not sure but there are many aspects that I do admit gets me going so to speak. So I'm exploring and gathering information to decide if it is something I want to delve into or not.

There are many types of subs - and one category of D/s is DaddyDom (or MommyDom) / littlegirl (DDlg or MDlg). If you find mainstream BDSM foreign somehow, you might want to check that, too.

And BDSM is even otherwise such a broad spectrum between BD, DS and SM. I skip SM totally, but explore the BD and DS sides currently.

 

[thefishfryer]

Hi. Lynn 34 bi wife new here stopping by to say hello and looking forward to the forum.

Have you recovered from the avalanche of personal messages yet?

 

[Lucy1981]

Hey all! It seems like many newbies posting here, I’m new to the literotica forums, but also to exploring bdsm irl. It’s definitely something I’ve suspected I was into for a long time, but I was in a long term relationship with someone who was not into exploring this. I recently started dating someone who is dominant and we are exploring my likes, dislikes and limits together. He is wonderfully patient with me, but I don’t want to put all of the “work” of figuring my stuff out on him. I’m hoping to connect with others, including other subs, to learn more. If you’re open to talking about some of your experiences, please reach out. xox - Lucy

 

[Mtnmike]

Hello,
I'm new here and decided to join today. For the last few years I've been noticing different things about myself. I never thought I was submissive, but there's so many key factors there. I've never tried BDSM before, but I had many fantasies. The one thing about me is that I'm really shy and have kept these thoughts to myself for a few years. I'm really glad I finally decided to join here, talk with others and open up about myself sexuality. I look forward to getting to know all of you.

Welcome, there are some amazing people here. A few not so good, you'll have to keep your eye's & ears open but should find what you're looking for. Message anytime if you would like to chat, good luck finding what you desire.

 

[Secret_l0ver]

Hi all. Very new. I am 22yr old young lady and just joined the site. I have a weird affection for getting told what to do. Not sure of what to expect though.

 

[Strixaluco]

Hi all. Very new. I am 22yr old young lady and just joined the site. I have a weird affection for getting told what to do. Not sure of what to expect though.

Not weird at all, just sounds like a sub And it is a wonderful thing to actually experience it!

And it may, or may not, connect to many other things. BDSM is such a wide variety of things. I am definitely in the shallow end of it myself.

 

[thefishfryer]

Hasn't been that bad actually. What's your pleasure?

Good food, a glass or three of fine wine and a beautiful woman sucking my dick. I manage to have the first two on a regular basis, but the third has become a rather rare occurance.

 

[Mtnmike]

Hi all. Very new. I am 22yr old young lady and just joined the site. I have a weird affection for getting told what to do. Not sure of what to expect though.

Welcome young lady, good to see a young lady wanting to expand her sexual experiences & open her mind to the possibilities. Wish you luck in finding what trips your trigger.

 

[Secret_l0ver]

Thank you kind Sir for your wise words.

Not weird at all, just sounds like a sub And it is a wonderful thing to actually experience it!

And it may, or may not, connect to many other things. BDSM is such a wide variety of things. I am definitely in the shallow end of it myself.

 

[Secret_l0ver]

Welcome young lady, good to see a young lady wanting to expand her sexual experiences & open her mind to the possibilities. Wish you luck in finding what trips your trigger.

Thank you Sir.

 

[Strixaluco]

Thank you kind Sir for your wise words.

I am no sir, sweetie A very feminine creature in all regards.

 

[Secret_l0ver]

I am no sir, sweetie A very feminine creature in all regards.

My bad! Apologies!

 

[Strixaluco]

My bad! Apologies!

It's ok, I know my nic, being an owl species, doesn't give away my gender.

 

[WildPriestess]

Hello all! New to the forums and looking forward to diving into all the posts!

 

[PenLightStories]

Not new to the Lit forums, but I'd like to get more into BDSM play with my spouse and I was hoping to get some help understanding where to start. She's into the idea, but we both feel a little silly trying to dive in without really knowing what we need.

 

[EStaccato]

Hi, been around for a couple weeks now, posting in fetishes. I'm AFAB genderfluid (but I present femme most of the time). Bondage and discipline have historically given me some of my best orgasms, but I've only been with three sexual partners ever - 1 female, 2 male.

I've never really studied, BSDM. I've just given control to my partner. Since I'm hoping to write more erotica that includes power dynamics, I think I'm going to spend more time in this space and get to know how it all works.

 

[FreakyMicNasty]

Hello any ladies looking for someone to write/chat with ?

 

[cowboyup6977]

First off Hello, I'm Lilly as if you have not guessed already. I'm not exactly new to Lit but new to this forum and to bdsm truthfully not even sure it is for me but exploring as a former gf made a strong case that it is what I'm missing in my sex life. She so brutally pointed out that despite my protestations that I'm not into bdsm nor am I a submissive. She found that rather funny as she made some points that amazed me about myself. Things such as I apologize alot, seek approval, ask for permission not just sexual but in regular life as well. She went on with other points and I still disagreed but even during this conversation I found myself apologizing for disagreeing with her. So maybe she has a point I'm not sure but there are many aspects that I do admit gets me going so to speak. So I'm exploring and gathering information to decide if it is something I want to delve into or not.

I completely understand what you are saying
I was the same way until one fateful night

 

[Camos1000]

Good afternoon. We are a couple from London, UK and have been reading for some time and have just started writing and hope to be posted in the next few days

We enjoy a varied set of interests including bdsm , fetish and bondage

Be great to meet some like minded people and exchange ideas

Cheers. Steve & Abi

 

[roxanne1971]

Hello. 50Fsub.
Not really new by any means but long time lurker. New again the past six months after 8 years of celibacy is accurate.
Going thru the ups and downs of the intense emotions of this lifestyle. Lot of disappointments but I don’t want to let go of my expectations either . Nonetheless I do love this journey.

 

[AcerbusX]

I'm also a Lit antique and it is nice to know something about those who post here. So, I thought this should be one of the recently closed threads that should continue.

From the original thread, started by RisiaSkye...
I'm noticing a lot of new posters around these parts, and it's getting difficult to keep up. We've been a small and kinda insular little community for so long, that it is both thrilling and a little overwhelming to realize that we have so many people joining us with their own questions, experiences, and ideas.

So, on behalf of antiques like me, I ask for a favor:
Please, stop in and introduce yourself. Give us a chance to see you, get to know a bit about you, and we'll likely be more readily able to answer your questions or join a conversation with you. Let us know that you aren't a troll, and you'll jump way up the priority list all in one shot. At least, for me.

Welcome, new faces!

Now, who's next?

Howdy, the name is AcerbusX, but you can call me anything from "X" to "hey you" don't really care, I'm pretty laid back.

I'm actually an old timer from way back, who has returned to explore a new kink I've discovered I'm really into but has nobody to discuss it with. And I do mean nobody. My gf and I broke up because she couldn't handle me being into a Dom/Sub kink. Actually, she just couldn't handle being a Sub.

So, with very little to go on, and a overwhelming desire to explore being a Daddy/Dom. I came back to the only place I could think of with like-minded folks to chat, discuss, and learn from. And believe me, and am ready to talk.

 

[seekingAlpha]

Hi, I am new here and have been posting for about a week. I have been a Dom/Master for over 20 years and enjoy sharing my experiences and learning from others. I am enjoying the sense of community and how friendly everyone is.

 

[Strixaluco]

My gf and I broke up because she couldn't handle me being into a Dom/Sub kink. Actually, she just couldn't handle being a Sub.

That's so sad.

And complicated, too. Thinking back to my vanilla life, I've only had 2 partners that could have gotten a cautious "ok we can try it" if they had suggested that I should submit or even be their little. It just takes a different kind of partner than almost all my past ones have been, some where not Dom-types at all and some that might have been I wouldn't ever have given that kind of power over me. It takes a special kind of person to get me to submit - one might be an good partner in the vanilla sense and a trustworthy Dom and yet not make me want to give up the power.

This is not the only site, FetLife is a place for BDSM people to meet (think kinky Facebook), but I actually strongly prefer Lit over FetLife. FL is good for finding local meetings, "munches", though.