New faces, come say hello....

Hello A/all,

I’ve been surfing in on this site for a number of years, but only joined a little while ago. Been posting a bit but thought I’d introduce myself. submissive male. Been married for a while, but back in the day I served two Mistresses. I’m certainly no expert, but I thought I might be able to share some of my experiences from time to time.

Respectfully,

ATBFA
 
Welcome to all new Litsters, whether new to the lifestyle or experienced. Be safe and have fun.
 
Hello all,

I am “Rex”, I started exploring lifestyle in 2017 and discovered that I am exclusively D-type (and TPE style) since 2019. I am in my late 30s, I learned about this site through someone very dear to me who wrote a story here, and I figured that since writing is something I’ve aimed to do more of this year (and have), that I would try something new and see what happens. Some things I am especially fond of are degradation, coercion, and rope bondage (shibari). Vanilla interests include eastern philosophy (currently using feng shui for home cleansing), wildlife and nature (lions, birds, and cuttlefish especially), helping others, and setting/practicing healthy lifestyle choices.
 
Hi. Relatively new to the forums but been a reader / commenter on stories for years. Older Daddy Dom type, currently searching for a long term online partner in crime.
 
Hi all! I am 26f sub, interested in kinky chatting. I especially value the psychological aspect of being dominated. I have some experience of being a sub-slut before, both online and IRL. I am open to both men and women. Look forward to hearing from like minded people.
Hi and welcome to the board. Lots of great people and fun to be had, no matter what you're into.
 
Hello!
I've been a bit of lurker here but thought I would pluck up courage to say hello.
BDSM, or control and domination has intrigued me for a few years. I am sexually open and have experimented quite a lot but when I am being controlled is when I feel most in that "zone". I have played a few times; I find most men will enjoy a role play scenario but also been with a couple of men who were clearly dominant and knew exactly what to do.
There are elements of humiliation, being used and punishment that I surprisingly found extremely arousing. So I'm definitely interested and would love to learn more.
 
Not new to website….uve been reading stories for many be 3 (?) years. This is 1st time I’ve posted.

Just thought I’d try it out and see what happens.

Real interest is BDSM - if I’d known what “dominant” meant I would have realized that’s what I was as when I was maybe 6 or 7 yrs old when watching a cowboy movie and the bad guys were holding the leading lady hostage and had her tied up to a chair and that was exciting to me and I couldn’t figure out why she wanted to get away.

So yes, bondage, being gagged, blindfolds, dirty pillow talk, spanking, edging, lots of nipple action, oooh la la!.

Happily married but hubby is not as crazy for sec as I am, almost all my pleasure reading (pun intended) is here.on Literotica.

I have had 3 partners that had Dominant tendencies, tho, my first boyfriend died when he was 20 (I sd 18. The other 2 were while I was as married (and so we’re both of them.
And I had 2 excellent online relationships that were FANTASTIC. But one found a real life special someone and the other ended when hubby found out abt one of my real life guys.

So anyway, here I am, not a troll, but I’m a very good girl 😊
 
Hello!
I've been a bit of lurker here but thought I would pluck up courage to say hello.
BDSM, or control and domination has intrigued me for a few years. I am sexually open and have experimented quite a lot but when I am being controlled is when I feel most in that "zone". I have played a few times; I find most men will enjoy a role play scenario but also been with a couple of men who were clearly dominant and knew exactly what to do.
There are elements of humiliation, being used and punishment that I surprisingly found extremely arousing. So I'm definitely interested and would love to learn more.
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Hi, there. I just joined the site. There's a lot to check out on here, and I haven't read much of it yet, but I will. I'm not really much of a lurker. I just plunge right in. So here I am. I'm 64 (but a youngish 64!), married. I've seen some things and done some things, but it was mostly all more than 16 years ago. I met a guy I love and married him and wasn't interested in "stuff." But now I am interested again. Funny how that works.

Does anyone here remember the old bondage.com site from 20 years ago? This site reminds of that. It was free, and had forums, and messaging, and it was really active. I cut my teeth on that site. I learned so much, and met a few people from there in real life.

I'm looking forward to making some online friends, if nothing else. Oh-- and reading stories, of course! Thanks for reading.
 
Hi, there. I just joined the site. There's a lot to check out on here, and I haven't read much of it yet, but I will. I'm not really much of a lurker. I just plunge right in. So here I am. I'm 64 (but a youngish 64!), married. I've seen some things and done some things, but it was mostly all more than 16 years ago. I met a guy I love and married him and wasn't interested in "stuff." But now I am interested again. Funny how that works.

Does anyone here remember the old bondage.com site from 20 years ago? This site reminds of that. It was free, and had forums, and messaging, and it was really active. I cut my teeth on that site. I learned so much, and met a few people from there in real life.

I'm looking forward to making some online friends, if nothing else. Oh-- and reading stories, of course! Thanks for reading.
Welcome and enjoy!
Nice introduction, BTW!
 
Hey all. I am pretty new to this. I saw the 50 shades movies, read the 50 shades books, watched some bdsm porn and listened to other erotic novels.

I get excited thinking about being a sub / slave and looking to learn more or figure out that it isnt for me.
lets talk about trying out a sub side of me
 
Hello everyone, I've found this site extremely helpful and hope to contribute to the discussions and surely learn a thing or two about myself. Do say hello with any tips or advice about testing the waters of Bdsm.

Maria
Hi Maria. Don't hesitate to ask questions of me or others. There are many experienced BDSMers here to help! :)
 
Introduction.

It all started innocently enough. Co-workers who flirted a bit here and there. But then about four years ago, I received an email from Him on a Friday telling me to wear my red dress on Monday. My initial response was a typical “oh, so you like that dress,” to which he replied, “just do what I say.”

Well, that gave me something to think about over the weekend. I did want to wear the dress for Him, but I could not really articulate at that point why. What could be the harm? So, Monday morning I walk into the office wearing the red dress. And He has a proposal. The proposal is that we innocently explore our D/s feelings in the office. He makes the rules. I obey them.

What? We had never had a conversation remotely related to the topic of D/s. While I have had submissive fantasies for a long time, I had certainly never mentioned them to Him (or anyone else for that matter). Also…we are both married (and not to each other). But we started talking about what this “arrangement” would look like in the office, He gave me a (fairly fast) deadline to make a decision, and I decided to give it a try.

He did start out slow with me. Initially, the Rules included what I could wear, what I could drink, and how to address him. The list of Rules kept getting longer…and I started messing up, which led to punishment.

I was not expecting the punishment. I also wasn’t expecting my reaction to the punishment. The first time He disciplined me for not obeying Him, I had to meet him in a vacant office with a ruler. He used the ruler on the back of my hand, and when He was finished made me stand in a corner for several minutes while he went back to work. I stood in the corner not thinking about my stinging hand but about the wetness between my thighs and how I wanted Him to fuck me.
But…I am married and this arrangement was for the office only. Until one day, I get a text message to look in my wallet where I will find a hotel room key and to go immediately to the hotel room and await further instructions. When I arrived to the room, I received another text telling me to put on the blindfold I would find on the nightstand and to kneel in the center of the room holding the ruler I would also find.
The anticipation of waiting for Him, and wondering what was going to happen next, was more torturous than the spanking with the ruler I received that day in the hotel—with my clothes on. Four years later, when I am summoned to a hotel room, the only item of “clothing” I am allowed to wear is his collar. And things are tougher at the office too…I am required to hand over my panties and wedding rings every day. If I misbehave, I am summoned to his car for a humiliating spanking over his knee (and apparently I misbehave a lot). With IM and selfies, he is also able to insure that I follow his Rule to keep a shaved pussy, meet his clothing expectations on weekends, and I am ready for his use if he needs me in the evenings.

Now, I can articulate why I wanted to wear the red dress for Him. I wanted to wear the dress, because I wanted to obey him. I love His orders and I love the challenge of being His submissive. It is still a challenge, because he is always coming up with something new (for example, writing this introduction).


I am mortified to share all of this, but He demands that I do. He feels that I need to be more publicly forthcoming about my submissive needs. He has instructed me to respond politely to any comments or questions I may receive. As always, I will do as He instructs.
Good girl.
 
Hello, I am a 23 year old guy, very little experience in the practice of Bondage but enough theoretical knowledge. I am looking for a woman/couple/ or trans dominant girl who wants to have a slave.

I am willing to experiment with a man as long as I feel comfortable and that person manages to make me feel submissive.

I am looking for something that is not only sexually based, but that there can also be a personal connection. I am willing to do almost anything as the relationship grows.

I can speak English and Spanish.

I am open to answer questions and chat if you are interested.

:)
 
Hello everyone! I’m a fun-loving woman who enjoys exploring a variety of adult toys. I believe in embracing our sensuality and the joy that comes with it. I'm excited to connect with all of you and share experiences, tips, and laughter. Let’s celebrate pleasure and make the most of our journeys together!
 
I'm also a Lit antique and it is nice to know something about those who post here. So, I thought this should be one of the recently closed threads that should continue.

From the original thread, started by RisiaSkye...
I'm noticing a lot of new posters around these parts, and it's getting difficult to keep up. We've been a small and kinda insular little community for so long, it is both thrilling and a little overwhelming to realize that we have so many people joining us with their own questions, experiences, and ideas.

So, on behalf of antiques like me, I ask for a favor:
Please, stop in and introduce yourself. Give us a chance to see you, get to know a bit about you, and we'll likely be more readily able to answer your questions or join a conversation with you. Let us know that you aren't a troll, and you'll jump way up the priority list all in one shot. At least, for me.

Welcome, new faces!

Now, who's next?
Hello
I am brand new here. Been submissive for a few years. Still looking for more from that lifestyle. Feel free to talk to me
 
Hey, Dom here with fair amount of experience. I'm an equal fan of sapiosexual and physical. Love an open minded naughty girl. I welcome PM's from anyone wanting to discuss.
 
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