New Domme wants to learn

[Minnares_Inamorata]

Hi Everyone,
I'm very new here. I've been enjoying my private life for sometime, and it's recently taken a turn into, well, this realm. D/s, bondage, and certainly heavy domination. I have browsed through a few of the threads, but what I am looking for is books, movies, literature on domination. I'm also interested in how one deals with that when a relationship becomes long distance. There are many online mistresses. I am looking to educate myself. Thanks for all the help in advance!

 

[MeekMe]

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=300466

That's a link into the Library which you'll find at the top of BDSM Talk. The library links to lots of discussions and is organized pretty well. Welcome to the board.

 

[Minnares_Inamorata]

Thank you very much MeekMe.
I have read "The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty" and "Training of O" before. The lists are extensive, and just what I was looking for. I'll have reading for months!

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Thank you very much MeekMe.
I have read "The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty" and "Training of O" before. The lists are extensive, and just what I was looking for. I'll have reading for months!

Pleeeeease remember that "Sleeping Beauty," "O," "50 Shades," etc., are fiction, as are Lit's BDSM stories (including my own!). Their purpose is to get your knickers soggy (and guys' knickers sticky), not to reflect reality.

If you want to learn about the realities of the BDSM culture, click over to the BDSM Talk forum, read some of the "new Dom/Domme/sub" threads, and get some of the books mentioned there ("Loving Dominant," "New Topping Book," "New Bottoming Book," "Screw the Roses," "SM101," et al. They'll not only make you a better partner for your future pyls, but may very well keep you out of prison (which the fiction titles mentioned above could lead you into if you model your behavior on them)!

Good luck, and welcome to the fora!