New dom experiences

[pad_h]

Right, here goes...

My girlfriend really wants to be a submissive french maid, I'd love to help and take on the role of her master. Are their any basic things I can do to start with? I'm pretty much compleatly new to this and I'm kinda looking for some pointers, things to make her do (easing her in gently and not too hardcore) that'll be fun for us both.

thanks for any advice.


Pad

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Pad, why don't you check out some of the BDSM Stories over on the story side??

They should give you some great ideas if you are just into role-play alone.

However, if this is something you are interested in exploring beyond roleplay, I'd suggest checking out the Library over on the BDSM Talk Board, and checking out www.castlerealm.com for further info about BDSM.

Good luck

~anelize

 

[Nicole]

Firstly you need to sit down with her in a non sexual way and talk to her, find out exactly what she is looking for, ask her lots of questions ... is she looking for rough hard sex, is she looking to be spanked, is she looking to try out some of the BDSM things ... talk to her and find out exactly what SHE is wanting out of all of this.

Sounds to me like she's interested in Role Playing, but have you found out what sexually turns her on about wanting a "Master".

My boyfriend and I don't live a 24/7 "lifestyle" but when it comes to sex I like to be treated on the very rough side, and thank god he learnt all about me before we started. I'm into things like hard spankings, being chocked during sex, being spat on, or having my face slapped, being made to call him Sir or Master, having my hair pulled, or being made to choke on his cock ... Doesn't mean that he can do anything like that to me in our normal daily relationship, and he knows that.

We also talk a lot during sex, I tend to tell him what I'd like, or he tells me what he'd like, or even just placing his hand on my throat is enough information for him to know I want to be chocked at that point.

Like I said though, you need to sit down with her and talk to her in a non sexual situation, and most of all don't ever feel that you have to do everything that she asks of you ... if you are a gentle person by nature then some things may freak you out, I know they did in the start with my boyfriend, but with time together and him understanding that it's what I really want he's slowly become more Dominant.

I wish you luck, but really if you want to know what she wants, then only she can answer you.