New discoveries

[Tryharder62]

I was reading some posts and was curious. A young girl of 20 was finding out about her needs to be submissive. Has anybody been older say like me in their 40's. I just want someone to be my dominate and teach me all there is to know. Everything is new again. Sure excites me if you know what I mean.

 

[geekmaster24]

In my adventure in BDSM, I have ran into a couple of older ladies that just discovered the lifestyle. It was interesting teaching them about the lifestyle. I must say it was different and certainly a good time.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Absolutely. People change all the time, and women change like crazy in their forties and fifties.

 

[kimuk]

Jezz i was 50 before I discovered this is what i want. Talk about late starter lol

 

[Jaded_One]

I was around 40 when I finally acknowledged that I was submissive and kinky, though the predilection has always been there. I just wasn't ready to embrace it and needed more information to understand myself better (thank god for the internet.. lol).

 

[StrayKat]

Ok shell I say it.... I am 48 (I do feel like 13 too many times though ).
I knew I was kinky for a very long time but I was trying to do something about that with my husband(s). By the time I realized my efforts are futile, life got in a way and I could not and did not have much interest in realizing anything.
Just recently I got back to myself and decided its now or never, I dont get any younger and though I feel a bit embarrassed about learning things at my age, I finally started some real life practice.
So far enjoying myself very much indeed.

 

[His_pet_slut]

Kinky and slutty behind a very girl next door type face & persona since my teens. Dabbled in BDSM without knowing what it was in my 20's-30's, but mainly just spanking and such. Started reading about BDSM and discussing it on another adult site in my early 40's and didn't acknowledge being submissive until my mid 40's. At long last, things started making sense.

Don't just wait for a Dominant to come along and 'teach' you though. Knowledge is the basis for true consent, so read up here in the forums, keep in mind that most of the stories out on the that part of the site are just that, works of fiction and explore some of the excellent books out there on the topic.

All the best.

p~