New denial twist

[submio]

A few weeks ago, my gf and I entered our first strict sub time in quite a while. As usual, she created an overriding theme for this period, and this one is reduced sensation for me. She’s decided that I will not feel the full enjoyment of my cock being oiled up by hand, warmed by oral, or dampened by intercourse. I was instructed to purchase a 36 count box of condoms and will have no less than two on for any of the above activities. Unfortunately, life got in the way and we only got to experience this for a week (our strict sub times generally are 2-3 weeks to allow for deeper emersion). We have a week long trip starting next week so she decided a few days ago that we would be resuming the theme now and I would not be experiencing any bare pleasure until at least after the trip. Additionally, it seems I will be in a chastity cage much of the time and she will be packing all of my clothes for the trip. That is a new angle, not being in control of what clothes I am taking and I’m sure there will be a significant amount of feminine attire - underwear for when we are in public, and lingerie for in private. I know she will also be taking a femdom themed shirt she likes to wear when we are away from home, as she really enjoys the occasional knowing looks and how it continuously makes me aware of it. The night she decided we were re-entering this arrangement, she oiled me up and edged me into desperation. She discussed liking the idea of getting me so excited I’d only last one stroke inside her when I was able to feel her bare again. She’d edge me then at the very last second, slide down onto me, causing me to finish immediately. She’s clamp down to prevent any further striking and mock me. The whole time, in addition to knowing that would happen, I’d be fearing that she’d climb up onto my face and feed me the cream pie I barely got to enjoy making.

 

[jim28]

It definitely sounds like she has you under control and will take what she wants and leave you needy and frustrated, exactly the way it should be. She obviously is in charge and gets what she wants. Your position is to obey and beg.

Maybe she will leave the motel windows uncovered while you are dressed in lingerie .

 

[submio]

Sorry for the delay in response (we’ve been busy) and thanks for the reply!
From the first moments we got to our hotel, she has frequently been firmly grasping my shaft and then taking a strong hold of my package with her vivid red nails pointing into my skin. There is no mistaking the feeling of control being taken.
Last week, I showed her the website, Real Women Don’t Do Housework and we’ve been reading parts of it most nights since then. She is really enjoying giving me domestic tasks to do and using sexual energy and feminization to reinforce the role reversal.
Before we left, we made several purchases, one being a Speedo brief suit for me. I’d never worn one and found the idea of being in one very unsettling. Yesterday, she had me wear it for the first time as we kayaked in a remote bay. We ended up in a shallow area within sight of a busy campground. While I was out of the kayak to get us moving again, she began rubbing me though them, then pulled me out for stroking. I nervously looked at the closest people who were just near enough to see, so I turned my back to them. Due to the crazy eroticism of the situation, I was very rapidly about to cum when she stopped stroking abruptly. A few seconds later, four large drops fell into the water and onto the side of the kayak uselessly. This morning, she stroked me until I was leaking and told me I’d be wearing the Speedo under normal shorts today. At some point, she would decide she wanted my loose shorts off and I’d be exposed, unprotected from anyone who wanted to look at my size and judge. That’s were we are now, sitting on the beach and hoping she doesn’t decide we are taking a walk.

 

[Bamamama1990]

Sounds like a lovely lady I hope you are thanking her after all it may be depriving her needs as well

 

[submio]

Trust me, her needs are being needed. She has received so many oral orgasms in the last two weeks that I lost count. Last night, she put a Humbler on me and had me crawl over to provide as many orgasms as she needed. Additionally, the day before our trip, we got an 8” vibrator (obviously an upgrade). Now that she’s tried it, she wants a similar one with more girth. There’s been plenty of SPH related to that - mostly size comparisons and teasing. We just got back from a shopping area and she had on a shirt that was of a thinly veiled femdom theme. She loves the looks it occasionally gets and watching me cringe if I notice. Same with the Speedo on the beach today, it excites her to know I’m exposed and somewhat embarrassed.

 

[CurvyDomme]

We have had quite an exciting few weeks so far. So much so that I've decided to extend our usual 2-3 week time period for another couple of weeks. It has been about 30 days so far since submio has felt any kind of normal pleasurable release. At the beginning of this period, knowing what My theme was going to be, I put him into a state of hypnosis prior to intercourse and gave the instruction that he should be highly focused on the feeling of every single stroke, to fully take notice of and savor how very good it felt to be inside Me. He didn't know at the time that it would be the last time he was allowed to do that for a while. But I did. I also knew that causing him to be ultra aware of and hyper sensitive to the pleasurable feeling of bare intercourse would greatly intensify the effect of the theme I was about to embark on, thus making My lessons even more effective.
Each time we enter a strict sub time, I focus on a particular theme that is designed to train and mold him into becoming more and more of the submissive I desire him to be. I love using the primal biological needs of his body to strip him of his defenses, leaving him fully exposed and vulnerable to my words and instructions so they will sink into the deepest core of his psyche. When I stroke him and tease him into a state of raw oblivion, or relax him into a hypnosis, he is Mine, fully helpless, a blank slate for Me to imprint My will and desires. There is a look he gets in his eyes, then I know, he’s gone, I have him.
He mentioned in his original post that the theme this time is reduced sensation for him, which is actually more of method than a theme. My overriding theme this time is actually much deeper than that. My theme is to instill in him a deeper feeling of his inferiority and unworthiness, and an appreciation of the privilege of feeling bare pleasure and full release; to heighten his appreciation of Me, as his superior and his queen. And so that he is fully aware that that privilege is at My discretion, that I can give it or take it away for no other reason other than it’s just what I feel like doing; that it is a privilege that he should appreciate and never take for granted, even in more normal times. That he, as a male isn't worthy of My physical attention and intimacy, he must never forget that I should be revered. I am the one who holds the key, literally and figuratively.

 

[submio]

I am grateful CurvyDomme has provided her point of view as it’s always revealing to hear the other person’s point of view.
I just did the math and it’s now 32 days since I was last allowed the feeling of uninhibited access to penetration or even a bare oily hadjob. At points it has worn on me but each time my patience is rewarded in other ways, it helps me continue. As mentioned before, we purchased a second vibrator with considerably more girth. They are both 8” long, providing Her a little more than two inches of additional length. The first one is about the same thickness as me and is clear silicone. In addition to the larger size of the new one, it has very lifelike coloring and texture. It’s incredibly humbling to feel it being held next to me as I’m given a handjob while I’m contained in two condoms to diminish sensation, and the difference is very humbling. Twice now, She’s used one or both of them to several deep orgasms as I held Her, then edged me to the point of no return and plunged me into Her where I finished on entry. The last time left me absolutely empty but still quite horny and hoping for more. There was quite a bit of rubbing afterwards with some sharp words as I was unable to harden enough for the release I deeply craved. During some late night discussion while I was providing Her with several manual orgasms last night, if was revealed that she’s been using one of the new toys nearly daily. That was a bit surprising and I hate to keep using the same word, but humbling. Her intention is to see if she can get herself more used to the stretching and see a bit more open gaping to further accentuate the current theme.