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BradBigBrain
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Here's my advice: Keep on flirting. However, here's a reminder: Men are stupid. Especially when it comes to women. We need to be hit over the head with a hammer.
If you say, "I'd like to spend time with you," it could mean that you want to go to the friend zone. If you say, "I want you to come over at 11 PM and I will give you a massage," it could mean that you want to practice your technique. (Don't laugh, my friend actually did this and when she told him the next day that she didn't want to see him any more because there was "no chemistry between them," he was dumbfounded. I had to tell him it was a booty call and she wanted to fuck.
If OTOH, you tell him that you want him to come over for dinner and stay for breakfast, he'll probably know that you are interested in having sex with him.
If you fuck on the first date or he finds out that you've had more lovers that he has had, he may think you're a slut and may never call or even speak to you again. (Another friend did this.) Or he may think (like I would) that he died and went to heaven. He's either going to be totally appreciative of you and you he will then have a super relationship (that would be like me and Gracie). OR he will become clingy, possessive and jealous and may never want to break up with you, even though you both know that it ain't working.
Men can be such one dee ten tees sometimes.
If you say, "I'd like to spend time with you," it could mean that you want to go to the friend zone. If you say, "I want you to come over at 11 PM and I will give you a massage," it could mean that you want to practice your technique. (Don't laugh, my friend actually did this and when she told him the next day that she didn't want to see him any more because there was "no chemistry between them," he was dumbfounded. I had to tell him it was a booty call and she wanted to fuck.
If OTOH, you tell him that you want him to come over for dinner and stay for breakfast, he'll probably know that you are interested in having sex with him.
If you fuck on the first date or he finds out that you've had more lovers that he has had, he may think you're a slut and may never call or even speak to you again. (Another friend did this.) Or he may think (like I would) that he died and went to heaven. He's either going to be totally appreciative of you and you he will then have a super relationship (that would be like me and Gracie). OR he will become clingy, possessive and jealous and may never want to break up with you, even though you both know that it ain't working.
Men can be such one dee ten tees sometimes.
you guys are awesome! 
