Hi there, i have a question i really do enjoy being submissive but i am really kind of new to it all and i always get my self in trouble because i always fight against it even though it really is what i want. I want to be told what to do. you know maybe part of it is i do it because i like to be punished. well anyways to my main question is there anyone out there who would maybe want to be my master and work with me and my attitude i seem to have i really am looking for someone that will take it slow with me and work with me hope someone can help
New and looking for a little help
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Stella_Omega
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Most people are not "submissive." Many people could be "submissive" to the right person, but not to every random fool that walks down the street. If you find you can't submit to certain guys, maybe it's because they aren't the right guy. Doms are not mass produced cookie-cutter product, they are guys, and just like you wouldn't expect a perfect date from every guy you meet...
Here's what I always suggest:
Try fetlife.com, which is a kind of pervy facebook. Look for munches, which are meetups usually at a restaurant somewhere, in your area. If you live in NY, you're in luck-- you're already halfway home, there are SO many people and so many resources available for you.
Here's a list of books that I like to recommend:
http://astore.amazon.com/wwwpowerexcha-20
browse the titles, see if anything is interesting to you. A little bit of education doesn't hurt, especially if you think you're going to put yourself into someone else's hands.
Here's what I always suggest:
Try fetlife.com, which is a kind of pervy facebook. Look for munches, which are meetups usually at a restaurant somewhere, in your area. If you live in NY, you're in luck-- you're already halfway home, there are SO many people and so many resources available for you.
Here's a list of books that I like to recommend:
http://astore.amazon.com/wwwpowerexcha-20
browse the titles, see if anything is interesting to you. A little bit of education doesn't hurt, especially if you think you're going to put yourself into someone else's hands.
