Never thought it would end like this. (venting, sorry)

[Merelan]

I cannot say it better then those who posted before me, especially Ezzy...
Shut the door, but don't lock it.

Maybe this is it, the final straw, and maybe not. But time, and distance help. And boy you are going to have distance soon.

Would the offer of a Xanderpop help? I still have a couple, but only would share them with you. Or maybe a cinnamon roll?

 

[Xander]

Would the offer of a Xanderpop help? I still have a couple, but only would share them with you. Or maybe a cinnamon roll?

 

[Guest]

So many of us have faced this 'abandonment'; it seems so unnatural, that perhaps it's natural after all....

I'm 45, and 18 years after having my car reposessed, my credit ruined (ever try to travel on business without any credit cards? Humiliating!), being diagnosed with bipolar disorder and FINALLY getting things back in order, my family and I have a normal, ADULT relationship.

I'm an adult with my own life. We enjoy each others company, living in separate cities, but speaking on the phone at least every couple of weeks. I particularly enjoy my dad -- we were never close, and I never knew much about him. This wouldn't have happened if the preceding events hadn't occurred.

Moral is...take responsibility for yourself, now. This may be 'tough love' as someone else suggested; you can't speculate on their motives. Begin to get your life in order NOW.

Those of us who have been in your boots will be with you through all of the toughest times -- as we had others with us.

 

[Guest]

 

[Xander]

Xander, I'm sorry that you have to go through such an aweful thing at this time of the year! Thank you for being my friend!

Likewise Lionness. Thank you for being mine!

 

[Beebeeblue]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}

Family problems can be a bitch. And at the holidays no less. I wish you the best, dear. You deserve it. Ill be thinking of you.

{{{{{{{{HUGS AGAIN}}}}}}}}