I've never been in a bdsm relationship or done it on myself to any large degree but i've been getting pretty interested to start. Is there any tips i should know for getting a good dom, where and when to start a dom/sub relationship , safety measures, or anything like that? This is my first time posting so sorry if this isn't the right place to ask : P.
Never taken part in bdsm but very interested
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Here's the Library Sticky: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=266656
Read up on things that interest you and try to narrow down your questions. Finding someone for d/s is just dating. You find someone compatible and move forward with the relationship as is appropriate for you. As for safety, it depends on what you want to do.
Edited to add: beware of anyone that private messages you and wants to "train" you. There is no one way to do BDSM and anything they "teach" you is applicable only to them. It's also how some people get easy cyber sex.
Read up on things that interest you and try to narrow down your questions. Finding someone for d/s is just dating. You find someone compatible and move forward with the relationship as is appropriate for you. As for safety, it depends on what you want to do.
Edited to add: beware of anyone that private messages you and wants to "train" you. There is no one way to do BDSM and anything they "teach" you is applicable only to them. It's also how some people get easy cyber sex.
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