never even been kissed...

[Guest]

i'm an 18 year old guy and i've never even kissed a girl, i mean... i've only had one opportunity and it was kinda screwed up... but nonetheless im a virgin and a horny one at that... ho wcan i get girls interested in me? where can i find a girl interested in just messing around?
oh... im not circumsized... when the time comes to get some... will that affect anything?

 

[Bruiser]

You are a loser no girl will ever kiss you unless you pay her, maybe your Mom can help you out.

 

[*Eve*]

Useless, I always find that when the time is right it will happen. Usually when you're actively seeking something it eludes you, but if you just let things happen, and be yourself which is very important, you get the panties, soon enough. You are NOT a loser, so don't feel pressured to lose your virginity just for the sake of it, and I'm sure, that kiss is coming soon.

 

[Skitten]

Hey Useless;
I agree with Eve what is the rush take your time and enjoy your teenage years> I used to think t hings like that and now I am married for 12 years and 2 kids. So it will happen all in good time enjoy being single and get out there and find someone you can share all kinds of intimacy with and that is not just sex. Try opening up and bringint down the barriers that life makes us put up.
Never underestimate yourself try new things and open yourself up to everything life has to offer. Enjoy being young, and enjoy everything about sex and finding adventure don't let it pass you up.

skitten

 

[Endlessly]

Okay. I'm an amazingly frustrated virgin as well, but I will freely admit that kissing is one of my all-time favorite pastimes. It's fun, it's expressive, it's amazingly fulfilling, and I have an oral fixation which makes it that much more fun.

But I digress.

This reminds me of something nice.. I was friends with a guy my mentor introduced me to in a poetry forum, a nice, attractive young man of 26 who'd never, ever been kissed. This boggled my mind. One time he was on his way to fly to Canada, and his flight stopped for a layover in Great Falls, so we had lunch. I wasn't really attracted to him, but I did give him a long and interesting kiss goodbye, for which he thanked me profusely. If I remember, he had a large amount of raw talent.

My point? Sometimes I still feel guilty about it. That was a great kiss, and he said I gave him something.. But I feel like I took something from him in a respect as well. I wouldn't suggest having your first kiss with a girl who's only looking for physicality. I've been the girl in that situation 3 times now, and it never feels completely right.

Though if you were around, I'd probably kiss you. I'm like that.