Aeroil, take this one thing into your own observation. You and everyone else on the planet has this roadmap of sorts of your sum totality of experiences with other people. This acts as a filter for you. When someone new exhibits the same behaviour and characteristics that someone has in your past you can project into your future what and who they will turn out to be. This is experience translating into your everyday life.
Neurolinguistic programming just lets you see it coming and gives you new ways to change the game that these people are playing right into your own hands. Take car salesmen for example. If you have bought 100 cars then you have a lot of experience behind you to back you up when you are dealing with them. You deal with them from a position of power in this circumstance.
Neuro linguistic programming allows you to translate your life experience into your present dealings with everyone. If you have a lifetime of experience than you have quite a bit of an advantage in knowing how people will react to you.
That is what NLP is in a nutshell. Using your real life experience and your natural confidence with your everyday interactions with people.
Nothing more, nothing less. There is no kind of off the wall belief or expectation that you are special. Just experienced or have learned from someone elses experience.
So just smile and watch people and learn all you can because when you are older it will all be just fine for you.
