So I've never done anything with a guy before, but I'm really curious. I've tried setting something up through Craiglist, but I always chicken out just because I'm so ridiculously nervous. How did all of you work up the courage for your first experience with someone of the same sex?
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jackstud
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Kick back have a beer relax
SexyLitForAll
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Dont try too hard - its best when unplanned. Just look for the signs of interest, and take it from there.
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Just make up your mind that you are going to suck some cock, make your date and keep it. That is what I finally did, I just made my mind up and nothing was going to change it. Just go ahead and do it.
I was fortunate to have help setting me up for my first time. I cant say for sure if ever would have worked up the courage to go it alone. The best advice would be to simply go through with it. Its no good haveing you sit around wondering what could have been
Blue_Duck
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I'm in the same boat. Maybe try to meet someone and then become friends rather than try with a complete stranger. I hope to taste a cock pretty soon, but I don't want to rush things. Have you tried to set up a mutual masterbation session? Try that and then see where that takes you. I'd imagine you will have cock in your mouth as soon as you try to help another guy jack off...at least that is what I lime to imagine what would happen!
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or you would get more than you can handle, if they respect you as a person first the frat brothers will respect you after, i am willing to bet there are some brothers wanting the same thing you want but are afraid to step out. if i could do it all over again, i would have explored when i was 19, go for it now and enjoy every luscious second - then tell me all about it, i owuld love the opportunity to have some man to man time w/out anyone finding out
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that's how it happened in my case.
it was easy for me i guess since i wanted to be passive an let the other guy take me. i went to a unisex hair salon and the guy who cut my hair invited me out for a drink after work and then while having the drink he invited me home to his house. I spent the night and let him fuck me.
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Well, although I started young and we (friends) just fell into wanking and sucking.
But I did take a LONG time away (>20 years) from MM sex until a few years ago. So I was also very nervous. I joined a few sites and did what SilverOkie said. I chose to search for guys in a nearby town that that I'd never been to and where I knew no-one. Just for privacy.
If you do this, make sure to meet somewhere public and safe first. Chat first and see if something clicks.
Good luck and report back!
But I did take a LONG time away (>20 years) from MM sex until a few years ago. So I was also very nervous. I joined a few sites and did what SilverOkie said. I chose to search for guys in a nearby town that that I'd never been to and where I knew no-one. Just for privacy.
If you do this, make sure to meet somewhere public and safe first. Chat first and see if something clicks.
Good luck and report back!
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