Nerd Power!

[tolyk]

*Snort*
More like 'Man down, man down!'

How very true

 

[Vessira]

*nod* I'm the reverse. Mostly dominant, but every now and then I feel in the mood to not control things. I think it keeps me balanced too, a way of not going off the deep end into dominance. I mean, some Doms are just whacked out *chuckle*

I'm not into the lifestyle, only into Dom/sub stuff in the bedroom.

Yeah, I once got involved with someone who did the lifestyle thing, and it wasn't for me. Bedroom, fine. Lord knows I get off on it. But typically outside? I like to be in control.

 

[Vessira]

*chuckle* Well, there's no accounting for taste

Actually, I've been told I taste pretty damn good.





Sorry, I just couldn't help myself.

 

[SexyCleric]

Nice Cthulhu reference.

I wouldn't mind seeing them. Especially sans shirt. But of course, you already knew that.

Danke shon.
Whether or not people want to seem them is irrelevent.
I ran a lighter under the film. No pictures.

Of course, there were also images of people playing strip poker on the film, and they had expressly said 'no pictures'. So, it was just my brand of justice.

 

[tolyk]

Yeah, I once got involved with someone who did the lifestyle thing, and it wasn't for me. Bedroom, fine. Lord knows I get off on it. But typically outside? I like to be in control.

Outside of the bedroom, in a relationship, I like there to be respect, not dominance.. That just reminds me of an abusive husband that makes his wife fear him. *shrug*

 

[microbiology311]

Yeah, I once got involved with someone who did the lifestyle thing, and it wasn't for me. Bedroom, fine. Lord knows I get off on it. But typically outside? I like to be in control.

that is soo true.. its so hot to lose control in the bedroom..but not in RL.. I couldn't be a sub 24/7 I would hurt the guy in control..

 

[SexyCleric]

Outside of the bedroom, in a relationship, I like there to be respect, not dominance.. That just reminds me of an abusive husband that makes his wife fear him. *shrug*

Fear can be healthy.
Sometimes the fear of tickling was the only thing that kept my exe from picking at her lip, chewing nails, or any other number of bad habits.

Physical abuse to impose your will on others though...
that's never ok.

 

[Vessira]

Outside of the bedroom, in a relationship, I like there to be respect, not dominance.. That just reminds me of an abusive husband that makes his wife fear him. *shrug*

Well I'm still trying to even manage getting into and having a relationship. Baby steps. What can I say.....trust issues.

 

[tolyk]

Actually, I've been told I taste pretty damn good.





Sorry, I just couldn't help myself.

No worries, one must do what one must, right?

 

[Vessira]

Danke shon.
Whether or not people want to seem them is irrelevent.
I ran a lighter under the film. No pictures.

Of course, there were also images of people playing strip poker on the film, and they had expressly said 'no pictures'. So, it was just my brand of justice.

Sounds like an interesting evening....

 

[microbiology311]

Danke shon.
Whether or not people want to seem them is irrelevent.
I ran a lighter under the film. No pictures.

Of course, there were also images of people playing strip poker on the film, and they had expressly said 'no pictures'. So, it was just my brand of justice.

well damnit.. you need a digital then.. get rid of the "bad' ones and keep the dancing SC ones!

*note to self* - drive to PGH, get SC drunk and make him dance.. take a LOT of pictures, hide camera, leave while he is sleeping..

 

[tolyk]

Fear can be healthy.
Sometimes the fear of tickling was the only thing that kept my exe from picking at her lip, chewing nails, or any other number of bad habits.

Physical abuse to impose your will on others though...
that's never ok.

Naw.. I don't think fear is ever the answer..Even if it is just tickling. Besides, did she ask you to help her rid herself of these bad habits?

 

[microbiology311]

Fear can be healthy.
Sometimes the fear of tickling was the only thing that kept my exe from picking at her lip, chewing nails, or any other number of bad habits.

Physical abuse to impose your will on others though...
that's never ok.

*quits chewing on my nails very quickly*

 

[tolyk]

*quits chewing on my nails very quickly*

I prefer to work on the 'rewards' system myself..

No more nail chewing, more sensual massages..

 

[SexyCleric]

Naw.. I don't think fear is ever the answer..Even if it is just tickling. Besides, did she ask you to help her rid herself of these bad habits?

Yes, actually. She told me she couldn't break them herself, as she was rarely even aware of the behavior, though the methodology was my own.

 

[Vessira]

well damnit.. you need a digital then.. get rid of the "bad' ones and keep the dancing SC ones!

*note to self* - drive to PGH, get SC drunk and make him dance.. take a LOT of pictures, hide camera, leave while he is sleeping..

<--- points to self. You know micro, I think if you came to Pittsburgh, you and me teamed up would be all SORTS of persuasive. Although I don't know if the world could handle that sort of power.

 

[tolyk]

Yes, actually. She told me she couldn't break them herself, as she was rarely even aware of the behavior, though the methodology was my own.

Okay, that's alright then

 

[Vessira]

I prefer to work on the 'rewards' system myself..

No more nail chewing, more sensual massages..

*signs up for tolyk's system* Massages > tickling.

 

[SexyCleric]

Sounds like an interesting evening....

Drinking, Star Craft, and a room full of nerds and cheering groupies.
Hell yes.

 

[tolyk]

*signs up for tolyk's system* Massages > tickling.

*chuckle* Grazias.

 

[Vessira]

Drinking, Star Craft, and a room full of nerds and cheering groupies.
Hell yes.

Meh, not as fun as it could of been if I'm not there.

 

[SexyCleric]

I prefer to work on the 'rewards' system myself..

No more nail chewing, more sensual massages..

Rewards are great for learned or active behavior, unconscious stuff requires unconscious, natural responses.

Hell, if nature designed most of us with this irrational response, why not utilize it?

 

[microbiology311]

Rewards are great for learned or active behavior, unconscious stuff requires unconscious, natural responses.

Hell, if nature designed most of us with this irrational response, why not utilize it?

hmmm.. still trying not to bite nails aroundSC.. I HATE tickling

 

[tolyk]

Rewards are great for learned or active behavior, unconscious stuff requires unconscious, natural responses.

Hell, if nature designed most of us with this irrational response, why not utilize it?

Unconcious habits start for a reason though, all you have to do is analyze the reason, get to the root of it, than learn how to overcome it. It is learned behaviour, or can be.

 

[Vessira]

Rewards are great for learned or active behavior, unconscious stuff requires unconscious, natural responses.

Hell, if nature designed most of us with this irrational response, why not utilize it?

Just remember it's an irrational response when you get smacked.