Needs new ideas! Please help!

Lord_Hungwell said:
Thanks for the props! yeah.... it'll be good, no matter how much she rips me.. lol.. we just can't get enough of each other.... sorry to hear that things are slow for you right now! Is there anything special that makes him unwind? I can tell you about the "little" things that work for me, (no matter how stressed!) but I don't wanna impose... why is he stressed? If this is not a suitable place to chat, maybe you can tell me of a better way to talk? Too much stress is baaaaaaaaad! It kills sperm cells! lol I hope you can get him stiff soon. It sounds like you need it? Can you find comfort in "yourself" at these times without him feeling bad? You like materbating? It sure helps me through the week, when I can only be with her on weekends. I'm always relying on my my hands during the week. lol. Or is that too personal to ask? Does he get offended if you jerk off when he's not in the mood? If so, he needs to understand why you do. It may help him see the "bigger picture"?
Just random thoughts. good luck!

He's stressed cause of work. He takes work pretty much first. I've tried to make him unwind but it doesnt work. He said that when he's like that, the last thing on his mind is sex. So I cant do much after all. But don't worry, of course I masterbate. Even when I do get sex I masterbate. I'm horny all the time so if he doesn't pleasure me I will.

I have a variation of toys that I enjoy very much. I plan on adding some to my collection if I can ever get paid! lol So to answer, if he rejects me, I get myself off. Sometimes he feels bad but I mean, I have needs!

But do share the little things that help if you dont mind. If you dont want to post it, just IM me. Have a good one!
 
Minouners said:
He's stressed cause of work. He takes work pretty much first. I've tried to make him unwind but it doesnt work. He said that when he's like that, the last thing on his mind is sex. So I cant do much after all. But don't worry, of course I masterbate. Even when I do get sex I masterbate. I'm horny all the time so if he doesn't pleasure me I will.

I have a variation of toys that I enjoy very much. I plan on adding some to my collection if I can ever get paid! lol So to answer, if he rejects me, I get myself off. Sometimes he feels bad but I mean, I have needs!

But do share the little things that help if you dont mind. If you dont want to post it, just IM me. Have a good one!

hey there! my gf's gonna be here shortly, and I trembling with horniness and anticipation! I've only done myself 2 times today cause I need to have a good load for her (she's a drinker! you?- I know it tastes like gaaag.. haha)
I'm a toy freak myself- I love having orgasms sooooooooooooooo much I'm addicted! Makes it hard at work! hahaha- that's what bathrooms are for! ;) I'm uncomfortable about posting much more detail, as I have deep tastes and I do like to have at least some secrets- you seem cool, so I'll keep in touch- IM or maybe post a way to chat (and then seal it). But while my gf kinda gets off on me chatting with other chicks, she's brutally jealous so I have to be kinda careful about what I say on this puter, cause I know she goes through it after I've been on. She has wicked nails!!! She's here! tell ya later!
 
So your girl gets turned on by you talking to other girls but gets jealous? Wow, that's a first! I can be very jealous myself so I understand where she is coming from.

So you like toys? What kind of toys? Any preference or recommendations? Please do tell! I'm open to everything and anything! :devil:
 
Minouners said:
So your girl gets turned on by you talking to other girls but gets jealous? Wow, that's a first! I can be very jealous myself so I understand where she is coming from.

So you like toys? What kind of toys? Any preference or recommendations? Please do tell! I'm open to everything and anything! :devil:

Hey there!
yeah, it doesn't make sense to me either. When I say gets turned on, it depends on her mood, but it's like a little is ok, but don't ever go beyond this point! I think it's because she like to see another girl get turned on, but she's the one who wants to do it, using me as the tool. I can chat the girl up a bit, but she wants to decide when is enough. A control thing I think lol. I've told her several times that it works both ways, and she feels bad at the time because she knows she isn't playing fair, but ummm forgive me... women can be like that lmao! I understand, and I don't mind much at all, because I am faithful and she knows it. Like you said though, we have our needs! mine is to share stories and pics whatever with other chicks like you occasionly, cause I know it's play and we aren't going to meet, so it's just something exciting that we both enjoy, but we go home to our gf/bf. As for toys I like vibrators (soft and hard depending on where I'm putting it lol. Soft for in the ass and stiffer for sttimulating the length of my cock (I'm a pretty fat 7 and a half inchs), which gives me a wild orgasm with a lot of come at the end! My fav is with a soft jelly up the ass, and holding my stiffer plastic one against the lenth of my cock and jerk it up and down my shaft while I have the jelly one shoved waaay up my ass! omg!! I have a cock ring on to make sure it gets swollen up as much as possible when jerking. I love to watch my cock swll- a major turn on! You like watching yourself as well? I love watching myself in a mirror! including when fucking or getting a bj! wow! I love to see my gf suck me hard and see the huge change in size! you like watching your clit get hard? that turns me on to feel it stiffen and grow a little just as she comes! I want to get a cock pump- I've seen them in a local porn store, but they're pretty expensive. I wonder how they feel? The thought of making myself bigger turns me on, My gf says she may get me one sometime to use on me. Your turn! so what turns you on?
 
i wish my gf was alittle more open like you lol... i do have a friend though that is open like that
 
pleaz_me said:
My favorite for a mix of romantic and fun is a bowl of fruit and chocolate syrup... tease each other... feed each other the fruit... dip it in the chocolate and rub it on each other's body's... there are a world of possibilities there ;)

This is sort of a take on the fruit idea - with a twist.
Sit in front of him on the table and let him watch you insert frozen grapes into you pussy. About 6-8 should be fine considering your pussy capacity. Let them sit in there for a bit to thaw (a wild sensation) then let him suck them out of you and eat them.
Also a peeled banana :nana: works well (has to be fairly firm to work best). Put it in your mouth and get it moist then insert it into your pussy and let him eat it out.
These are very effective ways to prolong the enjoyment of having a snack in your snatch. :)
 
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