Needs new ideas! Please help!

[pleaz_me]

You might try coating his cock and balls with massage oil and then stoak it it till hes on the very edge....then pop an ice cube in your mouth to finish him off...while at the same time rubbing the vibe up and down his shaft.

*shudders....*

Dayum! *shudders also*

 

[Minouners]

You might try coating his cock and balls with massage oil and then stoak it it till hes on the very edge....then pop an ice cube in your mouth to finish him off...while at the same time rubbing the vibe up and down his shaft.

*shudders....*

He's not one for ice cubes!

 

[Minouners]

She Has Needs

Thanks for sharing. Is it hot in here or is it just me??

 

[FrenchMustard]

Then there the is the idea I propsed in #242 [a href=https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=54103&page=10&pp=25"]here[/a]

 

[pleaz_me]

Then there the is the idea I propsed in #242 [a href=https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=54103&page=10&pp=25"]here[/a]

Need to fix that link thingie darlin

 

[ima6uldv8]

You might try coating his cock and balls with massage oil and then stoak it it till hes on the very edge....then pop an ice cube in your mouth to finish him off...while at the same time rubbing the vibe up and down his shaft.

*shudders....*

I did something similar with my Master and yes, he loved it. I loved it, too. Maybe more than him

 

[Minouners]

Then there the is the idea I propsed in #242 [a href=https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=54103&page=10&pp=25"]here[/a]

That is a good idea. If you ever have any other ideas, feel free to share them!

 

[Lord_Hungwell]

That sounds yummy.

But you see... my bf is kinda weird. Like usually it's the guy that wants to always have sex. It's not the case with him. I'm always the one who's horny and wants to do things all the time. I guess he's got a low sex drive.

Hence the reason why I wanted to try new things with him to get him more interested.

You have to make him WANT you badly. for instance, play with yourself and make him watch you masturbate but don't let him get any... if hes got any sense he can't possibly take it for long! I can't! when my gf gets reallyhorny she makes sure she gives me a show and won't let me touch her! As for erogenous zones, obviously most guys loves getting a bj. Remeber that saying there's no such thing as a bad blowjob? lol it's true! Is he cut? popping your lips over his cockhead is very intense. Put a cock ring on him and suck and stroke him up rock hard, then work him over slowly with your lips. The baby oil treatment is awesome as well. lube him up and slowly stroke him, and shoving your fingers up his ass will make him explode when he cums! Also when sucking him, try a very mild Hall's cough drop in your mouth to increse his sensitity (mild one!). Also, suck on his nipples and ear-lobes- that always does it for me! Let us now how it goes! we all wanna hear (while we play with ourselves while reading it hehehe)

 

[Minouners]

So I did the massage oil thing with my bf last night. He did enjoy it very much but he thought the finger up the ass was a tad too much. I dont have long nails but he said it bothered him. Ah well. Next time I'll cut them even shorter!

I also caressed his nippples and flicked my toungue on it, he actually likes that alot! I would of never have thought that!

So tonight is another night. Any other suggestions about how to lure him in? Cause I do give him a show (and it does work about 85% of the time) but sometimes he's just too tired. Thanks for the advice by the way!

 

[Emes]

Just a thought from me...what about sending him naughty texts during the day. Describe in detail what you are doing...showering....playing with yourself...reading naughty stories on here....maybe things you would like him to do to you...

let your imagination run wild.....

 

[Minouners]

I would do that. But I'm afraid he'll get mad. Reason being is that he's really dedicated to his work and takes it very seriously. He might not appreciate getting hard at work. Does that make any sense?

But I'll try it and let you know how it goes! Thanks for the tip!

 

[Emes]

I would do that. But I'm afraid he'll get mad. Reason being is that he's really dedicated to his work and takes it very seriously. He might not appreciate getting hard at work. Does that make any sense?

But I'll try it and let you know how it goes! Thanks for the tip!

It does make sense yes...i guess it does depend on your job and stuff! Just heard of someone doing it once....worked a treat for her!!


Good luck x

 

[BlueEyesInLevis]

I did something similar with my Master and yes, he loved it. I loved it, too. Maybe more than him

If you do it with just candle light, the visuals are excellent too!

 

[Minouners]

Well I know as a fact right now is not the time but sometime soon I will try it. And then I'll have to share the details! hehe

Any other suggestions in the meantime or did I already ask too much?

 

[Lord_Hungwell]

So I did the massage oil thing with my bf last night. He did enjoy it very much but he thought the finger up the ass was a tad too much. I dont have long nails but he said it bothered him. Ah well. Next time I'll cut them even shorter!

I also caressed his nippples and flicked my toungue on it, he actually likes that alot! I would of never have thought that!

So tonight is another night. Any other suggestions about how to lure him in? Cause I do give him a show (and it does work about 85% of the time) but sometimes he's just too tired. Thanks for the advice by the way!

Well hey and hi!
If he doesn't seem to like like your putting your fingers up his bum, do you think it's a "pain" thing, or just a little "too physically close" for a very private place? You guys been together long? Does he know you well enough to trust you that much? If your fingers are the issue ('cause attached to you, lol) maybe a dildo? I can assure you, if a guy can accepy something shoved up his ass, his orgasm will be extreme! I don't talk about this with my male friends, as it's just not even wanted by any of us.. but I'm sure we all work the same way. Does he seem to respond to "aggression" or gentle caressing"? Does he like it rough and raunchy, or very soft and slow? Does he have physical fears or "things" that prevent some "actions"? Just asking. Does he have particular fantasies? Does he wanna see you dress up like a meter maid or something? lol Fill us in! hehe

 

[Lord_Hungwell]

So I did the massage oil thing with my bf last night. He did enjoy it very much but he thought the finger up the ass was a tad too much. I dont have long nails but he said it bothered him. Ah well. Next time I'll cut them even shorter!

I also caressed his nippples and flicked my toungue on it, he actually likes that alot! I would of never have thought that!

So tonight is another night. Any other suggestions about how to lure him in? Cause I do give him a show (and it does work about 85% of the time) but sometimes he's just too tired. Thanks for the advice by the way!

Hope last night was wet and wild! Just maybe some things you didn't know about guys erogenous zones, but we have the same parts, with a couple of obvious exceptins, lol but the nerve endings are pretty much the same. example- the tip of your clit is very sensitive, which is probably the same sorta "part, as the tip of our dick (our most sensitve part). G-spots are different (ours is reachable up our ass, yours your pussy). Nipples are very, very overlooked on guys. Mine are incredibly sensitive, and have them sucked and teased is wild! I love being licked all over, so I'm guessing the same would be for him? Tonguing is awesome! I always fondle my nipples when masturbating. Don't neglect them on him! like I mentioned before, earlobes are a major turn-on as well. We guys probably have a little more "fear" to try some "kinky" things (not me though- I love trying anything!), so maybe you need to make him feel safe and secure with what you want to try. Maybe don't ram your fingers up his bum all of a sudden, but rim him and tickle his bum-hole gently and first, and just work your finger in a bit, more and more over time. Just to have the rim of your bum-hole rubbed when jerking or sucking him off is wild! He will love it eventually when he realizes the awesome orgasm he can have! Do you do it in different places? Back seat of the cars, on the hood? Over the end of the couch (my gf loves me to hump her bent over like that from behind!!). Just some more thoughts- keep us posted!

 

[Minouners]

Well hey and hi!
If he doesn't seem to like like your putting your fingers up his bum, do you think it's a "pain" thing, or just a little "too physically close" for a very private place? You guys been together long? Does he know you well enough to trust you that much? If your fingers are the issue ('cause attached to you, lol) maybe a dildo? I can assure you, if a guy can accepy something shoved up his ass, his orgasm will be extreme! I don't talk about this with my male friends, as it's just not even wanted by any of us.. but I'm sure we all work the same way. Does he seem to respond to "aggression" or gentle caressing"? Does he like it rough and raunchy, or very soft and slow? Does he have physical fears or "things" that prevent some "actions"? Just asking. Does he have particular fantasies? Does he wanna see you dress up like a meter maid or something? lol Fill us in! hehe

I think it might be too physically close to start off. I have been fondling his bum area for a while and I just decided to try it. I was giving him a hand job with oil and decided to go up. But I think if I want to try it another time, it will have to be during a blow job.

I'm pretty sure he won't want a dildo up there because not too long after I did that (we talk after intercouse or what not) he told me he would not be able to do a strap on lol.

And I guess he responds to both aggression and gentleness depeding on the day like must of us do. As for fantasies, we're still working on that slowly but surely. He's not one to want to see me in a meter maid outfit, more like a goth. (which I have done and he loves)

We've been together for more then 3 years now (and we were together before then too). So I know it's not a trust issue. But the way I look at it, as long as he doesnt mind putting it up my bum, we'll be ok!

 

[Minouners]

Hope last night was wet and wild! Just maybe some things you didn't know about guys erogenous zones, but we have the same parts, with a couple of obvious exceptins, lol but the nerve endings are pretty much the same. example- the tip of your clit is very sensitive, which is probably the same sorta "part, as the tip of our dick (our most sensitve part). G-spots are different (ours is reachable up our ass, yours your pussy). Nipples are very, very overlooked on guys. Mine are incredibly sensitive, and have them sucked and teased is wild! I love being licked all over, so I'm guessing the same would be for him? Tonguing is awesome! I always fondle my nipples when masturbating. Don't neglect them on him! like I mentioned before, earlobes are a major turn-on as well. We guys probably have a little more "fear" to try some "kinky" things (not me though- I love trying anything!), so maybe you need to make him feel safe and secure with what you want to try. Maybe don't ram your fingers up his bum all of a sudden, but rim him and tickle his bum-hole gently and first, and just work your finger in a bit, more and more over time. Just to have the rim of your bum-hole rubbed when jerking or sucking him off is wild! He will love it eventually when he realizes the awesome orgasm he can have! Do you do it in different places? Back seat of the cars, on the hood? Over the end of the couch (my gf loves me to hump her bent over like that from behind!!). Just some more thoughts- keep us posted!

Thanks for the lesson on anatomy!

I do play with his nipples so I'm ok there. As for the earlobes, I used to do it alot but don't do it as often. (long story lol)

As for doing it different places, we have to work on that. He's more of the let's go in the bedroom type, I'm more like the let's do it everywhere type. So I guess you can just imagine how much I have to compromise with him.
Ah well, love will do that to you!

 

[Lord_Hungwell]

I think it might be too physically close to start off. I have been fondling his bum area for a while and I just decided to try it. I was giving him a hand job with oil and decided to go up. But I think if I want to try it another time, it will have to be during a blow job.

I'm pretty sure he won't want a dildo up there because not too long after I did that (we talk after intercouse or what not) he told me he would not be able to do a strap on lol.

And I guess he responds to both aggression and gentleness depeding on the day like must of us do. As for fantasies, we're still working on that slowly but surely. He's not one to want to see me in a meter maid outfit, more like a goth. (which I have done and he loves)

We've been together for more then 3 years now (and we were together before then too). So I know it's not a trust issue. But the way I look at it, as long as he doesnt mind putting it up my bum, we'll be ok!

My gf wants to do a strap-on with me... f**k I wanna let her do it, but I know she'll lose it and rip me up... I shove stuff up there all the time while I masturbate, and send her the pics to obsess over 'till she comes by on the weekend! But I know if she had control she'd hurt me bad! This the same thing you think he's afraid of? I soooo wanna have her f**k me up the ass though... I just don't think I can trust her enuff! hehehe
So you saying you like it up the bum? Is it the pain or the "fill U up" feeling? Does it make your orgasm better? I'd like to know... my gf is wicked, but she won't talk much.... she loves peeing on me (which makes crazy!!!!) but she won't say why it makes her horny? You have an idea why? We've been together for about 6 months, and it's been f**k, f**k, f**k, non-stop since! I crave it, but she keeps secrets.... wish I knew why... sorry, just random shit

 

[Lord_Hungwell]

Thanks for the lesson on anatomy!

I do play with his nipples so I'm ok there. As for the earlobes, I used to do it alot but don't do it as often. (long story lol)

As for doing it different places, we have to work on that. He's more of the let's go in the bedroom type, I'm more like the let's do it everywhere type. So I guess you can just imagine how much I have to compromise with him.
Ah well, love will do that to you!

sorry- I know U know all about this.... just like hearing details from ladies though.... make me stiff lol

so is he like missionary sorta stuff all the time?? can you get him wound up in public?? (then take him home and rape him? yeah! jeez- where's my gf now??!!). Forgive me if I'm asking too much, but it sounds like he has "trust" issues?

 

[Minouners]

My gf wants to do a strap-on with me... f**k I wanna let her do it, but I know she'll lose it and rip me up... I shove stuff up there all the time while I masturbate, and send her the pics to obsess over 'till she comes by on the weekend! But I know if she had control she'd hurt me bad! This the same thing you think he's afraid of? I soooo wanna have her f**k me up the ass though... I just don't think I can trust her enuff! hehehe
So you saying you like it up the bum? Is it the pain or the "fill U up" feeling? Does it make your orgasm better? I'd like to know... my gf is wicked, but she won't talk much.... she loves peeing on me (which makes crazy!!!!) but she won't say why it makes her horny? You have an idea why? We've been together for about 6 months, and it's been f**k, f**k, f**k, non-stop since! I crave it, but she keeps secrets.... wish I knew why... sorry, just random shit

I really don't think he's afraid of me hurting him because we always consent to one another about anything new that we try. (unless we're pretending to rape one another of course) Just an opinion here but if you're afraid to have your gf put a strap-on on and fuck you, maybe you can tell her to take it easy and let you call the shots for the first time. Just seems to be less stressful for you if you were to go down that route. (just an opinion!)

As for me having it up the ass. I like the feeling of it. It's not painful (unless you have no lube of course). And for me, it doesn't make me orgasm more, I guess just makes me feel a little naughtier. (hopefully you understand what I mean by that)

And for your gf peeing on you and liking it, I couldn't tell you how it feels since it's really not my thing. I've never tried it to be honest and it's not something I'm dying to try. But of course, to each his/her own. If you want to know why she likes it soo much, you'll just have to keep asking her and hopefully she'll feel comfortable enough with you to tell you why.

 

[Minouners]

sorry- I know U know all about this.... just like hearing details from ladies though.... make me stiff lol

so is he like missionary sorta stuff all the time?? can you get him wound up in public?? (then take him home and rape him? yeah! jeez- where's my gf now??!!). Forgive me if I'm asking too much, but it sounds like he has "trust" issues?

He's not always missionary but he's not one for public affection. I've tried and he just doesn't want to give into it at all. Which sucks, but there isn't much I can do about that.

And don't worry, you're not asking too much. If you ask, I'll try my best to answer!

 

[Lord_Hungwell]

I really don't think he's afraid of me hurting him because we always consent to one another about anything new that we try. (unless we're pretending to rape one another of course) Just an opinion here but if you're afraid to have your gf put a strap-on on and fuck you, maybe you can tell her to take it easy and let you call the shots for the first time. Just seems to be less stressful for you if you were to go down that route. (just an opinion!)

As for me having it up the ass. I like the feeling of it. It's not painful (unless you have no lube of course). And for me, it doesn't make me orgasm more, I guess just makes me feel a little naughtier. (hopefully you understand what I mean by that)

And for your gf peeing on you and liking it, I couldn't tell you how it feels since it's really not my thing. I've never tried it to be honest and it's not something I'm dying to try. But of course, to each his/her own. If you want to know why she likes it soo much, you'll just have to keep asking her and hopefully she'll feel comfortable enough with you to tell you why.

Hey there. my gf bought a strap-on this week! When she stops by for the weekend she'll do me, butt in stead of from behind (for now anyway) I'll make sure we face each other. She sez its a big jelly one! Can't wait! I'll keep evryone posted! I understand about the naughty part- it's sorta like talking really dirty when doing it. A bit of "bad" makes getting fucked or jerking off so much better.re: peeing, I was hoping you could tell me some wild secret about peeing and cumming at the same time.. lol. It's impossible for us guys- everything squirts out the same hole. so you try anything else new?

 

[Minouners]

Hey there. my gf bought a strap-on this week! When she stops by for the weekend she'll do me, butt in stead of from behind (for now anyway) I'll make sure we face each other. She sez its a big jelly one! Can't wait! I'll keep evryone posted! I understand about the naughty part- it's sorta like talking really dirty when doing it. A bit of "bad" makes getting fucked or jerking off so much better.re: peeing, I was hoping you could tell me some wild secret about peeing and cumming at the same time.. lol. It's impossible for us guys- everything squirts out the same hole. so you try anything else new?

WOOHOO! Guess who's having fun this weekend! Let me know how it goes for sure. As for me, no, we're not trying anything new lately. We're not doing anything at all to be honest. My bf is stressed and when he's like that, he doesn't want to have sex. Sucks to be me!

 

[Lord_Hungwell]

WOOHOO! Guess who's having fun this weekend! Let me know how it goes for sure. As for me, no, we're not trying anything new lately. We're not doing anything at all to be honest. My bf is stressed and when he's like that, he doesn't want to have sex. Sucks to be me!

Thanks for the props! yeah.... it'll be good, no matter how much she rips me.. lol.. we just can't get enough of each other.... sorry to hear that things are slow for you right now! Is there anything special that makes him unwind? I can tell you about the "little" things that work for me, (no matter how stressed!) but I don't wanna impose... why is he stressed? If this is not a suitable place to chat, maybe you can tell me of a better way to talk? Too much stress is baaaaaaaaad! It kills sperm cells! lol I hope you can get him stiff soon. It sounds like you need it? Can you find comfort in "yourself" at these times without him feeling bad? You like materbating? It sure helps me through the week, when I can only be with her on weekends. I'm always relying on my my hands during the week. lol. Or is that too personal to ask? Does he get offended if you jerk off when he's not in the mood? If so, he needs to understand why you do. It may help him see the "bigger picture"?
Just random thoughts. good luck!