Needing advice

[Mornakh]

First things first I am a noob to the boards. Now thats that out of the way heres my questoin...

When my girlfriend give me a handjob I can't seem to cum to be blunt. I get the feeling of cumming the main rush of pleaseure that I have gotten from masterbation but I don't ejaculated anything. I do get pre-cum but nothing else. Last time she tryed I lost count the umber of times I got the feeling but still nothing came out.

Can I get some feedback please on either out to fix this or weither its normal

 

[xeros_girl]

Sounds pretty cool to me. Why would you want to fix having multiple orgasms? She might be squeezing hard, restricting your urethra there by restricting the flow of your cum. Enjoy yourself, don't worry so much about it and wlecom to LIT.

 

[Vixandra]

Long as you can come through intercourse and masturbation, I wouldn't worry about it. She may just be squeezing a bit to hard, or you may have a kind of mental block.
I'm with Xeros- enjoy the multiple orgasms. Most guys can't.

 

[flyindolphine]

why is it only hand job not a blow job? maybe thats where the secret lies. Hand job you can do that yourself but if she plays with her tongue its a whole different story.

 

[borusewicz]

I have a few ideas:

1. Maybe when you are close to going you concentrate on going more than on the pleasure. You might be putting too much pressure on yourself to put a on fireworks show for your girlfriend or to not shoot in her hair or something . Just keep focusing on what got you to that point..

2. Maybe you give your girl some cue that you are close and she alters the movements that she is making. I know that happens with my wife sometimes. She is going good and then right when I am about to cum, she changes something and then the pleasure falls back down.

So I guess, don't change anything when you are about to cum. Do the things that got you to the point and you shouldn't have a problem.

 

[Mornakh]

Thank you all for the infomatoin. Ohh bty i know its not the fact that she has to tight of a grip and there has been lub used so i don't think its that. Now that i think of it a little bit more she seems to enjoy that fact that she can cause great pleasure in me and I still want more and can handle it.