Need to last longer before orgasm!

[AlwaysIncognito]

I used to be able to... but all of a sudden since a few months ago I just can't last very long!

It was weird, I went from going as long as I wanted, and then it got shorter... until one night I came all over my girlfriends hand when she was putting the condom on .

Since then it's got a bit better, but I still can't seem to last more than 10-15 minutes anymore. I can last a while longer if we go slow...

But my girlfriend likes it hard and fast. And I mean REALLY hard and fast. I can't even lastl ong when masturbating now... I'll be lucky to get half an hour... I used to be able to enjoy myself for hours.

What the hell can I do to last longer? I feel like I'm really disappoint my girlfriend, even though I always make sure I go down on her until she's satisfied... but like I said, she likes it hard and fast with me inside her... but I just can't do that at the moment.

Any time I try going fast, I end up lasting only two minutes or so.

It sucks.

What can I Do?

 

[Carnus]

This sounds silly, but a little ambesol on the head of your penis will make a huge difference.

Carnus

 

[wicked woman]

Try a cock ring it should help.

 

[Carnus]

And they are lots of fun too

Carnus

Try a cock ring it should help.

 

[AlwaysIncognito]

What is ambesol?

I'm not sure about a cock ring... anything else I can do?

 

[wicked woman]

Originally posted by AlwaysIncognito
What is ambesol?

I'm not sure about a cock ring... anything else I can do?

Here's info on Anbesol. You can buy it in a drug store...it dulls the area so you can't feel the pain...usually used in the mouth. Haven't had a lover try Carnus' suggestion...but if he says it works I'd believe him.

Not a guy...so not an expert on a variety of solutions but hon that's what cock rings are meant for...to make your erection last longer.

The other thing I'd do is stop and think about what might have changed around the time you noticed this change...in your health, your general stress level, your relationship...could be a variety of things causing it.

Good luck....

 

[Bobmi357]

Another approach would be to use a thicker condom. Have you switched brands recently? A thinner condom might be the cause of your hair trigger.

Ambesol is a nerve deadener for toothaches. It basically numbs the nerve endings.

I'm a little reluctant to suggest using this, a broken condom could end up numbing both of you, and despite it being an over-the-counter drug, you never know what kind of effects it could cause when used for something other than what it was designed for.

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

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Easy solution.

Whack off before you do the deed with your girl. Always takes longer to come the second time around. If you're going to see her at night, pull one off in the morning.

And if you're with her and you blow before she' even started to get worked up... wait ten minutes, and then go again. I guarantee it'll take you longer to come when you're going for the second round.

Alternatively, fuck her, and when you feel like you're about to come, pull out, and distract yourself. Go down on her, kiss her, touch her etc etc.. when you've managed to get yourself in check, start again. Feel yourself coming? Pull out, do something else for awhile. It really works. It'll drive her crazy too.


Wow. Am I a fountain of advice this morning, or what?

 

[deaflepperd]

They make numbing meds that you can put on under the foreskin to deaden the sensation a little (or a lot).
It does make it last longer, but for me it kills some of the pleasure. Don't let her get it on her tongue, though!

 

[randy1]

Something I personally noticed, if I remove the hairs on my shaft, it reduces sensation and stimulation overall (masturbating or penetrating).

I used an electric razor so I couldn't cut anything.

However, in practice, I vote for the come quick and do it again. The guy coming shouldn't be the ultimate part of the act. Keep going, or start over, again, and then again! You'll last longer each time until you start to believe you are incapable anymore.

Enjoy,

randy

 

[UncleTom555]

Well, along the lines of the Ambesol suggestion, I actually read in a book of around-the-house tips and tricks (forgot the books title, sorry) it actually mentioned using a sore throat spray for this very reason. Plus, those are flavored! What harm could they do? Kill the nerve endings resulting in lasting as long as you want, permanently?

 

[deaflepperd]

Well, along the lines of the Ambesol suggestion, I actually read in a book of around-the-house tips and tricks (forgot the books title, sorry) it actually mentioned using a sore throat spray for this very reason. Plus, those are flavored! What harm could they do? Kill the nerve endings resulting in lasting as long as you want, permanently?

<b>Yes they are flavored, but it will numb her mouth if she performs oral with the stuff on your penis. Apparently, that's unpleasant.

(been there [she] done that LOL)</b>

 

[UncleTom555]

Ok, it would numb her mouth if she does oral. But, my question this time, would it have any adverse effects if used to prevent orgasm when intending on having full intercourse?

 

[deaflepperd]

Ok, it would numb her mouth if she does oral. But, my question this time, would it have any adverse effects if used to prevent orgasm when intending on having full intercourse?

<b>I've not found any adverse effects to using flavored gels than unflavored gels of any sort. I suppose there might be a few sensitive skinners out there who might break out if allergic to the flavoring chemicals, but you won't know till you try. They all numbed the same and served their purpose.</b>