Need to get laid

[borgjedi]

i am a 26 year old male who is still a virgin. I need sex so bad . If any women in ohio want to teach me or if anyone has a suggestion respond

 

[Sebastian Sanders]

I have a suggestion. Try and figure out the reason you haven't had sex, and then take action based on that. Also, desperation isn't attractive. It's fair enough that you're desperate, but you need to think about not showing that in real life.

 

[borgjedi]

You are right

 

[lilpriss]

I personally don't think there's anything wrong with being a Virgin at that age. I wish I'd still been one then. It's amazing what reading can do for you. learning about sex can be enlightening in and of itself.

As wonderful as sex is, remeber this there's always the down side... Say you've finally done it and the girl has a disease.. or crabs... or whtever. Ok, so that hasn't happened... now what about this... you have sex and your phone rings a month later, "umm, I think I might be pregnant... I'm late"

believe me there are worse fates than virginity.
When you do find the one you are going to have sex with, it will be all the more better for waiting.

 

[Sebastian Sanders]

You are right

Well that's not necessarily true. I might be right and I might be wrong. But either way, if you have a think about it, you might realise it's a non-issue, and that if you do just suddenly get laid, it might not even solve the main reasons you're depressed and wanting intimacy.

So have a think about it. Perhaps even talk to a counsellor. I have been to a counsellor before, when I've been depressed or lonely.

Also See if you can think of your virginity as an asset! Can you feel good about yourself for being a virgin? Try and think about it in a different way Maybe you have relatives who never found a life partner or never found true intimacy, and you're scared that'll happen to you.

 

[MsSpellChecker]

I wish I were still a virgin. I was dumb and gave it up when I was still just a kid (16). One's virginity is a wonderful thing. Read up on sex as much as you can so when you finally do it you won't seem so inexperienced. Nothing worse than a virgin that needs to be taught how to have sex.

 

[shescurious]

I wish I were still a virgin. I was dumb and gave it up when I was still just a kid (16). One's virginity is a wonderful thing. Read up on sex as much as you can so when you finally do it you won't seem so inexperienced. Nothing worse than a virgin that needs to be taught how to have sex.

Isn't that half of the fun though...teaching and learning from each other. No matter how much a person reads up on a subject it still doesn't replace experience. If you don't have the patience to teach a virgin for their sake I hope you are never with one. That can really ruin it for the "student"

As for being a virgin borgjedi, it is something to be proud of. I just wonder if it is really sex you crave or closeness, affection, and intimacy. There are many ways to attain those things without having sex. I would look for a friend first.

Good Luck,
Shescurious