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Need some creativity in making a story.

Not to come across as dismissive, but are you asking for someone to give you a premise for a story with those specific elements? To write it for you?

Because otherwise, I'd suggest you start writing by yourself and see how far you get. You're more likely to get useful input if you do some of the hard work yourself first.
 
sure. here it goes:

Infidelity in a relationship can evoke a range of strong emotions, and people's reactions to a partner cheating on them are often complex and deeply personal. Here are some common reasons why individuals may feel upset when their spouses cheat:

  1. Betrayal of Trust: Infidelity is a breach of trust, one of the foundational elements of a healthy relationship. Discovering that a partner has cheated can shatter the trust that has been built over time, leading to feelings of betrayal.
  2. Emotional Pain: The emotional pain resulting from infidelity can be intense. The sense of loss, rejection, and emotional turmoil can be overwhelming, causing significant distress for the person who has been cheated on.
  3. Impact on Self-Esteem: Infidelity can lead to feelings of inadequacy and negatively affect an individual's self-esteem. The cheated partner may question their own worth and wonder why their spouse sought intimacy or connection elsewhere.
  4. Broken Promises: Marriage often involves vows and commitments to each other. Infidelity is a violation of those promises, and the realization that a partner has not upheld their commitment can be deeply disappointing and hurtful.
  5. Fear of Abandonment: Discovering a partner's infidelity can trigger fears of abandonment. The person who has been cheated on may worry about the stability and future of the relationship, fearing that their partner's actions may lead to a breakup or divorce.
  6. Impact on Family: Infidelity doesn't just affect the couple; it can have repercussions for the entire family, especially if there are children involved. The betrayed partner may be concerned about the potential disruption to family life.
  7. Loss of Security: Infidelity can disrupt the sense of security that comes with a committed relationship. The betrayed partner may feel uncertain about the future and question the stability of their emotional and financial well-being.
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and:

Discovering that you've been cheated on can be an incredibly painful and challenging experience. Coping with infidelity is a highly personal process, and individuals may find different strategies helpful. Here are some general suggestions on what someone might consider doing when they've been cheated on:

  1. Allow Yourself to Feel: It's important to acknowledge and allow yourself to feel the emotions that arise, whether it's anger, sadness, betrayal, or a mix of different feelings. Suppressing emotions can prolong the healing process.
  2. Seek Support: Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or a therapist who can provide emotional support and understanding. Talking about your feelings with someone you trust can be cathartic and help you gain perspective.
  3. Set Boundaries for Communication: If you're in a position to do so, communicate with your partner about your feelings and establish boundaries for discussions. It's essential to have open and honest conversations, but these should occur when both parties are emotionally prepared.
  4. Consider Professional Help: Individual or couples therapy can be beneficial in navigating the complex emotions and decisions that follow infidelity. A therapist can provide guidance, facilitate communication, and help both partners understand and address underlying issues.
  5. Take Time for Yourself: Allow yourself the space and time to heal. Focus on self-care, engage in activities that bring you joy, and prioritize your well-being.
  6. Evaluate the Relationship: Reflect on the relationship and consider whether rebuilding trust is possible and if both partners are willing to put in the necessary effort. It may be helpful to reassess the relationship and what you want for your future.
  7. Make Informed Decisions: Consider the circumstances, the reasons behind the infidelity, and whether both partners are committed to making positive changes. Decisions about the future of the relationship should be made with careful thought and consideration.
  8. Set Realistic Expectations: Rebuilding trust takes time, and progress may not be linear. It's important to have realistic expectations and be patient with the healing process.
  9. Focus on Self-Growth: Use the experience as an opportunity for personal growth. Consider what you've learned about yourself and your needs in a relationship, and use this insight to move forward.
  10. Consider Your Future: Ultimately, decide what is best for you and your well-being. Whether that involves working towards reconciliation or choosing to end the relationship, prioritize what aligns with your values and long-term happiness.
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now you can write your story.
 
EmilyMiller said:
I kinda wonder how often these are the alts of regulars who are just yanking our chains.

Emily
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yep. wanna be supportive of new people coming in, but starting to think it's someone who's burned too many bridges under their own username and has resorted to regularly drop in something like this, or an 'abandoned story' post now and then to try just to troll a reaction.

OP - If you're serious:

Story Ideas
 
Tommelon said:
Want to include cheating, affair, sex, bdsm and more. Please private message me.
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Well you'll basically cover three of the four if you just write about a wife cheating on her husband with another man.

Have her lover tie her up and spank her and walla, all four covered.

You're welcome.
 
StillStunned said:
It's a no-won situation with these threads. If we make fun of the OP, we're accused of not being welcoming. If we give serious replies, it's Poe's Law.
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I think the general demeanor of the OP is the determining factor. There have been many new posters welcomed in a friendly manner.

Emily
 
Am I the only one who thinks the OP would have a full dance card within the first 10 minutes of posting this on the Story Ideas thread?

I mean like swatting away leg-humpers popular.
 
StillStunned said:
It's a no-won situation with these threads. If we make fun of the OP, we're accused of not being welcoming. If we give serious replies, it's Poe's Law.
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My reply was serious. If you can't bring your own creativity to writing, you are trying the wrong activity--and it's best to hear/understand that earlier than later.
 
Tommelon said:
Want to include cheating, affair, sex, bdsm and more. Please private message me.
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Okay, serious reply. Here's an existing story fitting your criteria by one of my favorite authors:

Submission Denied (4.56) He lied to Her. She taught him to regret it.
Hot
BDSM 12/20/01
 
jhealy55 said:
Am I the only one who thinks the OP would have a full dance card within the first 10 minutes of posting this on the Story Ideas thread?

I mean like swatting away leg-humpers popular.
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I'm not sure what you mean by that but as an SI regular, such posts are usually ignored. We get between 4-6 "write my story for me" posts per month and it's become old hat, not even worth making fun of. There's a new one today.
 
The problem with the OP’s post is the lack of engagement. It’s ultra-brief. It’s pretty uninformative. It doesn’t introduce the poster. And it asks people to PM.

All red flags, as is the OP’s posting history.

I really don’t think it’s true that newbies get treated badly. I think it depends on how credible you are and how you go about it.

Emily
 
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EmilyMiller said:
The problem with the OP’s post is the lack of engagement. It’s ultra-brief. It’s pretty uninformative. It doesn’t introduce the poster. And it asks people to PM.

All red flags, as is the OP’s posting history.

I really don’t think it’s true that newbies get treated badly. I thinking depends on how credible you are and how you go about it.

Emily
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Exactly.

They may as well have just posted "I'm looking for someone to sext with." Because if they actually wanted to write a story, they'd have offered more details and asked actual questions about writing.
 
The other tell is the disappearing OP of course. Fire and forget to respond.

Another plague: post something that it would be self-evident to a six year old could be taken as offensive to some, then get all bent out of shape when, it’s surprisingly offensive to some. Like zero self-awareness.

I mean, come on people, I’m fricking ND and at least try to think about this shit.

Emily
 
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