bluorchid99
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any girls out there want to tell me why it is so hard to find single bisexual girls out there to share excitement and erotic times with my husband and me? Maybe it's my location...lol...let me know!!!
need some advice.....
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Bandit58
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Tell me about it......I'm looking for a female for some one on one, but all I get seems to be couples. Even though I am in a relationship with a man, he doesn't feel the need to be present, which others seem to find strange....
Sorry, I'm in Sydney Australia...a bit far away!
Sorry, I'm in Sydney Australia...a bit far away!
I know the feeling...
Of course I just started posting today, so maybe I should be more patient
Still...my SO and I started fantasizing lately and I'm really interested in taking it a step further. I'd really love to hear from a lady who wants to awaken my bi side.
Too bad we don't live closer to each other, huh?
Of course I just started posting today, so maybe I should be more patient
Still...my SO and I started fantasizing lately and I'm really interested in taking it a step further. I'd really love to hear from a lady who wants to awaken my bi side.
Too bad we don't live closer to each other, huh?
PeachedCream
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Anyone know someone in Alabama?
the_deciever69
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Hello PeachedCream, care to chat?
SweetErika
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I'm not single, but I have two concerns about joining a couple:
1) It's a personal safety issue. I'm sure it's not a very logical fear, but there are a hell of a lot of wackos (women and men) out there who probably wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of a woman. I saw an ad the other day..."come over, let's drink, and move to the bedroom" No thanks. I would only feel safe with a couple that I knew extremely well platonically beforehand.
2) I want to be with a woman alone the first time and every so often. Men change the atmosphere and experience significantly. If I was curious about being with a woman, I would want my first experience to be just with a woman so I could see what that's really like (without any "male interference").
As a married bi woman, the other issue is that it doesn't feel fair for me to join a couple, without her being open to having my husband watch sometime(s).
That's my take on why it's so hard to find a woman to join in...it's probably a lot easier to find another couple who's open to trading off or having the men watching the women together.
1) It's a personal safety issue. I'm sure it's not a very logical fear, but there are a hell of a lot of wackos (women and men) out there who probably wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of a woman. I saw an ad the other day..."come over, let's drink, and move to the bedroom" No thanks. I would only feel safe with a couple that I knew extremely well platonically beforehand.
2) I want to be with a woman alone the first time and every so often. Men change the atmosphere and experience significantly. If I was curious about being with a woman, I would want my first experience to be just with a woman so I could see what that's really like (without any "male interference").
As a married bi woman, the other issue is that it doesn't feel fair for me to join a couple, without her being open to having my husband watch sometime(s).
That's my take on why it's so hard to find a woman to join in...it's probably a lot easier to find another couple who's open to trading off or having the men watching the women together.
Angelofsex
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Being with another woman is so nice.........and you just looking in the wrong place.......check www.bisexualplayground.com
Maybe there you might get lucky.
Maybe there you might get lucky.
I know exactly what you mean.
My BF and I would love to find a girl to join us, even if it was just her and I together while he watched. We'd even love to find a girl who would be with him while I watched (Not that we'd mind finding a girl who's willing to participate with both of us )
I've posted messages in lots of personals, but I never get any replies. It's frustrating because we are both really into that, but can never find a girl willing.
Lol, so if you know anybody from Indiana who wants to "help us out" let me know ; )
My BF and I would love to find a girl to join us, even if it was just her and I together while he watched. We'd even love to find a girl who would be with him while I watched (Not that we'd mind finding a girl who's willing to participate with both of us
)I've posted messages in lots of personals, but I never get any replies. It's frustrating because we are both really into that, but can never find a girl willing.
Lol, so if you know anybody from Indiana who wants to "help us out" let me know ; )
Angelofsex said:Being with another woman is so nice.........and you just looking in the wrong place.......check www.bisexualplayground.com
Maybe there you might get lucky.
Interesting site there, Angel! Thanks for passing it on!
oxford_flame_uk
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It is hard to find fems to join in but when you do it's SOO good. My gf's mate joined us for a 3some last year and it was incredible - keep looking and it will happen!
If you use Yahoo the link below is good for finding local people.
http://members.yahoo.com/interests?.oc=a
If you use Yahoo the link below is good for finding local people.
http://members.yahoo.com/interests?.oc=a
Star4Short
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I ask myself the same thing and then I see your thread but then realize how far away you are.
bluorchid99
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still looking....
all I keep hearing is that I'm so far away from all the bi-girls...maybe I need to move...
all I keep hearing is that I'm so far away from all the bi-girls...maybe I need to move...
SweetErika
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Re: I know what you mean
It seems that way, doesn't it? OR, they say they want one-on-one, but then ask if their man can "just watch". I don't have a problem with adding men sometimes, but nothing irritates me more than a liar!
Wildtiger...I'm sure there are plenty of women who want to be alone with you... you just have to sort through the bad ones to find the good! Good luck (and wish me luck too)!
wildtiger said:
It seems that way, doesn't it? OR, they say they want one-on-one, but then ask if their man can "just watch".
I don't have a problem with adding men sometimes, but nothing irritates me more than a liar!Wildtiger...I'm sure there are plenty of women who want to be alone with you... you just have to sort through the bad ones to find the good! Good luck (and wish me luck too)!
alonelygal
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i'd offer some advice but...
i'm having the same problem. He and i are looking for people to play with... men, women, and couples. All we seem to be finding are single men who shy away when they are told that i won't be the only one being shared. We haven't gotten any responses from women, and i'm searching on three different sites.
Good luck, just wanted to let you know that you're soo not alone!
*course, if you can make your way to Philly anytime...*
joanna
i'm having the same problem. He and i are looking for people to play with... men, women, and couples. All we seem to be finding are single men who shy away when they are told that i won't be the only one being shared. We haven't gotten any responses from women, and i'm searching on three different sites.
Good luck, just wanted to let you know that you're soo not alone!
*course, if you can make your way to Philly anytime...*
joannabluorchid99
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all in the same boat...
well, I guess I feel a little bit better knowing that we are not alone in the frustration of finding someone to "play" with. What are two sexy people to do? Yes, I've found that there are a lot of liers out there who just say what you want to hear until you get right down to it, then someone feels left out. It kinda makes me want to give up. What ever happened to "no strings attached" sex? (no strings safe sex!!!)
well, I guess I feel a little bit better knowing that we are not alone in the frustration of finding someone to "play" with. What are two sexy people to do? Yes, I've found that there are a lot of liers out there who just say what you want to hear until you get right down to it, then someone feels left out. It kinda makes me want to give up. What ever happened to "no strings attached" sex? (no strings safe sex!!!)
