Need ideas....

[FFhotwife]

I am a new poster here and just want to say I love this site!!!! I have a question that I hope you all can help me with. My wedding anniversary is coming up and I would love to do something really special for my husband. We have been with each other for 15 years and married 9. We have a great relationship and still have an unbelievable sex life. We have tried (or are willing to try) just about anything. I don't want the same old, same old and want our night to be totally wild. Three years ago we got a hotel room, played our own version of a game (truth or dare) and he dared me to get a lap dance...we ended up at a strip bar and I got a lap dance-hee hee. We have also had photo shoots, made some really great videos and just all in all have wonderful, exotic, raw sex. Please give me some ideas. I also don't want him to cum too soon, I want our night to last. BTW, he is a firefighter/musician...please help

 

[flawed_ethics]

Hmmm... special... let's see...

Well, you already play sex games and make videos. I imagine you've gone the blindfold route already then. Restraints? Nothing like being tied up and teased sexually such that you don't know what's coming next.

Roleplay? He's already a firefighter though. Maybe if that still rocks your boat, you could run with it. Or, maybe have him as a pirate? Arr matey!

Just act lewd and sexual in public. Literally paint the town red by getting it on in every parking lot, elevator, movie theater, restroom, etc... you can all over the town.

Some random thoughts. Sorry - I'm not good at brainstorming either!

 

[OSA]

I'll second that suggestion

FF, you helped me on my thread, so as a guy, I'll give you a suggestion that would do it for me.

Get risky in public. You see the movie 9 1/2 Weeks? You remember when they were fooling around in various public places. Do something like that, if you guys haven't explored that option.

Go to a restaraunt somewhere that's kinda of low key and wear a short skirt with nothing under it. See how far you can get without getting caught. Then go see a movie (less risky, but can still be fun). Give him some awesome oral during the movie. Don't let him finish. Maybe go shopping at a mall or department store. Go try on some lingerie and have him come "help" you in the dressing room. Consider going for a walk in a park and find a good place to fool around. During all of this keep making him wait. Finish it up at home in style. By then, he'll be begging for it.

That would be a great b-day for me.

Have fun and good luck!

 

[FFhotwife]

Thanks....

I have a few things in mind and can't wait until tomorrow. I will post a follow-up. God, with all this talk about talking dirty, etc, on this board...lets just say he is gonna have one hell of an anniversary.

Thanks again.

 

[OSA]

You have to let us know...

... how it went. My wife is out of town for the next two weeks. I have to live vicariously through the folks on this board. So, on Thursday (making the assumption you are somewhere where it is currently Tuesday) after you've recovered and can walk again, please share what and how it turned out.

Good luck!