Need ideas for sub/dom phone relationship

[Wheeman]

So far its only phone but we're looking to meet sometime. So far just been doing things like ice/wax pinching nipples, etc and I was looking for some new material. Lots of you creative folks out there so I was curious if you had any ideas for new things for us to play around with. Shes usually the domminant one but I'll be making her a sub soon. we switch off like that. Thanks for any advice you have to keep this fresh. Take care.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

now the question is are you talking about having each other do these things over the phone or fantasies/explorations to chase as you work towards trasnitioning to real time?

 

[Wheeman]

hmm both I suppose, mainly over the phone though as you first implied

 

[MasterPhoenix]

IF you are actually having one another do the 'torture' over the phone, be CAREFUL.

Not to sound like I am some kind of nag or Den Master, cuz I am NOT. But if you are both new to the lifestyle and have not expirienced these sensations before, they can and will be highly INTENSE.

I spent the better part of three years on the phone with My girl, before we were able to go RT for the first time, so I know what I am talking about. Take it slow.... This is a long journey not a sprint.

I hope I dont sound like I am chastising you or being prechy, cuz again that aint Me. I just dont want to see anyone get hurt.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I think it all depends on the terms of the relationship, both now and future directions, and the people involved. One reason why I nver looked for or welcomed online or over the phone play was simply because it wasn't enough, didn't even begin to touch my soul, and basically seemed a waste of time and too much into fantasy play than reality. What we spent time doing on the phone was speaking about our feelings, dreams, hopes, what was important to each of us, what we wanted from a relationship. That gave a firm foundation the the RL relationship which has followed and led to a much quicker and fun introduction to RL play....but we were planning on a future RL relationship so were not limited to finding our thrills through technology based connections. It was our choice because it didn't work for us any other way, others can make that work.

Catalina

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I think it all depends on the terms of the relationship, both now and future directions, and the people involved. One reason why I nver looked for or welcomed online or over the phone play was simply because it wasn't enough, didn't even begin to touch my soul, and basically seemed a waste of time and too much into fantasy play than reality. What we spent time doing on the phone was speaking about our feelings, dreams, hopes, what was important to each of us, what we wanted from a relationship. That gave a firm foundation the the RL relationship which has followed and led to a much quicker and fun introduction to RL play....but we were planning on a future RL relationship so were not limited to finding our thrills through technology based connections. It was our choice because it didn't work for us any other way, others can make that work.

Catalina

That is how it has worked out for My little one and I as well. Yes we have done on-line & phone "play" but we used that as a prelude for our RT expierences. Having used phone scenes as the introduction it gave Me a good idea of what she would be ready for, and as I already knew how to listen for subtile changes in her voice or breathing as indicators of how a scene was progressing, that previous expiereence had proven invaluable.