need help!!!!

[Guest]

Hi,

I am 28yrs and am married for the past 2 months. We've been having sex only after marriage and we both were virgins before that. I used to masturbate quite regularly(almost daily) for almost 5-6 years. Problem is, during foreplay she gets totally aroused with what i do to her and I get a hard-on too but my hard-on does not stay for more than about 10-15 mins. As soon as I put on the condom and start the intercourse, I somehow seem to lose my hard on! we've tried only the 'me-on-top' position. any suggestions as to what other position would help? please keep in mind that we are not experienced and so any suggestions keeping in mind your initial few intercourses would help.

Regards
G

 

[It'sasecret]

You may just need sometime to get used to wearing condoms. I know my husband did when we first started having sex. Also, does she jerk you off at all? You may just need your penis stimulated. Good luck!

 

[luckyguy]

You might try having her suck you. Can you keep a hard on while she does? Also, can you cum from being sucked? It seems to me that if you can maybe the problem could be anxiety or the lack of feeling when using a condom. Try playing around a little and don't worry, it will probably work.

Good Luck!