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Bushido71XS
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Army, you might want to think about using a lube, remember to go carefully and slowly and get lots of foreplay
Don't worry about the gitters, enjoy the feelings your body and your lover is giving you and you'll be just fine.
Don't worry about the gitters, enjoy the feelings your body and your lover is giving you and you'll be just fine.
Expertise
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First I must appologize. I was confusing you and Dancinvixen in my head and was about to call you a lieing little so and so .... god bless your heart (Sorry SS)
Anyway you probably should be getting advice from the ladies but Bushido's suggestion is good. If you decide to use lube forget KY. If you can get Astroglide it is far superior. An ex used to use it and it was far easier on her and far more pleasurable for me.
Good luck. And when your really ready fear gets tossed out the window.
Anyway you probably should be getting advice from the ladies but Bushido's suggestion is good. If you decide to use lube forget KY. If you can get Astroglide it is far superior. An ex used to use it and it was far easier on her and far more pleasurable for me.
Good luck. And when your really ready fear gets tossed out the window.
CreamyLady
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Well, don't go into it thinking "I don't want to be a virgin anymore."
Go into it with the idea of enjoyment, and a new dimension to your relationship. Lots of foreplay is essential, and Astroglide is an excellent product.
If at any point you feel nervous or jittery or not right, don't push it -- no pun intended. Stop, and relax, and both of you take your time. Remember, it should be a pleasure -- not a chore. If there is some physical discomfort, again, don't feel compelled to continue.
I hope it is a truly marvelous experience for you both.
Go into it with the idea of enjoyment, and a new dimension to your relationship. Lots of foreplay is essential, and Astroglide is an excellent product.
If at any point you feel nervous or jittery or not right, don't push it -- no pun intended. Stop, and relax, and both of you take your time. Remember, it should be a pleasure -- not a chore. If there is some physical discomfort, again, don't feel compelled to continue.
I hope it is a truly marvelous experience for you both.
FlamingoBlue
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Actually...
Astroglide is a water based lube. Try a product called "Venus". It is quite pricey but losing your virginity is a once in a life time occassion.
You referred to virginity as a "problem". Your use of that word is confusing to me. When my daughter decided to be deflowered, I told her that as long as she was planning it, that it should a memorable experience with someone she cared about, very much. It was. The guy is now loooong gone but she has very good memories.
You may also wish to get some advice from your Ob-Gyn or maybe our own Oliver Clozof can offer you some advice.
Astroglide is a water based lube. Try a product called "Venus". It is quite pricey but losing your virginity is a once in a life time occassion.
You referred to virginity as a "problem". Your use of that word is confusing to me. When my daughter decided to be deflowered, I told her that as long as she was planning it, that it should a memorable experience with someone she cared about, very much. It was. The guy is now loooong gone but she has very good memories.
You may also wish to get some advice from your Ob-Gyn or maybe our own Oliver Clozof can offer you some advice.
CreamyLady
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Flamingo Blue, a water based product is fine. According to my ob-gyn, one should never use oil based products; water is far better for us.
FlamingoBlue
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F.Y.I., C.L.,
"Venus" or "Eros" is NOT oil based.
My wife had a hysterectomy when she was 42. She needs a good lubricant. This stuff is slippery as heck. It does not sticky or tacky and it does not dry up, as does astroglide. I don't know what's in it but if you want more info call 212-3373767. That's the tel. number on the squeeze bottle.
My wife and I used astroglide for years and this new stuff makes astroglide look like ancient history.
Try it. You'll like
it.
"Venus" or "Eros" is NOT oil based.
My wife had a hysterectomy when she was 42. She needs a good lubricant. This stuff is slippery as heck. It does not sticky or tacky and it does not dry up, as does astroglide. I don't know what's in it but if you want more info call 212-3373767. That's the tel. number on the squeeze bottle.
My wife and I used astroglide for years and this new stuff makes astroglide look like ancient history.
Try it. You'll like
it.
dancinvixen
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Expertise, how could you so confuse us??????I mean yes, my husband is in the Army, but my name is definitely not the same. <pout>>> <big pout> I am so incredibly hurt.
Armygirl
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thank you
thank you all for the advice
sometimes i word things diffrently like
problem lol did not mean it that way lol
i was just wanting to know about the pain cuse
my friends tell me that is is bad i hope they are
full of shit i really do !
can any one tell me about there first time????
sincerly ArmyGirl
thank you all for the advice
sometimes i word things diffrently like
problem lol did not mean it that way lol
i was just wanting to know about the pain cuse
my friends tell me that is is bad i hope they are
full of shit i really do !
can any one tell me about there first time????
sincerly ArmyGirl
Oh god the first time ... Well I was eighteen (it was my Eighteenth Birthday) and I had been seeing the guy for awhile, you know thought along the lines of "yes this is the one that I want to give my virginity to". We get home from the party, get into my bed, and start to kiss and cuddle. Well of course one thing leads to another, and he is on top of me. I help him enter my pussy and we start to have sex (not make love, just have sex), well he cums, and I still haven't (I am NOW a Multiple Orgasm girl), so he tells me off (Can you beleive him?), I'm like "WTF???" but I have to say that there was no pain for me, and he was fairly big, he eventually got me off with his fingers (Thank god). If that was me now I would just take care of it myself anyway. Now as for the next time (of course not with him), well I have to say that was mind blowing, and I gained my beautiful son out of that relationship. I was more relaxed and knew what I wanted alot more.
Just make sure that you use lots of lube (you know first time and all), get completly comfortable, use lots of foreplay (Fingers, tongues and what not) and have fun, because if there is no fun then it's not worth having sex. Oh and if he tells you off for not cumming, do me a favor and slap him (LOL).
Good Luck with your first time It only gets better
Just make sure that you use lots of lube (you know first time and all), get completly comfortable, use lots of foreplay (Fingers, tongues and what not) and have fun, because if there is no fun then it's not worth having sex. Oh and if he tells you off for not cumming, do me a favor and slap him (LOL).
Good Luck with your first time
It only gets better 